Oinarp Mot
So if you remember a few weeks ago this incredibly beautiful girl at
the B&N said
I was her type and I was thinking she was a little young so...
I was reluctant.
The words were:
Innocent and Compassion if you remember.
The comments were social conditioning, etc.
Last week I spoke to her for a few minutes.
She is adorable. More beautiful than I could believe.
Sweet. Beautiful and attractive and flirtatious.
And after that she just keeps staring at me.
Your guess is as good as...
Yesterday I asked one of the bookstores attendants about her.
SHE'S 17!
I swear she looks like she is 22 or 25.
I would consider asking her out if...
BUT SHE IS 17!
I couldn't sleep all night last night.
Very disturbing.
Talk about cold water on any attraction that was there for me.
I knew she was young but she is still in high school.
Anyway, thought you could use a laugh on me.
And of course I had so much anguish about it if you remember.
What a puts.
TP
Mr. Twenty Twenty
She was a sophomore, I had assumed a COLLEGE sophomore.
I was a...
Well.... I had a badge, and a gun, and....
Enough common sense to exit and cover my arse.
Be glad you asked.
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Oinarp Mot
She is cute though and I will be friendly.
She's a cutie.
Perhaps I can set her up with one of my nephews?
They would be indebted to me forever.
There I go...always thinking of someone else.
Wuji
When will she turn 18? Cause it could be soon enough.
And if she is cute and smart and friendly... She may be "The One"
you've been waiting for... Why base it on a number unless it can land
onebin jail and even then at 17 you could still hang out and see where
the friendship goes.
I've always enjoyed my friendships with younger people... I say
"discover" more about her and you as there seems to be a nice energy
there when you write about her.
That's my thoughts... Nothing wrong with hanging out and developing
more of a friendship... I'll bet you could contribute a lot to her and
she to yours!
Rick
On Jan 27, 9:52 pm, Oinarp Mot <oin...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Of course.
>
> She is cute though and I will be friendly.
> She's a cutie.
>
> Perhaps I can set her up with one of my nephews?
>
> They would be indebted to me forever.
>
> There I go...always thinking of someone else.
>
> On Jan 27, 2010, at 9:50 PM, Mr. Twenty Twenty wrote:
>
>
>
> > Been there TP.
>
> > She was a sophomore, I had assumed a COLLEGE sophomore.
>
> > I was a...
>
> > Well.... I had a badge, and a gun, and....
>
> > Enough common sense to exit and cover my arse.
>
> > Be glad you asked.
>
> > 20/20
>
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There is no CONSENT in NJ. It's all run by the MOB.
Anyhoo....
TP, so let's say you and the girl become friends, and something
authentic happens, once she is older.
It will give your brother another reason to dislike you. (That's a
bonus, right?)
Giggle.
20/20
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soon she will be...
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Teenage girls want... actually I have no idea what teenage girls want,
she may want a friend, a father figure, or she may want???
When I was a teenage lad a friends mum used to help my other friends...
I was somewhat scared by the prospect...
Never went around to play, wish I had!
Friends mum had a reputation...
Society has these rediculous ideas about what is okay and then we have
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Beyond a point in law, it is down to you and her.
Sure, you will have some stuff to work out...
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Oinarp Mot
I appreciate it. Believe me I do.
A long time ago I made a promise I wouldn't date anyone younger than
my oldest niece.
She is 39 right now.
That's a stupid promise.
I believe it coincided with my moral upbringing. a moral code or
something.
I intend to flirt with her and tease her and even embarrass her a
little.
Where that goes?
To answer your question of age of consent, in New Jersey it is 17.
Thanks for the point of view.
Thomas
Oinarp Mot
Still like killing zombies better but I do like dharma.
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that's it done" then I fasted all day. Waiting for clues ;-)
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Oinarp Mot
It will not give him a reason to dislike me.
It will give him another reason to dislike himself.
Thanks, Dharmaville, with your and others help I am getting out
of my funk.
Mind you I have not stopped working and playing to get my site up.
I just finished my site and most people like it...
I have a professional few people that actually gave me the thumbs up.
Now the content.
I have three books to finish editing and then I can begin making money
with it.
It's all good.
As far as the girl is concerned.
She reminds me of a woman/girl ten years ago that asked me to marry her.
She was/is greek, beautiful, amazing and...to date the most beautiful
woman I have
ever met. The romantic in me wants to revisit.
I turned down the greek girl because I was dating someone else at the
time.
Non of it turned out to my liking.
But I am thinkful of it.
Whoops, I mean thankful of it.
Thomas
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Oinarp Mot
Question:
Recently I was told by someone very close to me that I have the
ability to
move to the vibration level of the people that I am around.
This statement makes a great deal of sense to me considering what I do
for a living.
When I am giving a golf lesson I am never intimidated by anyone coming
in for a lesson.
I usually move up for children and down for adults.
So anyway here is my question:
The vibration can be on the intellectual, emotional, physical or
spiritual levels.
When I am involved with people whose vibration is of the lower level
my mood becomes negative, hate, anger, etc.
I find it difficult to move away from the level that I am playing at...
How do I detach and what I mean detach I mean remove myself from
continuing to experience levels that are
not productive.
Better, how do I not even go there in the first place?
I hope this convoluted sentences mean something.
I am going to give you three examples of what happened today:
1. I was thinking of my chiropractor three minutes before he gave me a
call. Good guy. Love talking to him. I was in a great mood most of
the afternoon.
2. The asshole brothers were over my house tonight. I immediately
wanted to kill someone the moment I walked into the house. I didn't
even know they were there.
