* Raffael Cavallaro <raff...@mediaone.net> | That being the case, what students, users of other languages, and other | interested parties see of the lisp community is a hateful pedant, and | others who come to his defense when he viciously abuses people.
I don't see anyone coming to your defense. Do you?
Why do you think that you are _not_ part of the problem? How come your abuse is perfectly OK and that posting articles with intensely inflammatory subject lines line "naggum-mine" is not indicative of a person who has arrived at the amazingly self-destructive notion that he has no effect on the world at all so he can do anything he wants without incurring the slighest judgment of hypocrisy or ridicule?
If you had any self-esteem at all, "PhD" Raffael Cavallaro, you would not be able to believe that you do not affect people with your rants and personal attacks. Just like that insane stalker Marcus G. Daniels who actually believes that posting hundreds of condescending and disrespectful messages has _no_ effect on the forum, you suffer from a moral displacement: You think the evil you commit is somebody else's fault and that you can blame him for everything _you_ commit. Here's a surprise for you: You can't. _Only_ the criminally insane believe that their actions are _caused_ by someone else and that they are _not_ responsible for their own actions. No normally matured person can even hold the idea in his head for a second that "look what you made me do" is a valid excuse for _anything_.
Let me know when you have matured beyond kindergarten and have moved up the evolutionary ladder to something that can take responsibility for its own actions, will you? So far, all I can relate to is a sick person who has a deep personal need to blame me for his emotional problems, and that, frankly, is intensely disgusting to behold.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
* Raffael Cavallaro <raff...@mediaone.net> | This "there's nothing personal" line is what profoundly uncaring people | say whenever they hurt others.
Yes, they do it, too. No dispute there. However, it is quite typical of your lacking mental ability to mistake this for a valid implication. Do you really have a PhD? From where? McDonald's Burger University?
| When you hurt another person, it is, by definition "personal."
Yes, this is also true, but it is because some people choose to take things personally that they get hurt. You swap cause and effect, just like one expects from a "people person" who can't think worth a high school diploma, much less a PhD.
| The fact that you think it is not shows how profoundly out of touch | you are with the social reality around you.
No, it doesn't. You would need a lot more than that "fact" to show anything like that, but we have already established that you feel that single data points are better than many because you can extrapolate in your favarite direction from the single data point, and not from many.
| "People like Raffael give _people_ in general way too much importance," | implies that technical matters of common lisp are more important than | the people discussing them, and this is clearly false, because without | these people, there simply is no discussion.
Without breathable air, there wouldn't be any people, so clearly we should be concerned about the environment and work very hard to reduce solar activity and CO2 emissions from photosynthesis instead of talking about programming computers that only contribute to the displacement of heat into the athmosphere.
| Erik's style of discourse is so hurtful that many people are driven | from the discussion altogether.
This doesn't even apply to yourself since you return so often with the same old rants, so do you even have a single data point to extrapolate from this time? Have you gotten signed papers that allow you to be the advocate of the "many people" you claim to speak on behalf of? Or do we have yet another moron who feels entitled to speak for others?
| People are always more important than technical discussions, because | what really is the point of technical discussions - some absract | exercise in mental masturbation?
No, that would have been _your_ point if you didn't discuss people. Well, it seems it is your point even when you do, since there's no discernible contents anywhere in what you keep ranting about.
| No, the point of technical discussions is to learn to use technology | to serve people better.
And you serve them better with your personal attacks, I presume. I'm so impressed with your ability to stuff all of your four furry feet into your mouth at the same time. Serve people better -- SHUT UP!
| One does not learn to serve people better by gratuitously abusing | their feelings in a relatively insignificant technical discussion.
So stop doing it, or is it better not to have any technical discussion at all while doing it, like you do? But why do you exempt me from your rules? Why can't I make up my own rules about whom I think deserves to be hurt when you can do it and feel so strongly about it that you are fucking blinded by your hatred? As long as you post your insane hostilities, you validate and legitimize everything I have ever done and ever might do, because you prove that it is _correct_ to hurt people who do something you don't like. If you don't like this and have the retarded emotional response that I'm hypocritical, you are reacting and behaving like an outsider to what you do here. I'm not, so as the outsider, you should refrain from any shred of hostility, and that includes Marcus G. Danielisms, passive aggressiveness, etc. See if you can calm down completely and consider if you have anything worth posting when you have done so. Posting an insane attack on me for the fourty billionth time is not a sign of your good mental health but is in fact detrimental to your ability to do something that might actually be conducive to your goals, if you _have_ any goals except shooting your wad off into cyberspace, of course.
| Erik's narrow minded focus on what is technically correct at the | expense of other people's feelings displays a foolish lack of | perspective on technical matters and their place in the world.
I don't have any focus on what is technically correct. I do have a focus on avoiding technical mistakes. If you do not understand the difference, return your PhD for kindergarten vouchers and try to learn this time around that you are encouraged and rewarded for any kind of constructive activity and punished for any kind of destructive activity, you are _not_ punished unless you do some _specific_ things. I must wonder if you have ever managed to learn anything from anybody else at all the way you manage to miss the point. Oh, of course, the people stuff -- You sucked up to your teachers and advisers and got some other impressionable people-person to do the real work for you?
I do have a focus on precision. You are out of focus, the antithesis of precision. Blurred nonsense is better for people than precision, because precision requires thought and care and not everybody can "share" in that elitist requirement, so you have naturally optimized yourself towards blurred nonsense and you _succeed_, too, but that does _not_ mean anybody has to applaud your success or agree with your goal. In fact, most people consider senile dementia or Alzheimer a disaster to a working brain, but maybe you can donate your brain to such research and argue that they should find ways to _give_ you those illnesses so you can become a _better_ blurry people-person.
| Technolgy, and discussions of it exist _only_ because they are useful | to people, not the other way around.
