Dear Linda, Wanda, Al, Roger, Willis, and Herb,
You have no idea how good your responses made me feel. You are wonderful! And I even heard from the two ladies first --- that shows that there are women "out there" in our forum, which I know is true. :-)) That made me feel really good!
Here are my personal replies to you:
1) Linda, thank you, you made my day with your "thumbs up" and gave me encouragement to plow forward!
2) Wanda, yes, it's amazing how God has mapped things out for me, in this situation and a few others that came earlier. Even my IBM manager said to me that "Someone" was looking out for me, as my next door neighbor also said to me today, when I told her my news.
3) Al, I should say "ditto" to what I just wrote to Wanda, but I agree with you on God's providence. I was incredibly moved the day that IBM made this announcement, and the timing was such that I could only see the "hand of God" in this, given that the announcement of this new program came on May 1, and I was supposed to sign and return the pension papers by May 17. I am glad I did not sign the papers!
4) Roger, I was actually quite seriously enticed by your suggestion about the Dakota Conference and staying at your house for my visit. Then later that day, I went to our Church Cabinet meeting and asked if anyone else could join the Simply Smiles expedition. Even though the answer is yes, I found out that the only bath that folks are going to get in an entire week is a dip in some river each night. That pretty much wrapped it up for me. And yes, hugs are allowed, as long as one's hands do not have any manure on them!
5) Willis, yes, I have often thought, over the past many, many years, that I have more freedoms than almost anyone, and especially almost any woman! I will use my freedom wisely, and will pray for assistance if I ever feel like squandering it. But given how much I have enjoyed my last few days of working on my chapter, I don't think I'll get too sidetracked.
6) Herb, yes, you should thank IBM, as I do all the time. Say what we will about corporations, they are not all bad. And IBM has given me many gifts over the years. They paid for my first MA at Duke at night, when I lived in North Carolina. They gave me Tuesday afternoons free and clear, to do the PhD seminar (two semesters) and some of my final weeks for my fourth semester of Greek. And now they will pay me to have two days off each week! So yes, I am grateful to IBM. Given that my father also worked for IBM, since the time I was 7 years old, I can pretty much thank IBM for my financial support for most of my life.
Thanks to all of you, whether you are named here or not.
Jane
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