You take this all so personally

[Charred]

Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It
is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.
James 4:14

Did you ever think about this as you were blowing smoke up into the sky?
Surely, God must have created cigarettes for our pleasure!

It's a Stinking, Expensive, Dangerous, Filthy, Addiction!

[Kathleen]

It is personal, when we lose someone we love, and then get cryptic comments
like this from you. It is hurtful, and not only do you not seem to care,
but you stir the pot with these "drive by" postings that make sense to only
you.

With hope and heart,
Kathleen


"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote in message
news:jffreh$cih$1...@dont-email.me...

[BessieBee]

On 1/21/2012 8:40 PM, Kathleen wrote:
> It is personal, when we lose someone we love, and then get cryptic
> comments like this from you. It is hurtful, and not only do you not seem
> to care, but you stir the pot with these "drive by" postings that make
> sense to only you.
>
> With hope and heart,
> Kathleen

Kathleen: this is the shit-stirrer formerly known as Keven.

BessieBee
--
"Don't talk unless you can improve the silence."

[Charred]

What is it that you think I was actually saying Kathleen?
I was being very clear.


























































































































































































































































































































































"Kathleen" wrote in message news:9o1b92...@mid.individual.net...

[Charred]

This is the current shit-sever known as BessieBee.

[Kathleen]

Your posts quit making sense a couple years ago.

With hope and heart,
Kathleen


"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote in message

news:jfg0ia$ure$1...@dont-email.me...

[Kathleen]

> Kathleen: this is the shit-stirrer formerly known as Keven.
>
> BessieBee
> --
> "Don't talk unless you can improve the silence."

I know, I keep thinking that the Keven I knew and loved is in there
somewhere.

[Sue]

On Sat, 21 Jan 2012 19:41:57 -0800, "Charred" <sto...@intime.com>
wrote:

>What is it that you think I was actually saying Kathleen?
>I was being very clear.

There have been many times I've been misunderstood for the worse. I
reread what I wrote, see where the problem happened, clarify and
apologize. I guess that's too much for you, isn't it? Obviously you
*weren't* clear.

[Sue]

On Sat, 21 Jan 2012 19:44:09 -0800, "Charred" <sto...@intime.com>
wrote:

>This is the current shit-sever known as BessieBee.

What the hell is a shit-sever? Is this you trying to be clever?

[Charred]

Why use pornographic illustrations to try and describe yourself?
It sounds like your mind is filled with images of masturbation and
blowjobs... you're a pervert!
Why don't you just say what you're trying to say Mastic and stop showing
your lack of class.




"Mastic" wrote in message
news:tgtnh7hit8ssk9r4g...@4ax.com...

Deranged is the polite phrase that comes to mind, the common phrase is
'Fucked in the head'.
Some people are natural wankers, some people are natural losers, you
are both.

[Charred]

I'm sorry!
I aplogize... I didn't make myself clear.
It was actually a "typo". I meant to write "server" instead of sever.
Is that clever enough for you?

You said I was a shit-stirrer, and I replied that you are a shit-server.
I don't usually like to write like that, but you provoked me. Why did you do
that?
If we could have a decent conversation and try to be clear about how we feel
and believe, I think it would go a long way in being civil.

"Sue" wrote in message news:9edph7p60bc8r0hui...@4ax.com...

[Charred]

Tell me what you couldn't understand and I will be happy to try and clarify
myself.
Are you trying to correct me on Kathleen's behalf or do you even know what
she is talking about? Because, I don't know.


"Sue" wrote in message news:b8dph7525328ae16e...@4ax.com...

[Charred]

Oops. I made another mistake. I realize that it was BessieBee that said it.
Yes, this is me trying to be clever Sue.




"Charred" wrote in message news:jfjvr7$5gj$1...@dont-email.me...

[Sue]

On Mon, 23 Jan 2012 08:25:33 -0800, "Charred" <sto...@intime.com>
wrote:

>Oops. I made another mistake. I realize that it was BessieBee that said it.
>Yes, this is me trying to be clever Sue.

Failed again.

[Charred]

No problem. At least you understood me.



"Sue" wrote in message news:at6rh7lspue6kft4l...@4ax.com...

[BessieBee]

On 1/23/2012 9:45 AM, Charred wrote:

> It sounds like your mind is filled with images of masturbation and
> blowjobs... you're a pervert!

What's so wrong with masturbation and blowjobs? Every try 'em? Don't
knock them until you do. (-:

[Clams Canino]

"BessieBee" <Bess...@DreadfulBitch.com> wrote in message news:jfkb37$abk$1...@dont-email.me...