That is your opinion. I'm just aching to see Marcus G. Daniels come rushing to my rescue with "enforce one guy's particular definition of technology", but he's probably been taken care of by now.
You need to figure out that not all people are Raffael Cavallaros and you should probably ask for medication to help calm you down while you listen very carefully to people who explain in monosyllabic words that you are not ruling the world and not deciding what's true or false.
If you cannot even manage to keep your calm when you disagree over which is more important of people and technology and breathable air, there's a word for you: Lunatic. Since you keep ranting and raving about the exact same thing no matter what happens, you already fit one major criterion for an obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Now, let me see how a mature PhD can calm down and post something that does not hurt or irritate me, because you most certainly understand that such reactions are all _your_ fault when you try to blame me for how everybody under the sun feels hurt by what I do.
What really irritates me about such retards as Raffael Cavallaro is that they would have been perfectly OK as pets if they only packaged that useless brain in a lap dog. Reincarnation is so cruel sometimes.
You have a _choice_ to take this personally or not, punk. If you do not have that choice, recycle yourself immediately. A lonely old lady in Florida who regrets indenting for Buchanan needs a lap dog, _now_!
Since I maybe think it's a mistake to think that people ought to have engaged their brain if they actually manage to _write_ anything in a complex language like English, here's a simple clue for PhDs who have not quite grasped that scientific method: There are questions that you could ask that go approximately like this: "What did I (i.e., Raffael Cavallaro) do to cause this reaction? What else can I do? Will it cause a different reaction if I do ...?" Fill in the ... with one of the incredibly obvious options that someone who can manage to cow-tow with an adviser and fullfill academic requirements _must_ see by now.
Now, I don't really think you have the brains of a lap dog, I just wish the yapping from my neighbor's retarded mutt was less irritating than you are, so it seemed fitting to swap you two and lo and behold, it shut up. I think you would make a _smart_ lap dog.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
Raffael Cavallaro <raff...@mediaone.net> writes: > That being the case, what students, users of other languages, and other > interested parties see of the lisp community is a hateful pedant, and > others who come to his defense when he viciously abuses people.
I doubt any other newsgroup fares much better.
> We're talking about a man who asked someone in this forum to commit > suicide. How can any reasonable person not expect such behavior to > drive people away?
Honestly? I don't think many new posters are reading Erik's long missives. I think only dyed in the wool people with a serious interest are. I think some might be reading these anti-erik threads because they call attention to him. I think these do phenomenally more damage to the ng than anything Erik rights.
Let me rephrase your question in a way that puts it in the perspective I see it:
``We're talking about a man who, on channel 51943776 of your TV at 4am on Sunday morning, asked someone to commit suicide. How can any reasonable person not expect such behavior to drive people away?'' asked Raffael Cavallero, reporter for CBS 60 Minutes in the tag scene of his expose show "People who would be driving people away if only I called enough attention to it that they would be offended".
I see it that you're promoting a very annoying but highly obscure situation to the foreground, and then concluding it's having mass effect. The claim it's annoying is true, but the original situation isn't the cause of any mass effect -- you are. Just as surely as a largely constant crime rate isn't makig people feel unsafe in the US as much as primetime media coverage at close range of every bloody body that does come along. The "if it bleeds, it leads" philosophy of news has done nothing to make people safer, and has meanwhile caused enormous anxiety about something that cannot be changed.
I don't doubt Erik is upsetting particular people he's chatting with. I wish he wouldn't do it. But I have no power to affect it, and his responses in this discussion pretty much confirm that no one does. If he hasn't responded to peer pressure on this by now, he's not going to.
Erik annoys some people, but he helps a lot of people technically, too. And while that doesn't excuse what I agree is occasionally annoying, it does make me willing to tolerate it.
I myself am used to being frequently labeled annoying. I've tried my whole career to get better at it, but it comes withthe territory of being strong-willed. I may not swear at people, but they get pissed off just the same. I don't like pissing them off, but I don't find it easy to avoid in all circumstances. I just deal with the aftermath when I find it. I don't think people should like that I annoy them, but I do think they should sometimes tolerate it more than they do. And I think the same of Erik. You can make a list of all the greats of CS, and almost to a one, I can tell you for the ones I know many times they have been obnoxious and pissy to people, both in public and private. It is not a trait to be emulated, but I'm not so sure that the reason for that is the often-cited one. Emulating pissiness doesn't make you a great thinker. But great thinkers can be single-minded, driven, impatient, focused, etc., and the other stuff, while maybe not causal, may be side-effect. In choosing which of these people to eschew, I look to the whole of the person. Yes, we should ask them to moderate, but in private. And yes, we should learn to tolerate, if we want what they have to offer. Otherwise, we may not be being fair.
I will make one further remark, going seriously out on a limb and risking pissing off some people myself, perhaps just for comradery with Erik. But in examining the whole of the person, and I won't say specifically which people I mean--this isn't in specific response to Raffael's message in other words--there are some in this discussion who while they are incensed, are also not prone to contribute much technically. The world does not need everyone to contribute. I enjoy just chatting with people and being social. But I find this thread as annoying as many find Erik, and on balance I don't find some people sustaining this thread to contribute what Erik contributes. So when I consider the whole of the thing, some people are, taken in the large, not seen as positively, at least by me, as they imagine.
