SD hates me
seaster
and my son. She has written that I'm ignorant, I need to mind my own
business and that I'm a b**ch,not to mention that she hates me. I told my
husband what I found and he said that he would talk to her about it, and
that was probably how she was feeling at the time. I don't think that he
will say anything to her he never does. Should I say somthing to her??
It's really hurting my marriage, I honestly don't want her here anymore (I
have a 16 month old too) Any advice?
Geri and sometimes Brian
>have a 16 month old too) Any advice?
Why is it hurting your marriage? Sounds like a typical 12-year old to me.
~~Geri~~
[Deep behind enemy lines in Pac-10 Country]
Wendy
"Geri and sometimes Brian" <gple...@aol.comGOBIGRED> wrote in message
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> >It's really hurting my marriage, I honestly don't want her here anymore
(I
> >have a 16 month old too) Any advice?
>
> Why is it hurting your marriage? Sounds like a typical 12-year old to me.
I agree with Geri. Twelve year olds often will get het up about things and
writing them down is a much more constructive form of venting then many
other things they could do. At 12, you can hate someone one minute and love
them the next. Don't take it to heart. Maybe you could find something you
both like doing together and the chance to talk about it will come along
then?
Wendy
Geri and sometimes Brian
>them the next. Don't take it to heart.
Its true. I used to make up evil songs. My "I Hate Your Guts" song is famous
in my family - created when I was a fourth grader - still at a relatively
amiable age. Tweens/teens are worse.
~~Geri~~
Rally Monkey 1-0
Ellen
"seaster" <cseast...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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old SD that hates me and has pretty much since her Dad got custody. I've
tried to "bond" with her, I used to take her out all the time, we would be
having a good day and then she would ALWAYS do something at the end to turn
it into a bad trip. For the past year or so she won't go when I suggest that
she comes with me, and when she is forced to, the tension is so bad that
that it not worth it. I have forced her Dad to all the disiplining in the
hopes that she we stop seeing me as the witch, but so far it hasn't helped
at all.
Melissa
>in my family - created when I was a fourth grader - still at a relatively
>amiable age.
Who was it directed towards?
Love,
Melissa
jane
Stop reading her diary.
jane
Geri and sometimes Brian
My parents, siblings, anyone I was ticked at at the time.
~~Geri~~
Rally Monkey 1-0
The Watsons
"seaster" <cseast...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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it happens...my SD screamed that she hated my guts one morning because i
wouldn't let her have some leftover birthday cake and ice cream for
breakfast, and while she was sulking in her bedroom, she posted a skull 'n
crossbones "keep out" sign on the door...i thought it was amusing...:D
don't worry about it, she'll grow outta it....
and in the meantime, stop reading what she writes...:) and i'd be with your
DH on this one-how in the world do you punish her for something that she
thought and wrote down, and honestly, do you really expect him to not have
her over any more?
Jess
ni...@impactwp.com
"Geri and sometimes Brian" <gple...@aol.comGOBIGRED> wrote in message
I do believe we're going to need a Real Audio file of you singing that song
Geri. To go on the ASSP web site. It's regulation.
Nikki
Geri and sometimes Brian
>Geri. To go on the ASSP web site. It's regulation.
Unfortunately, the wav recording ability of my POS computer is malfunctioning -
otherwise I would have my SD sing it. I believe in passing down all good
musical works to subsequent generations. Besides that one, I have taught her
such other timeless treasures (not made up by me) such as "The Gopher Guts
Song", "The Hearse Song", "How Dry I Am" and "The Diarrhea Song". We sing them
loud in the car to bug Brian.
~~Geri~~
Rally Monkey 1-0
Deborah M Riel
Geri and sometimes Brian <gple...@aol.comGOBIGRED> wrote:
>Besides that one, I have taught her
>such other timeless treasures (not made up by me) such as "The Gopher Guts
>Song", "The Hearse Song", "How Dry I Am" and "The Diarrhea Song". We sing them
>loud in the car to bug Brian.
Great--now I have a medley of the above songs firmly stuck in my
head...
Deb R.
ni...@impactwp.com
"Geri and sometimes Brian" <gple...@aol.comGOBIGRED> wrote in message
Well if you're going to be a big *chicken* at least post the lyrics!
N
Geri and sometimes Brian
They don't work without the tune. ;-)
~~Geri~~
Rally Monkey 1-0
Jenchel
daughter is 5 now and I thought the first name she told me she hated I
would die. The first time she said it I couldnt stop laughing. Dont
stress, Its no big deal. DIdnt you ever tell your parents you hated them?
BTW, My sister and her best friend made a song when we were kids called "I
hate you in the rotten way"
It always makes me laugh when I think of them sitting in the bathtub
singing at the top of thier lungs.........
Jen