The only similar post that I know of is this one:
https://groups.google.com/forum/?fromgroups#!topic/jplayer/1YV9V-bufgQI was able to reproduce your problem on Safari 5.0.3 OSX though, unlike that other post.
I notice there is a lot of old code remaining in some of the links. I do not think it is actually causing a problem though, since the jQuery selectors are not found and jPlayer would ignore the unknown methods, like the old onSoundComplete method. I was looking at the time at:
http://jmsuijkerbuijk.com/choreograffiti.htmlIn general, I feel that the problem is related to the other post in that it seems that the site is not responding fast enough or the requests are being aborted. While reloading on my Mac Mini and reloading at the same time on Win 7 Firefox, I even got some of the OGG files to abort part way through the download. This seemed to affect the short 5 second track on the page linked above all the time too. Only the first 3 seconds would play.
I suggest that you setup a basic test hiden on your site. Use the Playlist code like you did from Demo 2, but change to use your links. Then use the jPlayer inspector to see what is going on event wise. You probably want to link the test to me at that point so i can review.
Something is wrong with your setup, but the only thing I can suggest at the moment is that the server is too slow.
Unfortunately, i have not been able to test the low bandwidth and high response times effect on jPlayer.
Another test would be to switch the solution priority to "flash, html" and see if the flash copes better with the server response.
I tried testing on IE8, and after a 3 error messages and then a reload (again with the errors) it works and showed your IE sucks message, but the player worked. I noticed the mp3 did not always play though on the playlist, but if you changed and switch back again it would work. It suggestes that the server is not responding.
Incidentally, we upgraded the jPlayer site server to deal with the demands of the media. Previously, we spread the media across 3 servers to spread the load. I never noticed this problem before. I really need to find a way to handicap my bandwidth so I can test this aspect.
Best regards,
Mark P.