Now, can we please desist here? I don't like writing stuff like this. I don't think it favors me personally. Next time I feel like writing something like this, I'm going to do two things. (a) not write it, and (b) take another vacation from the newsgroup for a while while I cool down. I'd rather do that than contribute further to threads like this. And I wish that others would do likewise. If they don't like the newsgroup, make a forum they do like and invite people to it. But don't whine about what you can't change, because the "cure" is (imo) far worse than the disease.
froy...@rose-hulman.edu (Nathan Froyd) writes: > In article <m3elzhns2r....@world.std.com>, Tom Breton wrote:
> >froy...@rose-hulman.edu (Nathan Froyd) writes: > >> >If you were honest about your goals you would stop posting immediately.
> >> Again, you provide no rationale whatsoever to back your claim up.
> >Come now, some things are left as obvious to the intelligent reader.
> I think Erik's goals have been clearly stated: stop stupidity. > Stupidity occurs and he does something about it.
Yes, adds to it, and adds greatly to a hostile atmosphere.
> He has goals and he's > being honest about them.
Why should anybody else believe that?
> How does that imply that he should stop > posting?
You seem to be trying hard not to understand the point. You assert several times that Erik's doing good, when IMO it's patently obvious he is doing great harm. I can't break thru a wall of denial like that.
Anyways, jfrank801 before me already made the point just fine.
> >> I don't think you're really listening to Erik;
> >Perhaps. When one person indulges themself in verbally abusing > >others, especially with no legitimate provocation, the others > >sometimes tune that person out. Behavior has consequences.
> If they're not listening, there's no reason for them to respond.
Then why did you? And that isn't just a cheap shot (tho it is that too). You yourself just exhibited the behavior of responding without listening. So you *can* see some reason for doing that. So you can't say "If they're not listening, there's no reason for them to respond".
Now, I can agree with you that as a general approach, it's better to killfile an asshole than to continue a thread with him or her. That's what I keep recommending in my sig.
But the situation in cll is a constant, perpetual thing. And so of course it sometimes erupts, because people just get tired of this constant garbage and shoot back. And I certainly can't blame them.
>>>>> "KP" == Kent M Pitman <pit...@world.std.com> writes:
KP> I think some might be reading these anti-erik threads because they KP> call attention to him. I think these do phenomenally more damage KP> to the ng than anything Erik rights.
Was is deliberate that you used the word "rights"?
Supposing it wasn't, I understand your point but I don't agree.
As just evidenced, Erik is so often within a small nudge of writing pages and pages of these characteristic delusional & narcissistic diatribes.
I believe that Erik is not the sort of person that should just have his way because he says some smart things. There are few, if any, unstable people that valuable.
EN> No normally matured person can even hold the idea in his head for EN> a second that "look what you made me do" is a valid excuse for EN> _anything_.
It depends on what "made" means. If it means "you hurt my feelings and now I'm going to hurt you", then it's not a terribly mature way to respond. If it means "we have different values and you act in a way that will influence the satisfaction of my preferences in a highly negative way", then it is entirely appropriate to expect resistance or a counter-response. Like, _dooh_.
Tolerance for intolerance will not be sustainable in the long run.
>>>>> "EN" == Erik Naggum <e...@naggum.net> writes:
EN> Take Marcus G. Daniels, who says he has been following my posts, EN> but he summarizes them with a total absence of nuances and EN> reflection.
Actually what I said was "As you've observed, I've been following your posts". The non-presumptuous and more-literal way to read that is, "I've been following-up after your posts". The context being that I was specifically focused on these threads regarding your response to criticism about being abusive.
Anyway, I've come to believe it is necessary to be clinical and unemotional when dealing with you. You often overload your arguments with a great deal of nuance and personal experience. While this is appealing from a cult-of-personality sort of view (which you may or may not have intended and planned), it is also potentially quite deceptive to the casual reader. So rather than dwelling on your motive, I find it is better to strip-down the content of the conversation if at all possible.
In article <usf63t8popqjh30rvfho3f1ruvl3i7o...@4ax.com>, israel thomas <isra...@optushome.com.au> wrote:
>> Israel Thomas sends me solid evidence of a deeply disrespectul >> personality disorder in _personal_ mail
>My newsreader emailed the mentally challenged little jerk a copy of my >newsgroup posting. ( Just as it will send darling Eroc a copy of >this.) Our little lisper interprets this as private, personal mail.
every newsreader worth being used can be customized not to do that. all i've ever used let you make the decision whether to send an email copy when you decide to reply to a post. you might be well advised to teach your newsreader not to do that any more or (if you can't) switch newsreaders
btw, i have a marvellous suggestion that should help minimize these endless "i hate naggum" threads: everybody who feels like that put him in their killfiles or ignore his messages whenever they encounter them. the percentage of lisp related messages in this ng would benefit from that
* Tom Breton <t...@world.std.com> | Yes, adds to it, and adds greatly to a hostile atmosphere.
No, the hostile atmosphere is not caused by me in _any_ way. I do not address the "atmosphere", but individual people and individual actions of these people. The people who address the atmosphere and who attack people are Marcus G. Daniels, Raffael Cavallaro, Tom Breton, and such random vermin as Israel Thomas. I am not responsible, nor could I ever be, for the kind of articles you USENET terrorists post. You must grow up to take responsibility for your own actions. You cannot blame anyone else for what you do. The kind of provocation you can claim just "happen" to you in real life does not happen in a written medium. You have the option of refraining from responding, of delaying your response until you calm down, of responding in ways that reflect who you want to be, option you do not have in a bar brawl, say, because of the physical and immediate nature of the conflict. If you do not understand this, as I suspect you guys never will, neither will you understand your own role in perpetuating the hostilities like the kinds of apes that form street gangs and fight over their honor.
