If you can still do so, I'd like to see those rooms you saw reserved
for June 21st.
As for money, what do you need? We begin to work that out by knowing
what we need to do, and then figuring out how to do it, so let us know
(privately if necessary) what you need from other people to help you
make June 21st at American University happen. Is an advance deposit
necessary? If so, how much? Etc.
-M
(Terse email sent from my iPod.)
* Communication between us and American University is painfully slow,
but moving forward. I know Amy's tried calling them a number of times
over the past couple of weeks and today I tried as well but didn't get
through. American University say June 21st may not work, but they say
that "depends" on what we need, which is kind of unhelpful. So again,
until we can actually talk to them more, this is kind of at a
standstill. Since this now needs more prompt attention, I'm making
more phone calls today.
* Partially for venue option reasons and partially for participatory
reasons, I've sent an email to WholeDC.com in an effort to open a
dialogue between myself and the people there.
As Amy mentions below, if June 21st at American University falls
through, then that won't be a tragedy, just a change of plans. :) That
said, I think we're more likely to get *any* date if we keep trying
for June 21st and have to postpone than if we try for a later date in
the first place.
As always, more details as further options become available.
IN THE MEAN TIME, please keep talking about KinkForAll Washington DC
with your friends, and your friends' friends, and especially people
involved in communities that you are not a part of. Rule of averages:
the more participation there is the more likely everything will fall
into place easily. :)
Cheers,
-maymay
Blog: http://maybemaimed.com
Community: http://KinkForAll.org
Volunteering: http://ConversioVirium.org/author/maymay
Stephanie
> If this helps any, the LARP group I work with uses Francis L. Dean &
> Associates insurance. They insure by the event, rather than the year,
> and we usually pay about $300 per event.
>
> http://www.fdean.com/
>
> Stephanie
Thank you, Stephanie! I'm about to get on a bus so I have to shut off
my WiFi but I'll see about looking into this insurance company very
soon. (Yet another thing to add to my to do list.)
When I get the information from American University about what we need
to insure for, exactly, do you think you can help me connect the dots
with what's available at http://fdean.com or do you know someone who
might be good at doing that? Feel free to contact me off-list with
contact details if that's more appropriate.
Cheers,
-maymay
Blog: http://maybemaimed.com
Community: http://KinkForAll.org
Volunteering: http://ConversioVirium.org/author/maymay
> On Tue, May 12, 2009 at 5:53 PM, maymay <bitethea...@gmail.com>
David,
This is a point Amy brought up, too, and it's a good one. We don't
know what American University will come back with in terms of dates
yet, but we are keeping July dates as a definite possibility for a
number of reasons, and the concerns you raise are one of those reasons.
As always, more details will come as we get them. :)
In the mean time, talking to your local LGBTQ contacts would be an
amazing help! I was really thrilled to see a very LGBTQ-heavy presence
at KFANYC and I sincerely hope the same thing happens for KFADC.
Personally, I think we need the LGBTQ people. And I know that,
personally, they are some of my greatest inspirations.
> Hi Everyone,
>
> Just to introduce myself, I recently joined on as an unorganizer for
> Kink For All DC. I have been pretty active in the local kink and
> queer scene, and am very excited about this event!
Hey Chris,
I'm glad you've made it onto the list at last! I've been seeing your
edits on the wiki—thanks for the edits and for exploring how to make
the wiki better. Wiki editing is like gardening; requires lots of
patience, a big-picture view, and can be lots of fun. :) if you feel
really meta, help me make the "how to edit the wiki" wiki pages[0]
even better, too:
http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/UsingTheKinkForAllWiki
> In reference to the date of the event, I should note that I and a
> number of other unorganizers would not be able to attend the event
> if it was held after the 21st (maymay included). Clearly, part of
> the point is that nobody is indispensable, but it is something to
> keep in mind...
>
> I look forward to working with you all!
> Chris
So, yeah, date and venue kind of come hand in hand. If we get a good
date, we can use that to find a good venue. If we get a good venue, we
can use that to find a good date. We seem to have gone the venue route
this time (i.e., nailing down a venue first and then fining an
appropriate date that works for the venue), and we went the date route
with KFANYC (we publicized a date before we even had a venue!).
Both methods work and they both have their pros and cons.
Also, yes, I'm probably going to be on the West coast after the end of
June, and that's one reason I am trying to see June 21st happen for
KinkForAll Washington DC, but if my presence makes or breaks this
event, then I'll have failed. I know I've spoken to *you* about this,
Chris, but since this is a public forum I figured I'd reiterate my
words to you in public for the benefit of anyone else listening:
I want to be at KinkForAll Washington DC, sure, but more than that I
want to *enable* other people to do the kinds of things I'm doing now.
The way I know how to do that best is leading by example. So if you're
on this list and you're thinking about how you can help, just see what
myself and the other active and transparent unorganizers are up to
(I'm kind of frighteningly easy to track) and then do as I do. What
makes an unorganizer an unorganizer is *action,* not *title.* The more
people *doing* things the more gets done; it's as simple as that.
I've seen a lot of sign ups on the KFADC page with participation
listed as "unorganize" but so far only a fraction of those people have
taken any other step. And that's fine; you can do however much you
want to do or feel that you can do. No unorganizer gets treated
differently from any other participant, and every participant can help
organize regardless of what they call themselves. I.e., being an
"unorganizer" merely means that you're taking responsibility for
things *beyond* yourself *upon* yourself.