3. Dr. Ken called me up and asked to get together to talk. I told me
mom without knowing he was having difficulty at work. He told me
later he was having difficulty at work.
Explain.
This crap happens to me all the time.
TP
PS. 1 and 3 are welcome. 2 is the one I want to stay clear of.
Mr. Twenty Twenty
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Oinarp Mot
As an intuitive I tend to become empathic or sympathetic.
This is good and bad.
Why I suppose I tend to shut down at times, too.
Either on or off.
There has to be an in between.
LIke now a days I am switching of Simultaneous.
It kills me to have to run self.
I resent it.
I am struggling with it, but...
Survival depends on it.
Other's will see me as weak. They have.
So I run self. I match their level of selfishness for a moment. It is
exhausting to always be thinking of oneself.
Oh my god what a hell that can be.
With running simultaneous I can easily feel secure because I am one
with the universe until a self shows up.
I know what I have to do.
Punch self in the nose.
Punch self in snout.
Punch self in the stomach.
Punch self in the face.
That's how angry self makes me.
In other words, I do not want to live in a world where self exists.
I am completely honest here.
When Twenty and I had a coaching session a few months ago we were
talking about my running a little simultaneous but
I believe it is more than even he imagined. He suggested I develop a
little self.
I have been there. Angry. Self. Hateful.
So I have much resistance.
Playing competitive golf it is kill or be killed. The weak shall not
survive so I developed a kill or be killed attitude but it went
against my natural programming. It was something I went to extreme
with and I had gotten to see its' ugliness.
So to get along. to be accepted I learn or remember to run simultaneous.
Now I am stuck there. It is a better place than self...for me.
But it doesn't allow me to survive.
Resistance is futile.
Perhaps I shall let out the beast and just allow it to run amuck?
It hasn't worked for me so far. All it does it get everyone around
me agitated.
Including me.
Anger.
TP
Wuji
I like the shifts.... Match is wonderful and polairty is almost as
wonderful as match.... The two brought together marvelous.... I want
this and those and maybe that one too... That should almost do it....
Run some activity and compare to discover if maybe you should or yep
match it...
Two of the most wonderful patterns on earth... That almost always
getvyiu closer and if you compare that to match this is the way....
Maybe... Compare... Match adjust accordingly.... Then notice that
maybe there us now another possibility in the chunk size let's look
closer.... Nice match.... Bring it home and just maybe there will be
more to notice and do now.... Success.... And maybe even more
possibilities for growth....
Dharmaville is wonderful most of the time.... I could have never
written this in remarkable today.... I think... And yet maybe I could
now as this might be the experience or not quite yet.
Rick
PS - I remember in 3rd or 4th grade as many people do when having to
do a spelling drill where you have to use the words in a sentence...
Today in spelling class on the black board were; remarkable, match,
and I also notice polairity wasn't completely erased from the board
there.
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wrote:
> TP,
>
> I am making a recording about this, in moments, for Remarkable. Look
> for it later this morning.
>
> 20/20
>
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>
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>
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>
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I have a friend who comes from a quiet family. The only time she
heard loud talking at the dinner table was when her parents would
fight.
See has a friend who is Italian. The Italian has a dinner table full
of loud talking. It's just the way those Italians are. They yell at
each other, over dinner.
She found eating with them, stressful.
Until.... she got beyond the complex equvalance of loud = angry.
Make sense?
20/20
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the baggage.
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Oinarp Mot
I come from a family of worker bees, when they ask for the salt at the
dinner
table I am surprised they do not say, "hey mom, pass the fucking salt."
But they do not do that because of their need to be accepted.
I am the only one in the family that seems to want to be rejected in
that sense.
I am tired of their BS.
I am tired of paying attention to their BS.
I am tired of my BS.
You asked me the other day what I wanted to drop.
I am coming close to being able to do it.
Complex Equivalence is one thing but when you have family members
turning other family members against you then...
It's time to take a bat to a head.
Fuck the yelling. That I am used to.
What I cannot tolerate is the covert.
That is my kriptonite.
Want to piss me off. Talk behind my back.
Raise an army without my knowledge.
I am not angry at them. I am angry at myself for trusting in them.
And...there is a point where I will just such them out.
For good.
Lesson learned.
I remember you talking about your ex-wife.
Her running switch.
That is what my two of my brothers run.
How frustrating is that?
What do you do in that situation?
Get away.
TP
Mr. Twenty Twenty
I have a friend who is living with a covert switch. It is teaching
her tons, with a very high cost.
Like going to a learn reflexology weekend, and paying $20 grand.
She can get rid of him, at almost anytime. You on the other hand,
while your parents are here, you've got some more limitations as far
as your options are concerned.
I'm sure you'll learn much more than reflexology.
Into other arenas....
All a SWITCH (always right, never wrong, must be in control) wants is
to be knocked on their ass.
They don't know this, but shit..... it's a tough job. It's a real
tough job. Running SWITCH...
It's great to be able to do, like ANYTHING from the duality sheet.
It's hell to HAVE TO DO.
My friend, her guy.... he's never wrong. Never been wrong. Must
make himself right. Must tear anything not him down.
There is some goodness in there, but he loses contact with that.
Almost all the time.
SWITCHES.... create a hell, then blame those who are in close proximity.
So my ex.... right now, I assume that I am mostly outside of her
radar. I know what she's doing... making people wrong.
Just glad I'm here....
Leaving you messages.
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Oinarp Mot
That softens everything.
Just hearing from someone that has gone through it.
Yes, they are living a living hell.
OMG they seem to be so angry which is why I played a SWITCH back on my
brother...you should have seen the confusion on his face.
Holy Crap.
In retrospect it made me feel a little FANTASTIC!