Now, the most interesting thing here is how the USENET terrorists Tom Breton, Marcus G. Deniels, Raffael Cavallaro and such random vermin as Israel Thomas defend their evil. They do not address actions in a way that it is possible to change anything and have their evil stop. It has always been inordinately simple and straight-forward to stop my criticism, but it amazes me that the moron terrorists do not grasp it. Do not post _your_ personal attacks. I don't attack out of the blue. I never have and I never will. People who want to push my buttons know exactly what to do, and I'm accused of being very predictable by those who try, such as Marcus G. Deniels, who does it for his own insane and perverse "enjoyment". You can't accuse people of being predictable and at the same time claim that they do something without reason. But Marcus G. Daniels is the kind of person who does that. Tom Breton is the kind of person who does that. Raffael Cavallaro is the kind of person who does that. Take a good, close look at the first article that leaking douchebag Israel Thomas ever posted to comp.lang.lisp and you must _be_ Tom Breton if you do not understand what kind of personality we are dealing with in that instance. I cannot _possibly_ be responsible for such first attacks on me. I have no _possible_ way of preventing it, modifying it, _anything_. Only a criminally nsane person like Tom Breton could even _think_ of blaming me for that first hostile article. The hostile atmosphere was and is the responsibility of people like Marcus G. Daniels, who thrive on making other people hate and disrespect who he hates and disrespects. His _goal_ is to create hostile atmospheres where some people are attacked. Israel Thomas is the evidence that he succeeds. That Tom Breton rears his ugly head and Raffael Cavallaro thinks it's OK to come back with more of his unique hostility is the fault of people who try to work the forum up to hate and disrespect people. The moral culpability lies with such instigators, and the morons who respond, that is, pathetic shit-for-brains like Israel Thomas, probably have no mental capacity to understand how they got into their emotional state to begin with. If they did, they would be ashamed of it and stop it.
The people who work up the hostile atmosphere are those who keep it up after every conceivable reason for doing so is gone. I have made it very, very clear that people have an opportunity to do something else. I am explicit about it in every single conflict. People like Tom Breton do not understand this, not because they distrust _me_, but because they distrust _themselves_. They are are hateful, revengeful, and harbor a certainty about their emotional prejudices that defines madness and insanity. On top of it, they are massively uintelligent under pressure, so any ability they would otherwise be able to invoke to change their minds is disconnected. Such people usually grow up to be criminals, gang members, rapists, football hooligans, wife beaters, street protesters who destroy property in blind rage, etc. The very important distinction between normal people and such anti-social scum is that only by thinking do they refrain from violence and other forms of disrespect for other people and their property, so when they lose their ability to think, nothing keeps them back, anymore. Normally matured and socially responsible people actually have an _emotional_ restriction against violence and injustice and disrespect for people and property. It's what we call _conscience_. The kinds of people who have to keep thinking in order to stop themselves from harming others do not actually _have_ a conscience. If you have to _think_ about whether to hit somebody when verbally provoked, you _will_ hit when you feel sufficiently provoked. If your emotional response is _not_ to hit, you don't have to think about it. Pretty simple, yet overlooked by people who normally believe that thinking is much more important than feeling. Such people talk about _controlling_ one's emotions. I submit that the normal, healthy, mature human being does not _have_ feelings that need to be controlled. Those who control their emotions through conscious processes actually _fear_ their own emotions and will respond with extreme _hostility_ to people who argue that no such control is necessary if you are good person. That is why Tom Breton's first inclination is to distrust.
| Why should anybody else believe that?
Distrust without due cause is a symptom of destructive personalities.
| You seem to be trying hard not to understand the point. You assert | several times that Erik's doing good, when IMO it's patently obvious | he is doing great harm. I can't break thru a wall of denial like that.
No, just like the facts cannot be broken through by your distrust.
The day you realize that you _may_ be wrong is the day you have a new hope of becoming an honest human being. Until then, the "wall of denial" sadly applies to he who erects it, not he who identifies it.
| But the situation in cll is a constant, perpetual thing.
I think we need to keep this statement very clearly in mind. This is how Tom Breton sees the situation. Marcus G. Daniels has a similarly deranged and distorted view of both me and the newsgroup. These guys do not see what they do not want to see. We have a long-term resident in comp.lang.lisp who also expressed exactly similar attitudes some time ago, but I was deeply impressed when he understood that he did harbor an image of me that prevented him from seeing what actually happened, and simply stopped doing it. That has happened to a dozen people over the past two dozen years
| And so of course it sometimes erupts, because people just get tired of | this constant garbage and shoot back. And I certainly can't blame | them.
That's surprisingly honest of you, and we need to keep this in mind as a literal statement of how you think and feel, too. No, _you_ most certainly can't "blame" the right person for his actions. Everybody else should, and probably do. The idea that provocation is a license to initiate violence is held only by people who _want_ a license from somebody else to initiate violence. The idea that it is OK to open fire on somebody (the degree of violence is determined not by the principle but by the "provocation") you don't like simply because you claim to be "provoked" is proof of a personality that is a threat to public safety. Tom Breton has a criminal mind with no concept of justice and fairness. One must expect him, like Marcus G. Daniels, to commit acts of actual physical destruction because of his _admitted_ inability to take responsibility for his own actions and his extraordinary willingness to exonerate and excuse others when they attack a target he harbors hatred and emotional prejudice towards. Such is behavior and thinking we find in street thugs and mobsters, but such people are also allowed on USENET. The results are what we see from Tom Breton, Raffael Cavallaro, and Marcus G. Daniels, and the overall result is that random vermin like Isreal Thomas feel that is OK to post their braindamaged shit and to keep feeling enraged despite absence of anything concrete that could explain it. Irrational and destructive minds like that need the Marcus G. Danielsses of the world to feel OK, and Tom Breton and Raffael Cavallaro keep them whipped up in that anti-intelligent, anti-justice, anti-rational, anti-ethical emotional state. If these emotionally disturbed lunatics could snap out of it and start to _think_, there wouldn't be any hostility, and the Marcus G. Danielses of the world would again become invisible.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
* Marcus G. Daniels | Anyway, I've come to believe it is necessary to be clinical and | unemotional when dealing with you.
