On 2013-01-02 08:14:02 -0800, Tony Cooper <
tonyco...@gmail.com> said:
> On Wed, 2 Jan 2013 06:49:09 -0800, Savageduck
> <savageduck1@{REMOVESPAM}
me.com> wrote:
>
>> On 2013-01-02 05:04:01 -0800, DanP <
po...@vatican.org> said:
>>
>>> On Tue, 01 Jan 2013 03:35:45 -0500, nospam wrote:
>>>
>>>> In article <
1p05e8dqois2ibsc7...@4ax.com>, Tony Cooper
>>>> <
tonyco...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> That's the way of this group, Brian. If you are not doing things the
>>>>> way certain other people do them, they will tell you how wrong you are.
>>>>> SavageDuck will tell you, but in a polite and informative way. nospam
>>>>> will rudely tell you that you are a foolish Luddite who will not let
>>>>> the computer do the work for you.
>>>>
>>>> tony will let you do stupid things that will end up hurting you in the
>>>> long run. he doesn't actually care if you lose data.
>>>
>>> Tony just told him to go the HDD way but he knows that it not happen.
>>>
>>> If you care if he loses his data you have to get your point across and
>>> antagonising will never help.
>>>
>>> DanP
>>
>> The issue is, not whether Tony, or any of us care if Brian loses his
>> data, it is Brian's outright rejection of good advice, given in the
>> various expressions of sincerity each of us have been able to muster.
>
> Why is there anything wrong with Brian rejecting advice?
Not a thing. Just the manner of his rejection.
> Brian evidently has a system that he's comfortable with that works for him.
> He didn't ask for suggestions for a better system; he asked if there
> is software around that would make one step in his present system a
> bit easier.
So, just because he ask for software to make his bad method easier,
does not mean that it is bad form to point out that his particular
method is not good, even with good software assistance. Especially with
the quantity of data he wants to backup.
> There were a few suggestions about what software might do this, but
> the discussion turned to suggestions about another system. It wasn't
> just a discussion, either. nospam, in his usual bullying bombastic
> style, insulted the man six ways from the middle for not seeing the
> wisdom of nospam's way of doing things.
...and did you expect anything less from nospam, once the rejection was stated?
> For Christ's sake...if the man wants to do it his way, let him.
He is going to do what he wants regardless of any suggestions here,
that includes your suggestion for "Nero" which at $110 is certainly not
the freeware solution he wants.
> He isn't necessarily going to lose any data his way. There's a
> possibility, but there's a possibility of loss of data in any system.
Agreed, but with the DVD method, the odds for a successful data
recovery are far longer.
>> Right or wrong, I try to give whatever advice I can in good faith, and
>> all I ask is the recipient consider it. I believe Tony feels the same.
>> Brian used the most feeble of reasons, in this of all groups, to tell
>> us he was never going to listen to us because his age justified his
>> position.
>
> That's his prerogative.
Prerogative! He was never going to take any useful suggestion.
>> He was determined to use the most time consuming, least convenient, and
>> most unreliable backup method, in the face of good advice.
>
> Yeah, but so what? They're his images. It's his time. He can utilize
> it any way he wants.
Agreed. However one can only suggest a more efficient method.
>> All he does is splutter on about being an "old man" without even saying
>> thanks for
>> our efforts to provide good information.
>
> After the comments made about him, including your reference to his
> spluttering old man feeble responses, why should he be grateful? He
> came asking a specific question and was pilloried for not doing what
> some of think is the best way to do things. He didn't get a good
> answer to his specific question. What does he have to be thankful
> about?
I have only made the "spluttering old man" reference above.
...and "pilloried"? The responses he got for his summary rejection of
the good suggestions offered him, could hardly be described as being
pilloried.
>
>> With that attitude,
>
> Who has the "attitude" here? Brian, who is comfortable in doing
> things the way he's doing them, or the people who ridicule and insult
> Brian for not doing things in what they consider to be the right way?
He is obviously not comfortable doing things the way he is doing
things. He is having issues creating DVD size directories, a problem
which vanishes if he goes to an HDD system with an incremental backup
protocol. He came to this group to find a way to make his awkward
method easy, and most of us advised him to change methods to something
more efficient and reliable. He didn't want to hear that, because, in
his mind, his qualification as an "old man" justified his obstinacy.
>> several
>> hundred DVD's as a backup, and little guaranty that the full set would
>> be intact if the need to access his archive should ever arise, why
>> should any of us care when he obviously does not?
>
> Exactly.
>
> I think you, and others, did the right thing in bringing up other ways
> to back-up his images. That could have been helpful to him. It
> stopped being the right thing, though, when it became an insulting
> dialog because Brian wasn't interested in following the suggestions.
The point is, it was not so much his rejection of the suggestions
given, but the manner of the rejection, and the "I'm an old man"
justification for his position which irked me.
You will note I only used my "spluttering old man" comment in my prior
post currently being discussed. I could have said worse, and most
"insulting dialog" was pretty tame given some of the language and
posturing we are exposed to in the usenet flame wars.
--
Regards,
Savageduck