The bastard didn't know what to do.
Anyway, I would rather just leave him alone.
I am still learning.
Being a caretaker is like being a slave in some ways.
There is little pay, food and shelter at this time, very nice...going
to have organic Bison for lunch.
Never had it before.
There is so much more but...
I shall obstain.
Thanks
Oinarp Mot
That softens everything.
Just hearing from someone that has gone through it.
Yes, they are living a living hell.
OMG they seem to be so angry which is why I played a SWITCH back on my
brother...you should have seen the confusion on his face.
Holy Crap.
In retrospect it made me feel a little FANTASTIC!
The bastard didn't know what to do.
Anyway, I would rather just leave him alone.
I am still learning.
Being a caretaker is like being a slave in some ways.
There is little pay, food and shelter at this time, very nice...going
to have organic Bison for lunch.
Never had it before.
There is so much more but...
I shall obstain.
Thanks
Jeannine
I'd like to take back a lot of what I said about your sense of
nobility and simo. Being virtuous is a good thing. I only wish for
myself, and those who could obviously benefit from it (chiefly myself)
to not fossilize virtues into rules. It seems to me that your
virtuousness causes you pain when you see it as a rule you have to
follow. (More specifically I've seen a lot of alternating towards and
away, because you've held it in your mind as a rule up till now).
The deal with Switch, that twenty is talking about, is that
somewhere it becomes fossilized... somewhere someone's eyes glazed
over and they died, and they lay there long enough to feel like a rock
about it. As he said, being ABLE to run switch is cool. Having to do
it... like HAVING to do anything, sucks.
Freedom is our nature. But it can feel like jumping into chaos,
and it can be terrifying. So I'm playing really hard with being in
the flow of life. I want my intentions and their executions to be
powerful and as swift as is feasible. The only way I can see to do
this is to maintain a lot of detachment from specifics, to keep
breathing, not to become a dead post.
Jeannine
PS: If ever you'd like for me to stop throwing in my own two cents,
I'd respect your wish to do things as you please.
Mark Ty-Wharton
you are a sensitive - which means you pick stuff up
not necessarily psychic, in fact you are the sort of person a psychic
will go to for clearing
you experience other peoples presence in your space
what there is to be learned is
their stuff is their stuff, so when you pick it up, be clear, it is
not your stuff
walking into the house and suddenly changing mood
just be aware it is not your stuff - then step outside of it - observe
it and thank it for the information - let it go
now - curious to read 10 other people's opinion and see if they are
similar to mine
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SELF as the spiritual space and everything else NON SELF!
so if you hear me talking about distinguishing SELF (presenced being)
I think I mean the exact opposite to you.
this could get confusing
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so I can communicate with this conversation more effectively please?
I haven't got enough data from any of the product I have to get the distinction.
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Before you get that "no thoughts are mine", that you don't own any
thoughts, nor do you want to... because owning them demands that you
get stuck with them, defend them, nurture them....
You start getting overwhelmed by "other people's thoughts" and
"states" and "emotions".
Once "you get that none of this is yours", ESPECIALLY the "genius"
thoughts that have to be "yours"....
Ahhh...
The guru's get EXACTLY where the "devotee" is, because they "join them".
The "guru" never gets stuck there, because he doesn't perceive that
ANY thought or state is "his own" or "other peoples".
So, when "I" get "where you are", and am not stuck with "me" or "you"
or "inner or outer" or "owning or defending"....
"I see the solution, the problem, the..."
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Sort of already included in the emails here.
SWITCH = A "way of perceiving" that has these charectoristics: I am
always right. I am everything. I have to let the world know, even
though I am everything."
A person who runs SWITCH, can not tell a story where they have been
wrong, because in their mind, NOTHING is their fault. (Yet their
rightness is the cause of....)
Ask a SWITCH, "What does that other person (they are talking about
think), and they can't answer you.
Hope that helps mate, thanks for asking.
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More like one of my beligerent brothers actually.
I'll look for it in my programming (I am sure it is there) and others.
Landmark observes lots of Making Wrong in rackets.
Usually I get to be right - invalidate others so I don't have to be
responsible.
Thanks for the heads up.
Mark
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On 29 Jan 2010, at 21:13, "Mr. Twenty Twenty" <zeropoin...@gmail.com
> wrote:
Oinarp Mot
I bet you have another two or three cents to throw in.
I welcome it and we are all friends here.
I haven't seen anything mean or unfounded.
Some of the observations, the questioning you have about
my way of life is...refreshing..
You push my sensibilities like no one else here and
I appreciate it. I want truth even if it sometime makes me quake,
even if you point out my BS.
We all need another pair of eyes, even Twenty
I never yet have noticed anything from you but coming from a place love.
Also, and of course you are presupposing I understand most of what
you mean.
LOL.
Please never stop.
TP
PS. I am a simple person with the ability to simplify the most complex
equations. Much like Twenty but not...
one of my favorite jokes is:
What is the difference between a lightbulb and a pregnant woman?
You can unscrew a lightbulb.
O.K., now you know what you are dealing with.
PS, II, I am fighting my virtuousness these days.
They are being tested with every hour.
I would truly love to smack my two brothers awake but it
isn't my job. Life with do that for them soon enough.
My parents will be dead and they will have to deal with
the psychic reproductions.
I would love to sit in a hot tub with the seventeen year old. Ha.
Why not. Of course I wouldn't do a thing. A rule, fuc*...ah shit
I don't think I fooled anyone with that alternative spelling.
Anyway, the reason we are all here is to learn. If we were aware of
everything we wouldn't need one another. Blah, blah, blah..,
Oinarp Mot
Thanks.