I take that as an apology for the errors of your ways, but assume that you are able to pull yourself together only when the risks to yourself and your personal freedom because of your actions finally dawn on you. As I have said on numerous occasions, some people start to think only when the pain of doing so is less than the pain of not doing so.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
* Marcus G. Daniels | Tolerance for intolerance will not be sustainable in the long run.
You yourself suffer from such an amazing level of intolerance towards me that you should know what you're talking about, but I disagree. It is only in the long run that our ability to deal with other people's different opinions and their deep caring for their values _can_ be sustainable, but accepting that people do care about different things and do _not_ accept that other people trash and denounce their values constitues _respect_ for people. You have the kind of reprehensible personality that is capable of disrespecting people, and you are even proud of that.
It is not intolerance, but disrespect for people, that cannot and must not be tolerated. One must at all times maintain extreme intolerance towards disrespect for people, life, and property, and that is just what the legal systems of the Western civilization are designed to do -- the uniformity of these principles across so many cultures should be a warning sign to personalities like yours, but you have probably never thought about such things. No criminal mind has the conceptual framework to think about what it means to set up systems where due procedure and laws have precedence over revenge and hatred -- that is what differentiates the criminal mind from the law-abiding citizen who understands on an emotional and fairly direct level that justice does not entail vendettas against people some insane stalker like you simply do not like. Cultures that thrive on hatred and revenge have yet to develop legal systems that protect individual freedom, too, and I don't think they will. Some cultures are just too evil to evolve the concepts of freedom and rights. And you belong to such a culture.
Society rests on the fundamental premise that even if we do not agree on the concrete values, we agree that it is wrong to smear people, destroy property, and kill over our differences. Those who do not agree with this, and you do not, Marcus G. Daniels, are a danger to any society of law and justice. You belong in a lawless society where it would be perfectly legitimate to kill you for your disrespect, and you are a sad and pathetic misfit in a society based on law. I doubt that you can change that part of your personality and therefore your disrespect must not be tolerated at _any_ time. If you keep up the apology of your past evil ways and actually manage to stay "clinical and unemotional" remains to be seen, of course, but I'm always happy to see even the vilest, most reprehensible, most disgusting piece of shit turn around and change his behavior in the future. It does not change the past and I do not believe in forgiving, but as long as you do not relapse, I have no reason to continue to think of you in the ways and terms you deserve for that past. I do not, however, think you have the mental ability to understand that by your own admission, you do not extend this _resepct_ towards me, which makes the evil of your past unforgivable to those who have a concept of forgiveness.
In other words, since I believe your mind has serious problems in accepting input that does not fir your preconceptions, you can never be tolerated for what _you_ do, so just do something else. Start now.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
EN> that I have a criminally insane stalker named Marcus G. Daniels EN> out there who has actually lost the ability to consider others as EN> human beings, is a _little_ easier to deal with than if you were EN> sane and smart and just plain evil, which I thought at first.
Now come on, don't hold back, tell us what you really think!
Damn, and I always preferred to think of myself as the loyal opposition...
>>>>> "SJ" == J Scott Jaderholm <lispbl...@sage.cortland.com> writes:
SJ> When did Gnus 5.9.0 come out? I downloaded a snapshot the other SJ> day and it was only 5.8.7
Sorry, I'm not sure about the status of the latest Gnus code, but it's what has been merged into the GNU Emacs 21 pretests. I bet you could get the details by asking on gnu.emacs.help..
* Marcus G. Daniels | Now come on, don't hold back, tell us what you really think! | | Damn, and I always preferred to think of myself as the loyal opposition... | | Oh well.
Thank you for yet more data on your personality. So this is what you think keeping your word to deal with me "clinically and unemotionally" means! Thank you for showing us how much _ability_ you have to keep your word. Very interesting. Very interesting, indeed. I had really thought you would have avoided the most obvious confirmations of what I have been saying about you, but I'm welcoming more of same if you keep it up, so all people can see that you _can't_ wipe that moronic grin off your own face -- it's your natural state and that mean and menacing look is all you manage when you try to be serious, and fail.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
Erik's reasoning is the same as that of wife beaters and child abusers.
Put simply it is "I'm going to pound some sense into him/her."
Lacking the ability to giving a convincing argument, Erik just pounds away at someone using verbal violence until they get tired of trying to respond rationally and give up. Erik considers this a victory just like a wife abuser considers it a victory when his spouse retreats in fear.
The newgroup is unmoderated so there is nothing we can do can stop Erik from ranting on this newsgroup but we should not condone it. The next time Erik goes off on someone asking a simple question people should post messages asking Erik to grow up and act like an adult. Of course the first person to post such a message will get blasted, but if enough people post Erik _might_ get the idea that he's at fault and he _might_ learn something.
>I believe that Erik is not the sort of person that should just have >his way because he says some smart things. There are few, if any, >unstable people that valuable.
It would be interesting to have Erik walk the streets of Brooklyn for a few days trying to explain to folks how they are criminally insane idiots who should kill themselves, but that doesn't mean that he disrespects them. For better or for worse, that fantasy isn't relevant here.
