Not all high index lenses are of the same quality. Not all anti
reflective coatings are of the same quality. Not all frames are of the
same quality.
Lens manufacturers use different quality raw materials and different
manufacturing processes and thus, quality will vary. These differences
are more noticeable the higher index the lens. This is because you're
bending light at a more extreme rate the higher index you use. The
more you bend light, the greater you'll notice the deficiencies in the
lens. Ask most professional photographers who makes the best quality
lenses for their camera. They'll likely tell you Zeiss or Leica or
Seiko, but these lenses are among the most expensive on the market.
The professional photographer doesn't expect to go to a much less well
known manufacturer in China and receive the same quality as the Leica
but for far less. But that's basically what's happening with the
majority of online discount eyeglass companies - and it's likely
what's happened to you with eyebuydirect.
That's not to say that your local optical shop always uses the top
quality lenses or frames and charges you accordingly, but most of the
time you get what you pay for.
Most people might not notice the difference. Many people might notice
a difference but weigh this against the lower price they paid. But if
you're used to getting Seiko 1.67 aspheric quality lenses (and paying
$300 for them), you'll be disappointed to discover that Zenni's $39
upgrade for their 1.67 lenses just don't quite match up.
Besides material quality and manufacturing quality control, the lens
design is also important for high index lenses. That's likely what
you're noticing when you looked in the mirror the other day. The base
curve (the curve on the inside of the lens for you) varies depending
on the design and shape and even the rotation of the lens if you have
astigmatism.
So, when you're buying frames and lenses online for a fraction of the
cost of what you pay in your local store, you're not getting the exact
same level of quality but for a lot less money. I've used the analogy
in a previous thread of the Hyundai versus the Mercedes or Honda.
Hyundai makes a fine car, with a great warranty for a very good price.
For people who view a car as simply an appliance that transports them
from place to place, they're fine with the Hyundai. But, no one
rationally thinks that the Hyundai and the Mercedes cost the same to
produce, except Mercedes simply pockets the rest as profit.
You will need to decide for yourself whether the difference in price
is worth the difference in quality.
Having said that, I encourage you to keep trying your new glasses,
give them a fair and honest chance - assuming the prescription is
correct, most people really like their discount glasses they buy
online.
J. Evan