I will do it.
My problem when I am in it is...
I am so darn close to it and not aware of it at the time.
I swear it is like I am being possessed.
TP
Mark Ty-Wharton
about the future?
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On 29 Jan 2010, at 21:10, "Mr. Twenty Twenty" <zeropoin...@gmail.com
Wuji
I hope no makes me wrong for talking about switch cause they would be
wrong for doing that...
Do you have a copy of Twenty's "Duality Sheet?" These terms come from
there: Switch Self Simo Other (and big self)
There are a number of ways Twenty has defined the points on the
Duality Sheet at different times. There are more common ways to talk
about them for example.
A switch needs to make them wrong...
Personally I like the Duality Sheet... Although... Just like NLP can
create Zombies... Maybe this was why Dharmaville... Well... One reason
I lurked is that I thought Dharmaville was taking a different oath
than let's say the old SoE.
I thought at one time Dharmaville was all about declairations and
noticing assertions "The Rick" asserts. Althought I would love to see
something on the Duality Sheet uploaded into the file section of
Dharmaville.
Rick
On Jan 29, 3:47 pm, Mark Ty-Wharton <mark.tywhar...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Can someone send me a simple email defining SWITCH and any other terms
> so I can communicate with this conversation more effectively please?
>
> I haven't got enough data from any of the product I have to get the distinction.
>
> Thanks
>
> Mark
>
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Oinarp Mot
Last week I had a coaching call with Twenty.
I do not know how different it is with me than with anyone else but...
It is pretty relaxed on my side of the phone.
You know my "ADD" type of writing as whatever it means to you.
Organizational skill Jeanine are something of a mystery to me.
I contribute that to being born to a right brained family in a left
brain world.
So I am talking to Twenty and I at the end of the call I mention how I
would
love, not I want to bring what I do when I teach golf out of golf and
to just
do it without golf.
I know and do not know what I do.
And so my buddy asks me for help last night and although I failed him on
so many levels I did what I do when I teach golf while sitting having
coffee and tea at Barnes and Nobles.
He was complaining. He was fearful. He was in despair and when he
left he was laughing his but off...appreciativ and I wouldn't say
loving life
but and although he didn't leave with hope he left optimistic.
How did I do this miracle? Believe me he was depressed when I met him.
He was terrified to move. He was stuck.
I did what I do when I teach golf. I used pattern interrupts every
time he
began to complain about something.
I told stories that pertained to his situation, some golf related
since he plays golf.
I listened to what he wanted in the future.
And then I helped point him in that direction.
It was kind of easy.
Sloppy on my part but it was the first time I had actually attempted
it on a conscious level.
I spoke to him afterward and asked him about what had just happened to
which he just
commented, "it's why I hang with you."
He began to tell me I am the hub of something, blah, blah, blah.
In risk of boring anyone...
I come onto Dharmaville everyday and read. I do not participate much
these days, only
when someone really says something that makes me want to quip or when
I have a question.
I never sit around and think about what is written. I kind of read it
and let it go, but while I read it
the first and usually only time I seem to absorb the content, like
osmosis.
Again, although sometimes it does resonate.
What is the point to it all?
I believe I understand how to take what I do on the course and bring
it to regular people.
I have very few tools when giving golf lessons.
Pattern interrupts are big in what I do when people begin to get
negative.
Goal setting is huge too. Keep them on the course. Paint the
picture. Have them feel it. Build confidence by having them
associate "success" by past experiences.
Keep positive, always while still relating to their struggle.
Allow them to fail and love them anyway.
Allow them to fail have show them how to laugh at themselves.
That's it in a nutshell.
I am sure there is more but...
I am not a master self modeler like Twenty. I am a guy that shows
people what they are capable of doing, in skill, in emotion, in
feeling and in spirit.
Again there is more...
Read on if you like.
So I know by working with Twenty that I get people to be more kino,
have them feel. Have them experience something other than their head.
That makes me laugh because well...I have this huge head. I am
surprised I could keep the thing balanced on me body.
But I digress...
We all have our patterns and programming, our habituation.
We are either programmed for...this or that...but in our world because
of our education; orgainized as well as experiential we
become hardwired, habituated.
We stop living or become at least less flexible. Now, my job...why
people come to me for golf lessons and stick around is to allow
someone like myself to
Pinpoint exactly what is going on with their games, their swings,
their lives...because it shows up in their swings and to loosen that
habituation.
In a way it ends up being golf therapy.
Golf love.
Golf compassion.
And being the inuit that I am it is easy to feel what is going on.
Twenty does it.
Now, the last two pieces.
Hum?
Thomas
PS. Sorry for such a long e-mail. Again, I seem to be working out
something here.
Jeanine. Shut up. Wait, don't say a thing. Whoops. Did I say
something?
PS. II, I believe today I may have scratched the surface of me doing
coaching for a living.
Mr. Twenty Twenty
Life as a personal coach.
3 kinds of calls.
1. The Big Brother call. Relaxed is what they would call them. We
talk, to an outsider it might sound like 2 guys shooting the breeze.
There are a few special moments, interrupts, invitations, and insights
that show up. That's what I am there for. It's "something I do a
little", and something I set the stage for "a lot". A level of
maturity in the participants is evident in these calls. People who
have been "working at it" for a while tend to be those with this kind
of call.
2. The Expert Call. "Let me ask you this?' That's the second kind
of call. They want specific data from me. What is my opinion on, or
thoughts about. What should they do next. These calls can be
powerful, if they are asking me questions fall into my realm of
expertise or experience, and that expose them. The temptation in
this kind of call, is for the client to keep their problems in place,
while proving that the calls are productive - based on WHAT we talked
about. The teenager emerging into the capable adult is the myth
being lived out by the client in this call.