The fact is that even if Erik _never_ said a smart thing, we would have no control over his postings. It may not seem fair, but it appears to be true that the best way to avoid his lengthy exercises in self-justification is to stop arguing with him about ethics, social consequences, etc. Moreover, just as you're unlikely to alter Erik's thinking, you're unlikely to alter other people's thinking about him. We've drawn our own conclusions.
If you think Erik has taken a cheap shot at someone -- something outside the proper bounds of a comp.lang newsgroup -- it's fine by me to say so. When Erik posts his rebuttal explaining the lofty principles behind his post, I urge you to ignore it. Trust others to make their own judgments. Once you're sucked into an argument about it, then IMHO you become part of the problem.
Let's see if I have the guts to take my own advice.
>>>>> "ML" == Mark Lindeman <mtli...@bellatlantic.net> writes:
ML> When Erik posts his rebuttal explaining the lofty principles ML> behind his post, I urge you to ignore it. Trust others to make ML> their own judgments. Once you're sucked into an argument about ML> it, then IMHO you become part of the problem.
In the past, I've tried to compress my objections into short remarks for just that reason.
To summarize:
I think he has and will set the tone here, and it won't be a nice one.
I think he has and will alienate people for no good reason, other than to satisfy his self-centered impulses.
I think a consequence of accomodating Erik has and will be that visitors will the sense that the Lisp community is smaller and more homogeneous than it is. [Yes, some people will be attracted to the freak-show aspect of the conversation here, but many will dismiss it. Many will be unwilling to wade-through the overloaded language and endure the constant and unnecessar harshness.]
Further, I think he has and will be accomodated, not for his knowledge of Lisp, but because discouraging his abusiveness seems difficult and unrealistic.
I have come to think these things after being subjected to Erik's careless whims for many years in a variety of contexts. It is not, as Erik suggests, a conclusion I came to hastily and now require for psychological reasons. (But I guess you'd expect that answer from a criminally-insane stalker, eh?)
For a while, I was sympathetic to Erik because he does say things that ring true. However, I came to realize he also says things that are utterly misguided and wrong. Worse, the weaker his position the more violent, aggressive, and circular his arguments become.
* jfrank...@my-deja.com | Erik's reasoning is the same as that of wife beaters and child abusers.
Why do you think it is smart to say so much about your personality, and your inability to separate scary fantasies from fact? Don't you have _any_ understanding of what people who read this shit will think about _you_? Or is that why you post from an essentially anonymous account?
I wonder, though: Have you, too, been deeply personally impressed, as in: deeply emotionally disturbed and agitated, by Marcus G. Daniels' rhetoric and now think I'm fair game for any sort of completely insane accusation and that you are free of all responsibility for your own unspeakably bad actions?
And to what depths _do_ you guys sink when you lose control and feel justified in attacking people? I have done _nothing_ bad, _ever_, compared to what you people do towards me! The sheer insanity of the fucking _lynch_mobs_ that you guys form to gang up on me shows that criminally insane stalkers like Marcus G. Daniels and his ilk are the ones who _really_ create a hostile environment here where disrespect for people is the core undertone. This is the kind of newsgroup that Marcus G. Daniels wants.
| The newgroup is unmoderated so there is nothing we can do can stop | Erik from ranting on this newsgroup but we should not condone it.
Should we condone _your_ rants? Please be _honest_ when you answer.
I think this newsgroup has a choice. Either the Marcus G. Daniels asylum/fan club takes over and we have people like this lunatic post accusations from his perverse fantasy world against any and everybody without any possible clue what he's talking about, or I'm right: The Marcus G. Daniels asylum/fan club needs to be driven out for good.
What do I "learn" from this? I learn that some people are insane and go completely nuts when _they_ find something they don't like. They attack without warning, which is what the Marcus G. Daniels fan club wants to _portray_ me as doing so these nutcrackers feel justified in doing the same. There is nothing I can possibly _do_ that would make these lunatics stop what they are doing and go away. People like Marcus G. Daniels needs to go away, because he and his ilk are driving the nutballs up the wall and encouraging them to do what they do. By posting so much disrespectful bile that other vermin who have the same inclination as him to stop thinking of other people as _people_ can attack me in ways that no person who has any conscience at all ever could.
This is _your_ world, Marcus G. Daniels. A world where people who disrespect _people_ roam the streets and beat people up. Are you happy, now? Does your disrespect for me go so far that you condone your disciples? Are you happy with your own anti-Naggum "cult" of supporting lunatics? What exactly does it take for you to realize what _you_ do to this forum?
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
> The sheer insanity of the > fucking _lynch_mobs_ that you guys form to gang up on me shows that > criminally insane stalkers like Marcus G. Daniels and his ilk are the > ones who _really_ create a hostile environment here where disrespect > for people is the core undertone.
jfrank...@my-deja.com writes: > Erik's reasoning is the same as that of wife beaters and child abusers.
Appealing to this kind metaphor in this context trivializes the notion of what such abuse is. Don't do it.
> Put simply it is "I'm going to pound some sense into him/her."
As I see it, you've done nothing very differently through your post.
> Lacking the ability to giving a convincing argument,
This is a subjective analysis. Although I don't read every message he writes, I generally find Erik's arguments quite credible in most cases. I don't enjoy some of his language, nor some of his atttitudes toward some posters, but the mere fact of his use of certain words don't cause me to think him any different than people who get angry and use more reserved language to express it.
> Erik just pounds away at someone using verbal violence > until they get tired of trying to respond rationally and give up.
I don't see any material difference between what Erik is accused of and how the accusers on this thread are proceeding. They are just pounding away also, hoping he'll get tired, because they are unable to advance an argument that convinces him to behave otherwise, if indeed the "problem" is correctly characterized by the simple need for him to be convinced, which I doubt. Behavior like that which bothers you is often not the result of conscious choice, and hence is often more invisible to the person doing it than you probably imagine.
