That's a lot of questions :) Generally, yes, share-with-note (and the
Note in Reader bookmarklet) will generate copies of items. The copied
items have a user/-/state/com.google/link origin stream (vs. a feed
origin stream for regular items). Note that user 1 does a
share-with-note and then user 2 re-shares that item (with no note,
just a regular share) then the item will still have an origin stream
of user 1, but a <category> of user 2 (if you're only following user
2).
As far as unsharing goes, you can use an edit-tag request to remove
the broadcast tag as you would for any other item. We don't currently
support editing of the note once it's created.
Normally, notes are embedded into the body of /atom/ responses. If
you'd like them to be in a separate (namespaced) element so you can
special-case their rendering, you can add the ann=false (or is it
ann=true? -- on an iPhone right now so I can't double-check).
There is also the concept of "notes" in Reader, which are standalone
items that originate purely within Reader (you can see the UI for them
at the top of Your Shared Items, Your Stuff, and People You Follow).
These have an origin stream of user/-/state/com.google/post. They can
also be deleted (in the UI they have a delete action) but I don't
remember off-hand the URL for that.
Mihai