3. The Love me while I am _____ call. This kind of call can sound
like the first two, but have a very different feel to them. The
client will toss all kinds of filler into the call, just to see if I
will stick around, just to see if they are still loved. These calls
often seem to come from folks with childhood trauma, and who adopted
some kind of inner story like, "they will leave or be pissed at me if
I...." This client needs not only what the first two get, but a
coach that gets that part of their job is to simply love humanity, and
their client.
Thanks for the inspiration to write this.
Twenty
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So we live life like we are the same.
It happens to us so slowly I think I am roughly the same person I was
when I was 3, 5 whatever.
Then I notice.
My brothers are similar, they were brought up by the same parents and
I see they are similar, TO EACH OTHER.
They OWN some of my old traits.
I get to see my old self sometimes in them.
But I occur to myself most of the time as unchanged.
We cannot all be Twenty Twenty.
I reckon you and I are probably more like 17 or 18.
The average guy on the street, my brothers even, maybe yours, are
living IN their issues, not with them.
You cannot teach a guy living IN his issues to jump straight from
being IN to being where Twenty is without him springing right back.
You can teach him to come some way to where we are, towards Twenty and
not quite.
Golf or no golf, payment or no payment, we have an opportunity to make
a difference for those people.
People get stuck and want help.
Position yourself and show them what you got.
They will value you.
Your brothers value you, they just don't know it!
Hope that is useful for you.
Cheers
Mark X
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Oinarp Mot
But of course that is only a thought.
Can you give me an example of thought vs. thinking.
I already have an understanding of what is going on there but...
Would like clarification.
A story would be nice.
Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he sees two girls....
Finish the story using thoughts.
Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he see two girls....
Using thinking.
TP
Mr. Twenty Twenty
A "thought". It's just a "thing", that often gets repeated and
defended. "Damn!"
Thinking. The actual generation and production of thoughts, creating
something new is now possible.
How many full grown boys, have a THOUGHT that a particular kind of
girl / woman is "hot", because someone ELSE demonstrated that THOUGHT,
and instead of growing their own thought, they just adopted, stole,
mimicked someone elses.
I hope that helps.
20/20
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Can they be declarations, assertions or both?
Mr. Twenty Twenty
Grin.
There is a story.
20/20
I'd love to talk with you about assertions and declarations and
thinking sometime. This could get weird in email land.
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a shot of Barleys Irish Cream.
I don't drink allot these days so...
Within a minute I begin to get heartburn. Not a fun experience.
So I had asked Twenty about my bringing what I do with golf out into
"the real world" and
he says, he's going to have to come out to Jersey and have a talk to me.
While he is here I am going to ask him to punch me to him me in the
face or stomach.
It's been a long time since I've been in a fight and I know he will
knock me out.
Long story. But see I trust he will do what I ask of him and then
pick me up, brush me off and have a cigar with me afterward.
Back to that later.
So I cannot sleep on Saturday night.
I am awake all night with stomach problems but I am not complaining
because I am "thinking" about our last conversation.
I am thinking about taking it out of golf and...
By the way, my thinking at that time in the morning is like silver
fishes darting in and out of sight, zoom, splash, wake.
And it occurs to me. My clietel in golf are successful. That is how
they can afford to take lessons from me.
What they do not have is..Satisfaction.
I know they are there for other reasons than to learn to play golf.
Golf is just a mirror or a venue for them to reach their goals of
satisfaction or in very few instances, success.
Then I asked myself how I go about getting them to be satisfied?
The answer is to get them in their bodies, in the present state.
Most come back over and over and over again. I used to tell people it
was enough after so many lessons.
I would tell them to get a life. To stop looking outside themselves
for the answer. They appreciated it but...
So then I realized I have been more than a golf professional but more
of a "golf therapist".
Wow. Certified in NLP and Golf = Golf Therapy.
Now that is something I can since my...
But there is more...
Then I began to look at the tools that I used to get people in the
present state, in their bodies,...
And I do not know how or why but then I come to the conclusion that I
AM THE BIGGEST TOOL I have and that
much of it just happens...
I know and do not know how I do it.
So here I am...thinking about after I set up my website: two days away
that I build a site while I am marketing it about my
being a golf therapist.
You suck at golf?
Was your nickname doofus in high school?
Did all the girls kick your ass?
I will show you how to hit a golf ball.
You will build confidence.
Develop Self -Esteem.
Can't kick that bullies ass in a fight, beat that asshole on the golf
course.
Show him who is the boss.
I know it's over the top but...
Not that far.
But there is more...
One of the best experiences of my life was instructing the grandchild
of the person who saved my life when I was born.
The kid was kind of uncoordinated.
He was shy and withdrawn.
He was smart but awkward.
I know allot of people like that...
What most of them do is compensate and make big bucks (generalizing
here, I know many that fit the stereotype here).
What they desire is competence in something athletic.
But the majority of instructors or at least the majority of people
teaching golf show mechanics not how to access their bodies.
Anyway, again working out something here.
My talents are wasted on golfers beside the pay sucks, but as a golf
therapist?
You thoughts?
Mr. Twenty Twenty
Therapy.....
You might have state laws to contend with if you state you do any "therapy".
Some folks hate the idea of therapy.
Others will pay $200 a visit and see "their therapist" for decades.
Today..... making this subjective.... If I had it to do over again,
I would build a simple cabin in the woods.
Sounds romantic right?
But then, I wouldn't have all the blessings I have, I would just a
whole other set of bullshit to contend with.
Trying to escape the bullshit doesn't work.