I'm choosing to take a lot of responsibility for KinkForAll Washington
DC because a first event in a new place is always a bit harder to make
happen than a second or a third. (People will much more easily jump on
board with a project they see it making progress than they will start
one themselves.) Case in point, I'm not really involved in
unorganizing the KinkForAll New York City 2 event because, well, there
are enough folks in NYC who have experienced what this is like and
want to make it happen again, and they know the details as to how.
I'm actively involved in KFADC because people in the DC area, notably
Amy and Paul, showed their own initiative to start something and asked
me for support. Like parts of our wiki say, KinkForAll is as much
about support and community as it is about information and educational
unconferences.
So the point is…if I can't make it to KFADC because I'm on the West
coast, oh well. But hey, that's *precisely* why I want to make sure
you guys have a solid Internet set up, so I can follow all your tweets
and liveblogging and join the KFADC chatroom (once we make one) and
all of that good stuff. :) I will put the most effort into the things
I think will be the most valuable for me. I want *you* to put the most
effort into the things you think will be most valuable for you. Our
challenge is to consistently find only win-win situations, not
settlements, and I strongly believe that with the tools we have
available today, there is very little need to play zero-sum games.
THAT's collaboration.
If you haven't seen it yet, you guys might find Clay Shirky's TED
Talk[1] video about exactly this topic very interesting:
http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/clay_shirky_on_institutions_versus_collaboration.html
Hope this makes sense…. It's late and I'm on a bus. And now I'm going
back to work on my day job stuff. Later I'll see if I can't move some
of this stuff in to the KFA Unorganizer's Guide[2] wiki pages. Helping
me do that is always appreciated, as well. ;)
Cheers,
-maymay
Blog: http://maybemaimed.com
Community: http://KinkForAll.org
Volunteering: http://ConversioVirium.org/author/maymay
EXTERNAL REFERENCES:
[0] http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/UsingTheKinkForAllWiki
[1] http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/clay_shirky_on_institutions_versus_collaboration.html
[2] http://kinkforall.pbworks.com/OrganizeALocalKinkForAll
Hello Everyone,It is unfortunate that American University is being so difficult to communicate with. Given that this has been a clear trend, it seems that we can expect this issue to continue.
Thank you for all the effort that you have put into this so far, you have gone above and beyond what anyone would expect of someone who has to be organizing from afar!
Secondly, I do agree with Maymay that it would be helpful to involve more people as unorganizers. This will be necessary to effectively reach out to the range of communities that we would like to participate. I do believe that there are a number of different ways to involve people and I certainly do not think that lack of involvement on this email list necessarily indicates a lack of interest.
However, I very much agree that the best way to support the event at this point is to talk to your friends and get the word out!
> Hello Everyone,
>
> It is unfortunate that American University is being so difficult to
> communicate with. Given that this has been a clear trend, it seems
> that we can expect this issue to continue.
To be fair, I'm pretty sure that American University is treating me as
a corporate entity. This is probably simply the way they work. As you
may know, KinkForAll cannot afford to be classed as a corporate event
and so this is probably why they have suggested the GLBTA on their
campus[0].
> Maymay, I can certainly understand your desire to step away from
> organizing the venue, particularly given that you are not a DC
> resident to begin with. It seems that if you are feeling
> overwhelmed by taking on these responsibilities, it would be helpful
> for you to pass along the information that you currently have. I,
> for one, would be happy to start discussions with AU. Thank you for
> all the effort that you have put into this so far, you have gone
> above and beyond what anyone would expect of someone who has to be
> organizing from afar!
Thanks for this offer, Chris. I'll send you the contact information I
have for American University privately right now in deference to the
AU staff's desire not to have direct contact information for their
employees plastered on a public forum like this one. Can you
coordinate this effort with Amy, who was originally doing much of the
legwork to get in touch with them?
Amy, are you interested in picking up the conversation with American
University where I have left off? Can you coordinate this with Chris?
> Secondly, I do agree with Maymay that it would be helpful to involve
> more people as unorganizers. This will be necessary to effectively
> reach out to the range of communities that we would like to
> participate. I do believe that there are a number of different ways
> to involve people and I certainly do not think that lack of
> involvement on this email list necessarily indicates a lack of
> interest. However, I very much agree that the best way to support
> the event at this point is to talk to your friends and get the word
> out!
>
> Take care,
> Chris
A lack of involvement on this list is not necessarily a lack of
interest, but it *is* a lack of action. You're a great example,
actually, Chris, of someone who seems very interested *and* has also
actually done something with that interest. I thank you much more for
your action than your interest.
On May 20, 2009, at 12:43 AM, Sara Eileen wrote:
> I agree with you in theory, Chris, but in reality the mailing list
> is an exceptionally powerful tool for both communication and
> organization. KFANYC organized all of its technical needs via the
> mailing list, and did all of its essential pre and post discussion
> in this forum. This *is* a usable venue for organization.
>
> If there is not lack of interest, that is great to hear! But
> interest isn't enough to get this event off the ground; you need
> community engagement, both here and on the wiki.
Yeah, what Sara said. :)
Cheers,
-maymay
Blog: http://maybemaimed.com
Community: http://KinkForAll.org
Volunteering: http://ConversioVirium.org/author/maymay
EXTERNAL REFERENCES: