plauge of the ex

areca_24

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Nov 10, 2005, 4:33:22 PM11/10/05

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I been thinking about life, love and everything else today (I've been a busy
girl!). I thought I might compile a book of anecdotes and observations about
ex's.I have found that in relationships it seems the ghosts of ex's tend to
linger. Sometimes to the detriment of the current relationship. How do we
make our minds not think about our own or our partner's ex's when they often
have such a bearing on the here and now? Anyway thought I'd just throw this
out there and see what you all think and maybe what experiences you have
had. Surely it's not just me?!!

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Blondie

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Nov 10, 2005, 5:02:53 PM11/10/05

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My ex is a total w*anker, and best he stay under the large rock he is under
:-D

Rob

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Nov 10, 2005, 7:33:07 PM11/10/05

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Yes it must be just you ;-)

Only kidding . But your post got me thinking myself .

I can remember ( almost every girl I have ever been involved with ( some
more than others ) although the earlier ones are just vague faces with
forgotten names .

I suppose I get abit sad if I thought they never thought of me .

And yes , it does probably interfere with current relationships.

Although , I bet your chap looks like a Saint compared to me , lol

My ex list goes ,

Unknown , x 1-----
Terresa , x -----
Lorna , x -----
Debra , x 1 2 -----
Bridget , x @-----
Paula , x 1 2-----
Sally , x 1 @ ----
Joanne ,x -----
Elizabeth , x -----
Lorraine , x 1 2 @-----
Judith , x 1 2 @-----
Deborah , x 1 @-----
Unknown , x 1-----
Janine , x 1 2 % @-----
Yvonne , x 1 2 % @-----
Sharon , x 1 2 % @-----
Carole , x -----
Sue , x 1 2 % & ** $ -----
Tracy , x 1-----
Unknown , x -----
Mandy , x 1 @-----
Unknown , x-----
Sarah , x @-----
Samantha , x-----
Unknown , x -----
Lindsey , x 1 2 %-----
Unknown , x-----
Linda , x 1 2 %-----
Gillian , x 1 2 % @-----
Nenah , x 1 2 % @-----
Hazel , x 1 2 %-----
Sarah , x 1 2 %-----

KEY

x - kissed

1 - 1st base

2 - 2nd base

% - slept with

& - married

$ - Still with

** - have children with

@ - would see again

--------------------

So , hell yes to past , present , and future relationships .

I do tend to ponder over if's and but's and what could have been's . Dont
know if thats what you meant with your post .

Maybe it's both sexes that wonder .

But you see , us guys are quite reminicers and sentimental ourselves .

We arn't all " Men behaving Badly " ;-)

Anyway , all that thinking stirred up memories for me.

I'm off for a w*nk ;-)

p.s ( in fact , if someone new ever asks me about my past , I think
i'll just print off this page and go for a pint , and let them get their own
head round it , lol )

p.p.s ( I hope I remember to delete this from the sent items box in outlook
before the missis sees it )

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Blondie

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Nov 11, 2005, 3:12:47 AM11/11/05

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LMFAO @ off for a w*ank

Icemaiden

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:13:34 AM11/11/05

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Ditto lol

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Icemaiden

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:14:59 AM11/11/05

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LOL Thats a long list, you slut, Rob lol

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Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:23:27 AM11/11/05

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I was actually waiting for someone to say , how come the one you married ,
had kids to , and were still with , is stuck in the middle of the list ;-)

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Icemaiden

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:29:20 AM11/11/05

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Either you couldn`t be bothered to list in order or you split up and got
back together?

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Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:53:54 AM11/11/05

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No it was in order and no .

Icemaiden

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Nov 11, 2005, 5:03:13 AM11/11/05

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Well? Tell us then why? :-)

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Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 5:54:18 AM11/11/05

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Well , we were together for about fourteen years before marrage . It was
quite an open relationship on my part during that time . I'm not saying
it's good to do that and then again I'm not saying it was not fun .

In relation to the list , marrage came in between , Hazel and Sarah . The
kids came after Sarah .

So even though I had flings while we were boyfriend/girlfriend , I suppose
I could say I was only unfaithful once whilst married , and none since
having children .

I must have grown up ;-)

I would actually break up now if or when I wanted to see someone else .