But if someone offered me a $200 solution right now.....
I would JUMP on it.
20/20
PS: So if the $200 solution was offered to me, I would need some
reason to believe that:
A. The Solution works.
B. The person administering the solution is who I should be getting
it from, not someone else.
C. That both will work for me.
Add in that I actually percieve that I can not waste 200 MORE hours
surfing you tube or google trying to assemble it on my own.
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> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he sees two girls....
So using visual thoughts there are pictures of street and John
Wingert, a young John Wingert and movement, he is smooth, when he
speaks I hear my voice in my head imitating him saying "Hey girls" in
the same way my best friend Laurence used to at school. If I put
myself in observation, I am on my bike, watching him look cool.
> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he see two girls....
>
> Using thinking.
Depending which way around I do it, one way I recall events from my
own past and put in street and picture of Jonny W etc and create a
little movie theatre then "speak" the dialogue internally and make
comment ABOUT what I see happen.
The other way around I narrate the whole thing and see some related images.
WTF does that all mean :)
Oinarp Mot
I was trying to be clever this morning.
Bad boy Mark!
Bad Boy!
I love blaming my crap on other people.
Oinarp Mot
I am sure there are laws put in place.
Since mind does not go in that direction, as I am a law breaker,
I am grateful I have people like you looking out for me.
Tanks.
PS. shit!
Oinarp Mot
Sent from my iPhone
On Jan 31, 2010, at 8:44 AM, "Mr. Twenty Twenty"
greg
-=-=-=
On Feb 2, 1:05 am, "Mr. Twenty Twenty" <buyjohnab...@gmail.com> wrote:
> TP,
>
> Therapy.....
>
> You might have state laws to contend with if you state you do any "therapy".
>
> Some folks hate the idea of therapy.
>
> Others will pay $200 a visit and see "their therapist" for decades.
>
> Today..... making this subjective.... If I had it to do over again,
> I would build a simple cabin in the woods.
>
> Sounds romantic right?
>
> But then, I wouldn't have all the blessings I have, I would just a
> whole other set of bullshit to contend with.
>
> Trying to escape the bullshit doesn't work.
>
> But if someone offered me a $200 solution right now.....
>
> I would JUMP on it.
>
> 20/20
>
> PS: So if the $200 solution was offered to me, I would need some
> reason to believe that:
>
> A. The Solution works.
> B. The person administering the solution is who I should be getting
> it from, not someone else.
> C. That both will work for me.
>
> Add in that I actually percieve that I can not waste 200 MORE hours
> surfing you tube or google trying to assemble it on my own.
> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
> >>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >> through Friday!
>
> >> On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 9:00 AM, Oinarp Mot <oin...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>> Sure is helps BUT I WAS IN THE MOOD FOR A STORY!
>
> >>> Can they be declarations, assertions or both?
>
> >>> On Feb 1, 2010, at 8:51 AM, Mr. Twenty Twenty wrote:
>
> >>>> TP,
>
> >>>> A "thought". It's just a "thing", that often gets repeated and
> >>>> defended. "Damn!"
>
> >>>> Thinking. The actual generation and production of thoughts, creating
> >>>> something new is now possible.
>
> >>>> How many full grown boys, have a THOUGHT that a particular kind of
> >>>> girl / woman is "hot", because someone ELSE demonstrated that THOUGHT,
> >>>> and instead of growing their own thought, they just adopted, stole,
> >>>> mimicked someone elses.
>
> >>>> I hope that helps.
>
> >>>> 20/20
>
> >>>> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> >>>>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>>>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>>>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>>>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>>>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >>>> through Friday!
>
> >>>> On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 8:36 AM, Oinarp Mot <oin...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>>>> I battle with this idea.
>
> >>>>> But of course that is only a thought.
>
> >>>>> Can you give me an example of thought vs. thinking.
> >>>>> I already have an understanding of what is going on there but...
>
> >>>>> Would like clarification.
>
> >>>>> A story would be nice.
>
> >>>>> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he sees two girls....
>
> >>>>> Finish the story using thoughts.
>
> >>>>> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he see two girls....
>
> >>>>> Using thinking.
>
> >>>>> TP
>
> >>>>> On Jan 30, 2010, at 4:39 AM, Mark Ty-Wharton wrote:
>
> >>>>>> Okay, this includes the non-verbal stuff right - the mental movies
> >>>>>> about
> >>>>>> the future?
>
> >>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>
> >>>>>> On 29 Jan 2010, at 21:10, "Mr. Twenty Twenty"
> >>>>>> <zeropointdynam...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>>>>>> As "you" advance up the level of consciousness scale...
>
> >>>>>>> Before you get that "no thoughts are mine", that you don't own any
> >>>>>>> thoughts, nor do you want to... because owning them demands that you
> >>>>>>> get stuck with them, defend them, nurture them....
>
> >>>>>>> You start getting overwhelmed by "other people's thoughts" and
> >>>>>>> "states" and "emotions".
>
> >>>>>>> Once "you get that none of this is yours", ESPECIALLY the "genius"
> >>>>>>> thoughts that have to be "yours"....
>
> >>>>>>> Ahhh...
>
> >>>>>>> The guru's get EXACTLY where the "devotee" is, because they "join
> >>>>>>> them".
>
> >>>>>>> The "guru" never gets stuck there, because he doesn't perceive that
> >>>>>>> ANY thought or state is "his own" or "other peoples".
>
> >>>>>>> So, when "I" get "where you are", and am not stuck with "me" or "you"
> >>>>>>> or "inner or outer" or "owning or defending"....
>
> >>>>>>> "I see the solution, the problem, the..."