> Erik considers this a victory just like > a wife abuser considers it a victory when his spouse retreats in fear.
Will you consider it a victory if he retreats here? How is that different? You have chosen to fight fire with fire. How does this prove a moral point?
Since he will almost certainly not caused him to retreat, and since you probably knew (or should have known) that he would not, why are you wasting space on this newsgroup with this kind of talk?
> The newgroup is unmoderated so there is nothing we can do can stop Erik > from ranting on this newsgroup but we should not condone it.
Failing to use newsgroup bandwith about this is not "condoning" it. Numerous avenues are available to you which do not involve the newsgroup:
- Send him private e-mail registering your opinion. - Watch for affected people, and advise them to ignore Erik's ire in cases that you find it unwarranted. - Ignore Erik. - Boycott the newsgroup, hoping someone will care. (I do this periodically on issues that matter to me, though people seem to do little more than send me mail saying they wish I would return. It never seems to result, as I might naively expect, in people complaining to the party that drove me away. Your mileage might vary, though.)
> The next > time Erik goes off on someone asking a simple question people should > post messages asking Erik to grow up and act like an adult.
No. Someone might should post or e-mail to the party in question identifying the option to ignore Erik. But everyone sending hate mail here will just make this a newsgroup filled with hate mail.
> Of course > the first person to post such a message will get blasted, but if enough > people post Erik _might_ get the idea that he's at fault and he _might_ > learn something.
And if he doesn't? What might he learn? That he is driving people away? He has said he thinks he's doing it righteously. Who is to be the judge of that.
Will you, upon learning that I'm taking a vacation from this newsgroup to protest your protest, have learned that you have also caused damage through your actions, or will you, like him, just decide it's ok for you to have had the ill effect you had because you think you are acting righteously? And who will be the judge?
This is a free speech forum. See http://world.std.com/~pitman/pfaq/usenet-freedom.html Silence here does not give consent. Consent, such as it is, is given by virtue of your acceptance of the (non)rules of the forum itself, since no poster can be denied. This is exactly in order to assure that the conversational style doesn't sink to the least common denominator. If everyone who disagreed with any given poster's morals spoke out, there would be nothing but the sound of the offended drowning out all else. This forum, by its nature, calls for the offended to learn tools (such as killfiles) to protect themselves. This forum is, by its nature, not for the weak hearted.
I don't think it's the case with Erik, by the way, but in most cases I've seen, getting beaten up by a mass of people is what the offending person wants anyway. It gives them sense of attention and a consequent sense of power and only feeds the cycle. Being ignored is much more effective. But I don't think that dynamic is in play here.
It is too bad that Erik offends people. I wish he wouldn't. It is too bad that you offend people by wasting public time on what you have no power to change. I wish you wouldn't, too.
AND it is also too bad that I have probably offended others by behaving hypocritically and compounding what I believe to be your mistake. Rather than engage in further discussion of this, I'm going to just do what I promised before I would do if this thread continued, and opt out of this newsgroup for the rest of the calendar year, or until the anti-Erik threads all subside, in the unlikely event that happens first. (Then again, if it doesn't happen first, I don't promise to return next year. I'd just get dragged back into it and I woldn't like myself for it.)
I sometimes enjoy posting here, so this is part penalty to me. I sometimes do not enjoy it, and you are causing such a situation, so in that regard this is part vacation. It's a definite gray area.
I'm mostly just dismayed that you sucked me into responding yet again, since I know better than to realistically think my words will have been effectual, I apologize to the community for having wasted further bandwidth on this topic. I hope that no one will waste further words about me in similar kind, whether to applaud me or to chastise me. This newsgroup should be about Lisp, not about the public berating of individual posters. Such communication, if it needs to be done at all, can take place over e-mail where it doesn't pollute the archives and everyone's newsreading experience.
Oh, and since I don't imagine at this point that I'll be posting again before then--Merry Christmas to all! See you next year. --Kent
* Marcus G. Daniels | I think he has and will set the tone here, and it won't be a nice one.
Well, _you_ have set the tone here, too, and it _is_ not a nice one.
A forum with people who gang up on others with insane accusations in the spirit of _your_ disrespect and hostility must appeal to you since you keep it up, but I wonder how it is possible for someone concerned about how _others_ influence a forum to neglect his _own_ role.
| I think he has and will alienate people for no good reason, other than | to satisfy his self-centered impulses.
Well, rather than alienate people, you bring in the lunatics with _your_ tone. That is _much_ worse. I don't know about self-centered. It's such an incredibly childish thing to say, but I guess _you_ know.
| Further, I think he has and will be accomodated, not for his knowledge | of Lisp, but because discouraging his abusiveness seems difficult and | unrealistic.
Just as you have been and will be "accomodated" because you think you are even _more_ justified in posting your _purely_ destructive shit than I am in posting _technical_ corrections and urging people not to post guesses, untested code, etc. I have a very clear objective, and it is only people like you and Tom Breton who actively distrust it, but when it is satisfied, I'm actually happy about it. I have no idea what your objective is. Would anything at all make you happy and shut up, short of my violent death at your hands, of course?
Please tell the forum what would make you happy and satisfied that you have reached your goals. I think that would be fascinating to hear.
| I have come to think these things after being subjected to Erik's | careless whims for many years in a variety of contexts.
You get what you ask for. You have been attacking me out of the blue for as long as I can remember, with an endless stream of snide remarks. What do you really _expect_ with _your_ behavior? Why do you fail to realize that your actions cause reactions in kind from other people?
| For a while, I was sympathetic to Erik because he does say things that | ring true. However, I came to realize he also says things that are | utterly misguided and wrong. Worse, the weaker his position the more | violent, aggressive, and circular his arguments become.
