After posting I realized that the the .config file was supposed to be
like this
################ BEGIN FILE ExcelDNA.xll.config ###################
<?xml version ="1.0"?>
<configuration>
<runtime>
<assemblyBinding xmlns="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:asm.v1">
<dependentAssembly>
<assemblyIdentity type="win32"
name="Native.MyComModule" version="1.0.0.0" />
</dependentAssembly>
</assemblyBinding>
</runtime>
</configuration>