>
> >>>>>>> Done.
>
> >>>>>>> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> >>>>>>>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>>>>>>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>>>>>>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>>>>>>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>>>>>>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >>>>>>> through Friday!
>
> >>>>>>> On Fri, Jan 29, 2010 at 3:31 PM, Mark Ty-Wharton
> >>>>>>> <mark.tywhar...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>>>>>>> before I read anyone else's opinion TP
>
> >>>>>>>> you are a sensitive - which means you pick stuff up
>
> >>>>>>>> not necessarily psychic, in fact you are the sort of person a
> >>>>>>>> psychic
> >>>>>>>> will go to for clearing
>
> >>>>>>>> you experience other peoples presence in your space
>
> >>>>>>>> what there is to be learned is
>
> >>>>>>>> their stuff is their stuff, so when you pick it up,
>
> ...
>
> read more »
greg
> that I build a site while I am marketing it about my
> being a golf therapist.
>
> You suck at golf?
> Was your nickname doofus in high school?
> Did all the girls kick your ass?
>
> I will show you how to hit a golf ball.
>
> You will build confidence.
> Develop Self -Esteem.
>
> Can't kick that bullies ass in a fight, beat that asshole on the golf
> course.
> Show him who is the boss.
>
> I know it's over the top but...
Different bait for different fish! I can't imagine but some would buy
it!
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>
> >http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> > through Friday!
>
> > On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 9:00 AM, Oinarp Mot <oin...@gmail.com> wrote:
> >> Sure is helps BUT I WAS IN THE MOOD FOR A STORY!
>
> >> Can they be declarations, assertions or both?
>
> >> On Feb 1, 2010, at 8:51 AM, Mr. Twenty Twenty wrote:
>
> >>> TP,
>
> >>> A "thought". It's just a "thing", that often gets repeated and
> >>> defended. "Damn!"
>
> >>> Thinking. The actual generation and production of thoughts,
> >>> creating
> >>> something new is now possible.
>
> >>> How many full grown boys, have a THOUGHT that a particular kind of
> >>> girl / woman is "hot", because someone ELSE demonstrated that
> >>> THOUGHT,
> >>> and instead of growing their own thought, they just adopted, stole,
> >>> mimicked someone elses.
>
> >>> I hope that helps.
>
> >>> 20/20
>
> >>> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> >>>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >>> through Friday!
>
> >>> On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 8:36 AM, Oinarp Mot <oin...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>>> I battle with this idea.
>
> >>>> But of course that is only a thought.
>
> >>>> Can you give me an example of thought vs. thinking.
> >>>> I already have an understanding of what is going on there but...
>
> >>>> Would like clarification.
>
> >>>> A story would be nice.
>
> >>>> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he sees two
> >>>> girls....
>
> >>>> Finish the story using thoughts.
>
> >>>> Little Johnny W. is walking down the street and he see two
> >>>> girls....
>
> >>>> Using thinking.
>
> >>>> TP
>
> >>>> On Jan 30, 2010, at 4:39 AM, Mark Ty-Wharton wrote:
>
> >>>>> Okay, this includes the non-verbal stuff right - the mental
> >>>>> movies about
> >>>>> the future?
>
> >>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>
> >>>>> On 29 Jan 2010, at 21:10, "Mr. Twenty Twenty"
> >>>>> <zeropointdynam...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>>>>> As "you" advance up the level of consciousness scale...
>
> >>>>>> Before you get that "no thoughts are mine", that you don't own
> >>>>>> any
> >>>>>> thoughts, nor do you want to... because owning them demands
> >>>>>> that you
> >>>>>> get stuck with them, defend them, nurture them....
>
> >>>>>> You start getting overwhelmed by "other people's thoughts" and
> >>>>>> "states" and "emotions".
>
> >>>>>> Once "you get that none of this is yours", ESPECIALLY the
> >>>>>> "genius"
> >>>>>> thoughts that have to be "yours"....
>
> >>>>>> Ahhh...
>
> >>>>>> The guru's get EXACTLY where the "devotee" is, because they "join
> >>>>>> them".
>
> >>>>>> The "guru" never gets stuck there, because he doesn't perceive
> >>>>>> that
> >>>>>> ANY thought or state is "his own" or "other peoples".
>
> >>>>>> So, when "I" get "where you are", and am not stuck with "me" or
> >>>>>> "you"
> >>>>>> or "inner or outer" or "owning or defending"....
>
> >>>>>> "I see the solution, the problem, the..."
>
> >>>>>> Done.
>
> >>>>>> Why not visit my sites at:
>
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>
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Oinarp Mot
love him bug j also listened up him. I fell prey to his vibration and
that is what had come of it.
Wired crap.
When I am with intellects I intellect them and catch if for a while
and when u sm with duffuses I am duffuses and it takes me s few days
to shake it.
I would not call me a camelion but rather a sensitive.
It is about acceptance.
It is about rejection.
When I notice it....
Nice but I do get caught up in the wave most of the time.
Iv I hung with Jeanine I would prabably where lipstick for s night
before I came back,
It is s blessing and curse because j go not know if people like me for
me or fog who I am vibrating with which is them.
I make friends easily.
The ones that stick around long enough see my teeth.
TP
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Mark Ty-Wharton
would get a mirror image of me :-)
When you parents are both gone and you need a break, come to the UK
and play with oily old cars and I'll get my barber to take you up to
the local golf club.
We'll have some fun ;-)
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Oinarp Mot
something in common.
Or
My two best friends are talkers so I am quiet.
My parents are quiet so i talk.
When someone is showing me something I pretty much shut up and try to
participate when the time is appropriate.