Then how come your best response is a snide remark? One must wonder. People who make such broad generalizations as you do have never come up with any actual evidence of what is "utterly misguided and wrong", or even what would be _right_. It is mere opinion, and the hostility that such people have towards me is not a very good indicator of the truth of _their_ claim, is it? Failure to deal with differences of opinion through the kind of sniper attacks with endless reems of snide remarks and hostility-breeding attitudes that you have kept going for years and years does not exactly _convince_ anyone that you're right. All it does is convince people that if I want away or shut up, you'd be free to post _your_ "opinion" without response from people who know better. If this sounds familiar to the Tom Breton optimization case, well, that is _no_ surprise, is it? And see how he went off the deep end, just like you have. People who are wrong and dead set never to change their mind no matter what happens do turn into lunatics who attack me for anything and everything and exaggerate like madmen about their problems with me. But their problem is with _my_ unwillingness to accept their bogus stories. Apparently that is something we share, only you're too fucking retarded to realize it.
On the other hand, I wonder what the hell is wrong with saying things that are "utterly misguided and wrong". Are you disappointed that I'm not _perfect_? Hell, _I'm_ not even disappointed that I'm not perfect. With all this bullshit about cults, self-centered, etc, I conclude that you have cast me as a cult leader cum guru who has _betrayed_ you by not always posting brilliant and superbly correct answers.
But seriously, are there _anyone_ on this planet that, in some _other_ people's views, do _not_ say things that are "utterly misguided and wrong"? Even on a regular basis? What kind of people live up to your demand that they _never_ say anything that is utterly misguided and wrong? Is this really how you have such fucked-up ideas about people _enforcing_ conformance to definitions? What kind of lunacy is _that_?
Yes, I say things that Marcus G. Daniels thinks is utterly misguided and wrong. He responds with snide remarks and broad generalizations. Take your pick. If he can't be bothered to do something constructive and has to try to tarnish people for failing to live up to his weird requirements, what he considers "utterly misguided and wrong" may just be correct for everyone else. There's no way of knowing, though.
#:Erik -- "When you are having a bad day and it seems like everybody is trying to piss you off, remember that it takes 42 muscles to produce a frown, but only 4 muscles to work the trigger of a good sniper rifle." -- Unknown
>>>>> "EN" == Erik Naggum <e...@naggum.net> writes:
EN> Please tell the forum what would make you happy and satisfied EN> that you have reached your goals. I think that would be EN> fascinating to hear.
I would be satisfied if you started saying, "no, that's wrong, and here's why .." instead of "you fucking moron why don't you kill yourself? No, wait, first I want an apology from your mother for ever giving birth to that disgusting little imbecile."
If someone persists in posting questionable or untrue statements, if you wish, persist in correcting them. Just do it without the attacks.
Thank you for your response and I'll leave some words here for you to read in case you return to this newsgroup.
Most of us here are professional programmers. We do our job well because we've learned the rules that govern programming. This forum is not a program however, it's a discusion group. What rules should we use in this forum? To answer that the smart person will seek out the people who do discussion and debate for a living and ask what rules they use. These people are the politicians. If you've watched good political debate you note one thing: all participants are exceedingly polite. They will use phrases like "the distinguished representative from Vermont" rather than "the flaming asshole". By being polite to eachother they remove the emotion and leave only the logic to their arguments. This allows information to transferred, compromises to be made and no one's pride is damaged.
If we were to use this technique here then we too would get more information transferred and could have long debates with no one feeling offended or fearful of putting in their two cents.
Erik has stated that this is not how he plans on operating. Anyone who says something stupid (i.e. who disagrees with Erik) will get flamed so as to fry the stupidity out of them (i.e. until they agree with Erik or leave the newsgroup). This is not conducive to having any kind of discussion.
My point is that we should let Erik know that we don't appreciate his behavior when he follows through on his scorched newgroup plan. Email privately to Erik isn't going to help, nor will flaming Erik back. Instead just politely tell him that you would appreciate him acting in a more civilized manner. Many people have privately told me that they appreciate my making this point, but private email to me isn't going to convince Erik. Everyone has to stand and be counted.
I would consider a 'victory' being Erik staying with the newsgroup and his posts arguing using logic rather that personal attacks.
JF> Erik's reasoning is the same as that of wife beaters and child abusers.
KP> Appealing to this kind metaphor in this context trivializes the notion KP> of what such abuse is. Don't do it.
Let's encourage Erik to stop it as well, then:
EN> It has always been inordinately simple and straight-forward to stop my EN> criticism, but it amazes me that the moron terrorists do not grasp it.
KP> Failing to use newsgroup bandwith about this is not "condoning" it. KP> Numerous avenues are available to you which do not involve the newsgroup: KP> - Send him private e-mail registering your opinion.
We've seen how he responds to that. With a single e-mail, you'll get "stop harassing me, I'll call the police" or he'll use it as something indefinite and inaccessible to exaggerate about, as in the most recent case.
KP> Behavior like that which bothers you is often not the result of KP> conscious choice, and hence is often more invisible to the person KP> doing it than you probably imagine.
Then it is all the more important to point-out the objectionable behavior -- to make it visible.
JF> Of course the first person to post such a message will get JF> blasted, but if enough people post Erik _might_ get the idea that JF> he's at fault and he _might_ learn something.
KP> And if he doesn't? What might he learn? That he is driving people away? KP> He has said he thinks he's doing it righteously.
It is easy to keep thinking that, so long as a cost is not exposed to him.