Dear Jean and All,
I don't believe that a hevra kadisha should deny taharah when requested prior to cremation. I do believe that, as a matter of policy, our sacred fellowships should encourage pro-active community education and dialogue, to reach through the silence that obscures what cremation actually involves.
Unfortunately, our conventional Jewish anti-cremation discourse usually misses two core Jewish concerns: (a) increased environmental devastation and (b) increased vulnerability to criminal desecration (in the absence of sh'mirah and full levayah).
U.S. cremation rates currently represent more than 2 million hours of fossil fuels burned at 4-digit temperatures every year. This energy cost does not include the additional processing of bone fragments after each burning, and the EPA has repeatedly declined to regulate the range of crematory emissions.
Every few years, desecration scandals involving hundreds of bodies (and sometimes more than a thousand) are quickly forgotten after they fade from the media headlines.
If anyone is interested in exploring these issues further, please visit Cremation Dialogues on my website. I am also offering a non-sectarian program in Brooklyn, NY on June 8th that will bring these issues to more general attention in a relaxed environment: And When I Die: The Musical!
May we go from strength to strength.
With many blessings for the Season of Revelation and beyond,
Regina
Rabbi Regina Sandler-Phillips, MSW,
MPH
"In
cities of diversity...we organize ourselves and our
money...
to
sustain the poor...and visit the sick...and bury the dead...and comfort the
bereaved...
for
these are ways of peace." (Jerusalem Talmud, Tractate
Gittin)