When I a showing something to someone I take charge and usevpattrrn
interrupts when appropriate.
Tp
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On Feb 20, 2010, at 7:29 PM, Mark Ty-Wharton
greg
to be
knocked on their ass."
"SWITCHES.... create a hell, then blame those who are in close
proximity."
SO... What to do?!
(Because if you ktota, it just gives them a chance to blame someone
for doing something bad to them.)
I, like TP, have a few in my family (and once in a while, I get back
in that a little when I'm around them.
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On Jan 29, 11:10 pm, "Mr. Twenty Twenty" <buyjohnab...@gmail.com>
wrote:
> TP,
>
> I have a friend who is living with a covert switch. It is teaching
> her tons, with a very high cost.
>
> Like going to a learn reflexology weekend, and paying $20 grand.
>
> She can get rid of him, at almost anytime. You on the other hand,
> while your parents are here, you've got some more limitations as far
> as your options are concerned.
>
> I'm sure you'll learn much more than reflexology.
>
> Into other arenas....
>
> All a SWITCH (always right, never wrong, must be in control) wants is
> to beknockedon their ass.
>
> They don't know this, but shit..... it's a tough job. It's a real
> tough job. Running SWITCH...
> It's great to be able to do, like ANYTHING from the duality sheet.
> It's hell to HAVE TO DO.
>
> My friend, her guy.... he's never wrong. Never been wrong. Must
> make himself right. Must tear anything not him down.
>
> There is some goodness in there, but he loses contact with that.
> Almost all the time.
>
> SWITCHES.... create a hell, then blame those who are in close proximity.
>
> So my ex.... right now, I assume that I am mostly outside of her
> radar. I know what she's doing... making people wrong.
>
> Just glad I'm here....
>
> Leaving you messages.
>
> 20/20
>
> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> through Friday!
>
> > On Jan 29, 2010, at 8:23 AM, Mr. Twenty Twenty wrote:
>
> >> TP,
>
> >> I have a friend who comes from a quiet family. The only time she
> >> heard loud talking at the dinner table was when her parents would
> >> fight.
>
> >> See has a friend who is Italian. The Italian has a dinner table full
> >> of loud talking. It's just the way those Italians are. They yell at
> >> each other, over dinner.
>
> >> She found eating with them, stressful.
>
> >> Until.... she got beyond the complex equvalance of loud = angry.
>
> >> Make sense?
>
> >> 20/20
>
> >> Self = ??? You get to discover how to build Self without in including
> >> the baggage.
>
> >> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> >>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >> through Friday!
>
> >>> On Jan 29, 2010, at 7:49 AM, Mr. Twenty Twenty wrote:
>
> >>>> TP,
>
> >>>> I am making a recording about this, in moments, for Remarkable. Look
> >>>> for it later this morning.
>
> >>>> 20/20
>
> >>>> Why not visit my sites at:
>
> >>>>http://www.2020unleashed.com- New articles 2 times a week.
>
> >>>>http://www.justkickass.com- How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >>>>http://www.innercircleproducts.com- Get Goodies here.
>
> >>>>http://www.nlplive.com- Delivering what NLP promised.
>
> >>>>http://www.VisionQuestRadio.com Live Radio with Mr. 20/20 Monday
> >>>> through Friday!
>
> >>>>> Better, how do I not even go there in the first place?
>
> >>>>> I hope this convoluted sentences mean something.
>
> >>>>> I am going to give you three examples of what happened today:
>
> >>>>> 1. I was thinking of my chiropractor three minutes before he gave me a
> >>>>> call.
> >>>>> Good guy. Love talking to him. I was in a great mood most of the
> >>>>> afternoon.
> >>>>> 2. The asshole brothers were over my house tonight. I immediately
> >>>>> wanted
> >>>>> to
> >>>>> kill someone the moment I walked into the house. I didn't even know
> >>>>> they
> >>>>> were there.
> >>>>> 3. Dr. Ken called me up and asked to get together to talk. I told me
> >>>>> mom
> >>>>> without knowing he was having difficulty at work. He told me later he
> >>>>> was
> >>>>> having difficulty at work.
>
> >>>>> Explain.
>
> >>>>> This crap happens to me all the time.
>
> >>>>> TP
>
> >>>>> PS. 1 and 3 are welcome. 2 is the one I want to stay clear of.
>
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>
> >http://www.justkickass.com-How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> >http://www.innercircleproducts.com-Get Goodies here.
>
> >http://www.nlplive.com-Delivering what NLP promised.
> > >>http://www.2020unleashed.com-New articles 2 times a week.
>
> > >>http://www.justkickass.com-How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> > >>http://www.innercircleproducts.com-Get Goodies here.
>
> > >>http://www.nlplive.com-Delivering what NLP promised.
> > >>>>http://www.2020unleashed.com-New articles 2 times a week.
>
> > >>>>http://www.justkickass.com-How to rent Mr. 20/20's brain.
>
> > >>>>http://www.innercircleproducts.com-Get Goodies here.
>
> > >>>>http://www.nlplive.com-Delivering what NLP promised.
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Oinarp Mot
What to do with a Switch?
I, like Greg, have been noticing something strange.
It is something I have not tried to do anything about.
There is nothing I can do to change my family,
but I can notice how I react rather than respond.
If I respond I do nothing.
If I react I get angry.
I believe I had kind of a breakthrough with this stuff
because it just occurred to me there is nothing I can
do short of punching these people in the face or
attacking them in some way and it doesn't do me any
good.
There is always some type of Karmic reprecussion
to have to live through.
Now, I just understand I have my lessons and one of their lessons
is to learn to be non-judgmental and to love unconditionally.
Tp