It's much too stressfull is deceit .

Icemaiden

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Nov 11, 2005, 8:04:30 AM11/11/05

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I do believe that if you cheat when married then you shouldn`t be together
:-) Nice to hear you have settled down now :-)

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Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 12:46:34 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 00:33:07 +0000, Rob wrote:

LOL @ deleting it from your outbox....

You've been round the block mate.....lol

Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 12:47:59 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 09:23:27 +0000, Rob wrote:

Okies i will ask that question...

How come the one you married, had kids by and are still with got stuck in
the middle of the list?

LOL

Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 2:02:35 PM11/11/05

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I did actually answer it above somewhere , but in case you missed it I
said............

>Well , we were together for about fourteen years before marrage . It was
quite an open relationship on my part during that time . I'm not saying

it's good to do that and then again I'm not saying it was NOT fun .

In relation to the list , marrage came in between , Hazel and Sarah . The
kids came after Sarah .

So even though I had flings while we were boyfriend/girlfriend , I suppose
I could say I was only unfaithful " once " whilst married , and none
since
having children .

I must have grown up ;-)

I would actually break up now if "or" when I wanted to see someone else .

It's much too stressfull is deceit .

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Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 2:10:01 PM11/11/05

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It's doesn't feel like that , really .

I mean . the list starts from age 10 , goes all through the school years ,
and end as of now at age 37 and 11/12ths .

I thought 10 bedded was quite a low figure for a bloke .

Anyway , wheres all your list's ?

Or were the ex's so bad , they killed the memories . ;-)

Oh , yes , and I keep having to remember to delete all these replies from
the sent items box too .

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Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 2:39:37 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 19:10:01 +0000, Rob wrote:

A lady does not kiss and tell.....lol

Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 2:40:32 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 19:02:35 +0000, Rob wrote:

Yeah sorry i did read the answer further down the thread....:-)

Blondie

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Nov 11, 2005, 3:48:24 PM11/11/05

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Since when were you a lady LOL

Rob

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Nov 11, 2005, 3:59:00 PM11/11/05

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That's why us guys can get away with having a string of you on the go at on
time . he he he

Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:19:36 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 20:59:00 +0000, Rob wrote:

I know what my guy would have strung up if he stung me along......lol

Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 4:19:04 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 20:48:24 +0000, ****Blondie**** wrote:

OI you cheeky madam....;-p

Blondie

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Nov 11, 2005, 5:20:40 PM11/11/05

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Megaspecial K

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Nov 11, 2005, 6:40:16 PM11/11/05

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On Fri, 11 Nov 2005 22:20:40 +0000, ****Blondie**** wrote:

Humphhhhhhhhhh....

Magpie

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Nov 12, 2005, 4:46:05 AM11/12/05

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Jane , x 1-----
Karen , x 1 2 % @
Julie , x 1 2 %

Sharon , x 1 2 %

Gillian , x 1 2

helen , x 1 2-----
Alice , x 1 2 % ----
Tracy ,x 1 2 % @
Juliette , x 1 2 % % % % % @@@@ -----
lyn , x 1 2 %
rachel , x 1 2 % & **
Couple others i cant remember...
Im fussy ;-) One more I need to add to the list hopefully with a $ on
the end .. eh Jo x
KEY

x - kissed

1 - 1st base

2 - 2nd base

% - slept with

& - married

$ - Still with

** - have children with

@ - would see again

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Blondie

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Nov 12, 2005, 5:49:39 AM11/12/05

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So my name will have none of the other symbols on it ;-) lol

Rob

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Nov 12, 2005, 9:59:49 AM11/12/05

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Lol . yeah .

No foreplay , just streight in at the deep end !!

Not that I'm saying , Jo , it would be deep .. er down there , I meant
to , er say ...

In fact I'd better just shut up .

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Blondie

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Nov 12, 2005, 1:11:10 PM11/12/05

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LOL yea i would too :-/

Summer

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Dec 17, 2005, 5:57:34 PM12/17/05

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Rob

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Dec 17, 2005, 7:41:27 PM12/17/05

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"Summer" <sum...@3warrenstown.com> wrote
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I tell you what Summer ,

It fecking WAS Summer when I wrote that post . Where the hell you been in
replying ?