it should just be case of installing openssh-server on both machines
(aptitude install openssh-server)
once you have this you will have a use say user@ub12:10 this user would
create ssh keys this key set is assigned to this user on this machine
if you want to login to the ub9:04 and you have the password then from
ub12:04 ssh-copy-id <username>@ub9:04 this will copy the first users
key to the other machine you should now be ok to log in ..
If this doesnt work please post you sshd_config from both machines
If you sure its not a security issue make sure yu remove
authorized_keys from the machine you are connecting from this will
avoid any mishaps!
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