tony cooper sent the following on 3/23/2012 2:42 PM:
> On Fri, 23 Mar 2012 13:16:58 -0500, "Jim G."<
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> wrote:
>
>> tony cooper sent the following on 3/22/2012 6:25 PM:
>>> On Thu, 22 Mar 2012 14:07:39 -0500, "Jim G."<
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>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> tony cooper sent the following on 3/21/2012 10:16 PM:
>>>>> On Thu, 22 Mar 2012 08:50:29 +0800, Robert Bannister
>>>>> <
rob...@bigpond.com> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> On 22/03/12 5:03 AM, Jim G. wrote:
>>>>>>> David Dyer-Bennet sent the following on 3/19/2012 4:00 PM:
>>>>>>>> "Jim G."<
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>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> David Dyer-Bennet sent the following on 3/16/2012 4:31 PM:
>>>>>>>>>> "Jim G."<
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>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> David Dyer-Bennet sent the following on 3/16/2012 2:04 PM:
>>>>>>>>>>>> "Jim G."<
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>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Cheryl sent the following on 3/16/2012 5:54 AM:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> A lot of people who talk about tolerance and acceptance don't
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> seem to
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> realize what the words really mean. I'm not being tolerant if I
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> support
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> someone's right to do something that I agree with and most of
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> society
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> doesn't. I am being tolerant if I support someone's right to do
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> something I disagree with, even if the rest of society agrees
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> with the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> other person and not me.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Yep. Tolerance, to some, means "I'll put up with people or ideas
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that
>>>>>>>>>>>>> don't bother me too much," and diversity means "I support groups
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I like." As always, the idea of a two-way street just doesn't
>>>>>>>>>>>>> seem to
>>>>>>>>>>>>> penetrate when it comes to those folks. And at the moment, we're
>>>>>>>>>>>>> seeing a lot of people who probably want to consider themselves
>>>>>>>>>>>>> to be
>>>>>>>>>>>>> tolerant and pro-diversity showing a lot of intolerance for the
>>>>>>>>>>>>> rights
>>>>>>>>>>>>> of the Catholic church, and a not-particularly-surprising lack of
>>>>>>>>>>>>> interest in diversity when it comes to beliefs on the issue of
>>>>>>>>>>>>> contraception.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> You don't believe in contraception, don't use. Seems simple enough
>>>>>>>>>>>> to me.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> Because it is. But it's irrelevant to the very legitimate complaint in
>>>>>>>>>>> question, so I'm not really sure what good it does either of us to
>>>>>>>>>>> acknowledge it.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> For the nth time, the core issue here isn't contraception, as the
>>>>>>>>>>> Church is in no way trying to force anyone non-Catholic into living
>>>>>>>>>>> according to the Church's views on contraception.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> The Church is asking for the right to offer deficient medical care.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Since when is contraception a medical care necessity?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Since the 1960s. Since modern contraception became possible,
>>>>>>>> basically. It's one of the most important medical advances ever made.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> I'm pretty sure that you're confused about the meaning of "necessity."
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> And
>>>>>>>>>> to students at a university, of all people and places! That's
>>>>>>>>>> grotesquely morally irresponsible.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> So, by your logic, any insurance plan that places any limits
>>>>>>>>> *whatsoever* on the price that it will pay to cover a given ailment
>>>>>>>>> must be "grotesquely morally irresponsible," as well, right?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Nonsense.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Why is it nonsense? You just said that "deficient medical care" is
>>>>>>> "grotesquely morally irresponsible" when it comes to contraception.
>>>>>>> Wouldn't it be even *more* "grotesquely morally irresponsible" in
>>>>>>> matters even more related to life-and-death? Matters like cancer and
>>>>>>> heart disease and the like? As such, how could you ever justify cutting
>>>>>>> off treatment for these more serious matters?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> But basic preventive care is one of the most important things
>>>>>>>> to invest in.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Fertility is not an illness or a medical problem. As such, contraception
>>>>>>> does not "prevent" an illness or a medical problem.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> If it were just a case of contraception, then condoms would be cheaper,
>>>>>> do the job and not be any concern of medical insurance, but as you have
>>>>>> been told several times already the Pill is used for a number of medical
>>>>>> conditions, some of which are life-threatening.
>>>>>
>>>>> Despite the rather silly and male chauvinistic remark about women
>>>>> being stupid or sluts,
>>>>
>>>> Which wasn't said. But thanks for the misrepresentation. Are you always
>>>> this intellectually dishonest?
>>>
>>> Here's what prompted it: "Well, it's generally a valid point unless
>>> the woman in question is so stupid and/or slutty that she's used to
>>> having sex with guys she can't trust."
>>
>> Yes. Note the "unless." And note the "the woman in question." (I've
>> already pointed out the "and/or" that you ignored in the past, but I'll
>> mention it again here, as well.) In other words, it wasn't a blanket
>> indictment of *all* women. The fact that you didn't qualify "women" in
>> any way in your own statement above is a gross misrepresentation of what
>> I have said.
>>
>>> Here's your latest on that: "...I'm perfectly willing to go on record
>>> as believing that any woman who lets herself get conned in this regard
>>> is well on her way down Stupid Street, for starters. And the fact that
>>> she apparently doesn't know that the guy is capable of cons *before*
>>> she decides to sleep with him suggests that she might be familiar with
>>> Slut Street, as well, given that she can't know the guy very well and
>>> is still going to sleep with him."
>>>
>>> Where's the intellectual dishonesty?
>>
>> It's in the fact that you're implying--when you're not outright
>> stating--that I intend any of this to apply to *all* women.
>
> No, there's no implication, or thought in my mind, that you are
> applying those terms to *all* women.
In that case, you should have qualified your earlier "Despite the rather
silly and male chauvinistic remark about women being stupid or sluts"
comment into something like "Despite the rather silly and male
chauvinistic remark about some women being stupid or sluts."
> But, you are willing to apply to
> *any* woman who can be deceived by a man. That's objectionable
> enough.
A woman who gets deceived by a man in the birth control context has
already done something stupid. Now, whether she is serially stupid or
whether it was an isolated moment of stupidity would depend on the
specifics of her situation.
>> Some women
>> are stupid and/or slutty. Some aren't. Some *men* are stupid and/or
>> slutty. And some aren't. It's important to be clear on which subset is
>> being discussed, and I believe that my statements above make it
>> perfectly clear which subsets I'm talking about in both backquotes.
>
> While some women are either sluts or stupid, or both, an occasional
> irresponsible act does not make them either.
That's where we disagree. Stupid is stupid, but I *will* agree that
there are chronically/serially stupid people out there and others who
are of a more random nature in that regard. And then there are women who
*aren't* stupid, and those would be the ones who don't put themselves in
a situation that will require birth control unless they know that
they're with someone who is not going to deceive them.
> I get the impression
> that you think that any woman who becomes pregnant unintentionally is,
> by nature, a slut.
Nonsense. But short of rape, there is no way for *any* woman to have
"unintentional" sex without a condom. Again, save me the condom failure
nonsense, as the *context* in which this particular bit of irrelevancy
came up was when someone suggested that it was more or less beyond the
woman's control to ensure that a guy wears a condom.
In fact, I just asked three women I know if they could ever imagine
themselves forgetting to require a condom on a guy if a condom was a
priority for them, and--not surprisingly--all three said that the mere
thought was a joke.
> The next time you go to mass, look around at all of the virtuous,
> intelligent women in the pews and try to figure out which may have
> married less than nine months before the birth of their first child.
That's not how I get my entertainment, but thanks for the suggestion.
--
Jim G. | Waukesha, WI
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