Good morning everyone.
Now, I believe I saw Sai's "current naysaying spirit/ loathe this rule
more than I thought imaginable" comment about 48 hours ago, give or
take, and that is what's triggered this whole mess. I have no beef
with you otherwise, Sai, except now you've escalated it to yellow
cards and rules-based callouts. That's fine and well within the rules.
I understand why you might be hurt, and my second (very sarcastic)
comment was expressly designed to hurt you. I admit as much. I also
regretted having posted that, but I had a busy day and didn't have
time to say so until about 10 hours ago, by which time you'd decided
to invoke Rule 216. Fine, that's your prerogative as a player.
It is also well within your right to say as you wish within the group.
I stand by my second response, where I stated explicitly that I was
'unhappy with [your] assholery/ dickishness'. However you might wish
to frame it now, your statements about 'loathing it more than you
thought imaginable' and 'naysaying spirit' - I mean, wow, tactics are
tactics, but those are very mean things to say about a rule. Whether
we're playing Nomic or not, behaving or saying things like an asshole
are going to raise hackles. I don't know whether you intended to be
offensive, but you were offensive, period.
It's also entirely your choice as to whether and how you wish to
express your tactical decisions within the game, and that you chose to
express it in such a manner speaks more about your intentions. I leave
it to the other players to decide for themselves what that intention
is. Only you know for certain - all I have to work on are the words
you used, and they hurt. Yes, hurt isn't accounted for in the rules.
Maybe it should be. I don't know.
Now: I personally regret having posted the sarcastic comment, because
that was wholly unnecessary and a waste of everyone's time and effort,
and I definitely shouldn't be taking this game that seriously. "It's
only a game." I'm certainly not flaming out, because I think the
game's generally been conducted pretty civilly so far, and I would
like to continue playing.
By the by, do you really think "loathe it more than I thought
imaginable" is qualitatively the same as "fed up with [proposals which
use the rule]"?
If I may, there is a rule which I would like to draw your attention
to:
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Rule 111
If a rule change as proposed is unclear, ambiguous, paradoxical, or
clearly destructive of play, or if it arguable consists of two or more
rule changes compounded, or is an amendment that makes no difference,
or if it is otherwise of questionable value, then the other players
may suggest amendments or argue against the proposal before the vote.
A reasonable amount of time must be allowed for this debate. The
proponent decides on the final form in which the proposal is to be
voted on and decides the time to end debate and vote. The only cure
for a bad proposal is prevention: a negative vote.
A player always has the option to forfeit the game rather than
continue to play or incur a game penalty. No penalty worse than
losing, in the judgement of the player to incur it, may be imposed.
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I allowed reasonable time for the debate, and it was duly voted on.
You exercised your negative vote and expressed your discontent, but it
was passed and is now a rule. Not liking the rule doesn't make you an
asshole or a dickhead, I agree, but what I took umbrage at was the way
you expressed it (i.e., "In my current apparent naysaying spirit and
due to the fact that I loathe this rule more than I could have
imagined possible, I'm going to try and counteract it a little by
voting nay to any proposal written in this form. ") and I stated as
much ("I'm only unhappy with what I perceive
(rightly or wrongly) at Sai's assholery/ dickishness"). Perhaps you
would like to amend your disingenuous callout?