> What's so wrong with masturbation and blowjobs? Every try 'em? Don't
> knock them until you do. (-:

Allow me to take this timely oppertunity to thank you for my clam. :)

-W

[Sue]

On Mon, 23 Jan 2012 13:06:13 -0600, BessieBee
<Bess...@DreadfulBitch.com> wrote:

>On 1/23/2012 9:45 AM, Charred wrote:
>
>> It sounds like your mind is filled with images of masturbation and
>> blowjobs... you're a pervert!
>
>What's so wrong with masturbation and blowjobs? Every try 'em? Don't
>knock them until you do. (-:
>
>BessieBee

<chuckle>

[eightpans]

Leslie has a point your posts Keven have only ever been about
YOU ...They are not helpful here...It's not rocket surgery fella ...be
helpful and supportive ...funny....join in ...don't write shit like
this.

[DavidL]

rocket surgery, or brain science?

[Clams Canino]

"DavidL" <dvd...@gmail.com> wrote in message news:bd0c9df7-96a1-4917...@t8g2000yqg.googlegroups.com...

>...It's not rocket surgery fella ...be
> helpful and supportive ...funny....join in ...don't write shit like
> this.

> rocket surgery, or brain science?

Kelly Bundy LIVES!!

-W

[DavidL]

On Jan 24, 10:54 am, "Clams Canino" <cc-mar...@earthdink.net> wrote:
> "DavidL" <dvd...@gmail.com> wrote in messagenews:bd0c9df7-96a1-4917...@t8g2000yqg.googlegroups.com...

> >...It's not rocket surgery fella ...be
> > helpful and supportive ...funny....join in ...don't write shit like
> > this.
> > rocket surgery, or brain science?
>
> Kelly Bundy LIVES!!
>
> -W

What's for lunch......
I watched some "Diners, Drive-ins and Dives" last nite and thought of
you when they visited....
http://www.foodnetwork.com/local/ma-south-essex/jt-farnhams-seafood-grill-restaurant/index.html

[Charred]

Don't write shit like this eightpans.
You have no idea.
I don't know Leslie, but I'm sure she can be more explicit than you.
You are not helpful in the smallest sense of the word.
Pile-on moron.


"eightpans" wrote in message
news:6dc015a1-8dc8-4859...@do4g2000vbb.googlegroups.com...

[Charred]

Fine. Introduce him to your son. -As long as your son doesn't smoke because
we wouldn't want your son to be a bad influence on Mastic.


"BessieBee" wrote in message news:jfkb37$abk$1...@dont-email.me...

[Charred]

How do I show I care?
Do I have to be there?

Don't transfer your sorrow onto me because I can't feel delicately.

All those who leave this place
Have left with our embrace
But we cannot deny the regret
From the pain of the cigarette

"Kathleen" wrote in message news:9o1b92...@mid.individual.net...

[BessieBee]

On 1/25/2012 4:21 AM, Charred wrote:
> How do I show I care?

Oh, that one is easy!!

You can show you care by going away. Very far away. Never post here
again. Please, please show us how much you care!

[Charred]

Hahahaha!

You must have a very cold heart BessieBee. I'm sorry that you've been abused
this much.
Actually, I wasn't even talking to you- But, thanks for the laugh.

You make me feel so needed and want to post more!!!! :-)




"BessieBee" wrote in message news:jfpkta$nir$1...@dont-email.me...

[Charred]

BessieBee, you never answered this.



"Charred"

[BessieBee]

Oh, fuck off, Keven.

I don't intend to feed you anymore.

[elle]

You know what, Keven? Maybe other people here don't give a rat's ass
about what has become of you, and for damn good reason. But for
whatever reason, I do. And I'm going to say this once, and then I'm
going to walk away from here and not waste any more of my time or
energy, or yours.

It's very clear to me, and to others, that you have a problem and I
think that most of us have a pretty good idea of what sort of problem it
is. You CAN get help for that. You don't need to keep living this way
and feeling this way. All you need to do it pick up the phone and call
someone. There are phone numbers online, and in the phone book. There
are many people out in the world who have walked your path and would be
willing to help you. Just make a choice and go talk to someone. I mean
this sincerely, and I wish you the best.

hugs,

elle
11y

[Charred]

I'm sorry that you are like this.


"BessieBee" wrote in message news:jfqk5q$tll$1...@dont-email.me...

[Charred]

It's very clear to me that we all have the problems that you have
illustrated in this message elle.
Why don't we all call help lines???
Because rats asses are cheap and it takes life to give life. Where did
people get the idea that life is so cheap?
I read and hear it in the news every day. I should be completely discouraged
to help people, but I'm not.
Don't even think I'm going to stop being the way I am because some "rats
ass" people feel that they are doing somebody some good.
So, walk away elle. Group up with those who have their good reasons. You
will become like them too.

I really wish you had the ability to tell me what number to call. Maybe I
could make a call for you :-)
Life isn't that easy. I'm glad it's not! It puts us at the mercy of Someone
so much bigger.

Embraces

Charred, almost 10Y's


"elle" wrote in message news:jfvi5b$5o5$1...@dont-email.me...

[elle]

As I expected, you take this as another jab and opportunity to jab back.

I'm very sorry about that, Keven. You poke at people, and then take
offense when they notice they are being poked. It's a very sad, small
and defensive way to walk in the world.

Maybe I'm not the right person to reach out to you, but I hope that if
you are lucky enough that it happens again, you will think twice before
spitting into that outstretched hand.

[Charred]

Excuse me?
I don't spit and I don't depend on luck elle.

Your accusation is small and sad.
You are them.

If I can find a number that will help you, I'll let you know asap.

Embraces,

Charred

"elle" wrote in message news:jfvl2n$i80$1...@dont-email.me...

[SteveS]

"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote in news:jfvlld$kl4$1...@dont-email.me:

> Excuse me?
> I don't spit and I don't depend on luck elle.
>
> Your accusation is small and sad.
> You are them.
>
> If I can find a number that will help you, I'll let you know asap.
>
> Embraces,
>
> Charred
>

Looks like you've managed to drive off the last two or three people left
here. You must be very proud.
Turn the light off when you leave, Keven. No one else is listening.
--
SteveS
OOF

[Charred]

Ya, ex-smokers have no backbone. They can't handle false accusations or a
lighted room.
I am glad that you're wrong SteveS. You can go now.



"SteveS" wrote in message
news:Xns9FE859B2F1DF...@88.198.244.100...

[SteveS]

"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote in news:jg4rgn$9lr$1...@dont-email.me:

> Ya, ex-smokers have no backbone. They can't handle false accusations
> or a lighted room.
> I am glad that you're wrong SteveS. You can go now.
>
>
>

Oh, I got PLENTY of backbone, bub. Plenty. I just no longer suffer
assholes by continuing to engage them. This will constitute my "neener
neener" and goodbye post.
Have a great life!


--
SteveS
OOF

[Charred]

Yes, with your limited vocabulary, I'd say you don't understand English
either.

"Mastic" wrote in message
news:su0hi7lamftm0j7f1...@4ax.com...

Don't understand English very well either huh.


"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote:

>Why use pornographic illustrations to try and describe yourself?

>It sounds like your mind is filled with images of masturbation and
>blowjobs... you're a pervert!

>Why don't you just say what you're trying to say Mastic and stop showing
>your lack of class.
>
>
>
>
>"Mastic" wrote in message
>news:tgtnh7hit8ssk9r4g...@4ax.com...
>
>Deranged is the polite phrase that comes to mind, the common phrase is
>'Fucked in the head'.
>Some people are natural wankers, some people are natural losers, you
>are both.
>
>"Charred" <sto...@intime.com> wrote:
>
>>What is it that you think I was actually saying Kathleen?
>>I was being very clear.

[Bohgosity BumaskiL]

On 2012-01-21 7:14 PM, Charred wrote:
> Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your
> life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and
> then vanisheth away. James 4:14
>
> Did you ever think about this as you were blowing smoke up into the
> sky?
> Surely, God must have created cigarettes for our pleasure!
>
> It's a Stinking, Expensive, Dangerous, Filthy, Addiction!

Noise. It's like a riddle. Take a west Indian discovery that led to
a ceremony. Okay, so some west indians learned to recognize this
weed and smoke it in a ceremony. Still, it wasn't being cultivated,
so the ceremony was few and far between. Without an enemy, there was
no occasion for the peace pipe. Enter white cultivation and
marketing. The fusion between East and West was horrible on this
point: Cultivating and marketing poison -- and making it *still*
cheaper for Indians in Canada in the bargain! Put it on television
with doctors to endorse it. Make it otherwise look cool with every
high fashion model sucking on it. Put it in damn near every store of
North America, except pharmacies in Alberta.

And getting out of the habit is a whole lot more difficult than any
Chinese finger puzzle, because sometimes you do not get high.
Sometimes, you do not even *like* the smoke, or you feel nothing
from it, SO it's on a variable reinforcement schedule. In basic
psychology, you would learn that variable reinforcement iz the most
persistent of habit-forming paradigms (situations). Even when I did
not like it, I smoked. Combine it with another carcinogen, coffee,
and it's more reliable, perhaps because coffee dilates some blood
vessels, while nicotine constricts others. Combine it with alcohol,
and it's more reliable, because formaldehyde (from carbon monoxide)
competes with the process that degrades ethanaldehyde (from ethanol).

It iz a wonderful sum for hell. Alcohol makes people into assholes
more reliably than any other drug. Coffee rids us of rainforest more
realiably than any other drug. Make a life that starts az a vapour
end in pain.