that xmas present woman

[ThePuttKing]

Anybody remember her ?

Much debated on here.

She sent me a text yesterday inviting to a coffee. I didn't answer it.
Really pleased for myself. She was a phoney slut. Last year she was
all I thougth about. This year is different !

[ThePuttKing]

Another text today asking me for coffee again. I haven't answered.

[Beaver Fever]

If she's a slut treat her like one. You can still stick it to her
without any emotional involvement. You can also use her to attract
different women.

[ThePuttKing]

Well what pissed me off was she clearly put me in her 'friends' list
while she was getting fucked by this vile manager. This big, fat, bald
headed, pig ignorant, bullying cunt. (I don't like the fucker, maybe
you can tell !)

I agree having female friends does attract other women. They can be
usefull.

[ThePuttKing]

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She sent me a facebook message. I replied to that, felt I had to. I
basically said I had heard something about her which I didn't like and
I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. She replied, said I
shouldn't listen to people, said she had done nothing wrong and she
thought I was a friend. All a bit of a mess.

[Lobsterboy]

Ha ha ha ha!. She´s getting just what she deserves. Well done, if it
didn´t work then why should it do now?. Better to try other women.

[ThePuttKing]

She was a crap friend anyway. She would disapear for months on end.
She hardly answered my text messages either. And she let me down so
many times when we were supposed to meet.

I asked her out and she turned me down yet she was willing to be my
'friend' - That didn't interest me much.

[Kulin Remailer]

Good for you, but I wouldn't beat around the bush with these
validation junkies.

Tell her that not only was she a crappy 'freind'(like you just
related to us), but that you aren't interested in being friends
with women anymore since being used as an emotional tampon ad
nauseum.

Seriously though, go Filipina.

I'm good looking enough for western women, but I acknowledge that
in terms of value as a long-term mate, they just can't
compete(generally speaking).

[ThePuttKing]

I doubt I will hear from her again.

I wanted more than friends. And it wasn't healthly for me to keep in
touch with her. Best to move on. I have plenty of female friends
anyway. (co workers etc)

She was slut anyway, opening her legs in the managers office. Pretty
disgusting.

[ThePuttKing]

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She deleted me from her facebook. So all ties have been cut. I am
glad, good riddance to the cunt. Phoney slut !

[ThePuttKing]

She met one of my co workers for a catch up yesterday. The co worker
told me this morning that I 'got a mention' and she considered me a
very good friend. So I've sent a facebook friend request. I found out
that the manager screwing her story wasn't definately true. He was
obsessed with her but whether anything happened is just gossip. He was
seen driving to her house. Maybe he was stalking her ?

[Kulin]

I never believed it - women do not electively screw fat guys,
unless they are under duress(inclusive of having no more attractive
option - which is rare).

But, how does that change anything?

Trust me, leave the skank be.

I was on a dating site, and some blonde Englishwoman tried to
contact me, despite the fact that I reside on another continent!

And the first thing I thought about was your cautionary
anecdotes(skewed sample as it is) - so I ignored her.

Seriously, go Filipina.

[ThePuttKing]

The Manager is fat, bald headed, married, completely no sense of
humour and over 45. He has this reputation that he shags about. He's
been caught a few times screwing women in his office. They were all
fat slags. The xmas present woman was 30, blonde, sexy and had model
looks. That's why I never believed it. But I will never know I guess,
best just to forget about her. She made me miserable anyway. If I was
a betting man, I would say he was screwing her. Married men don't
drive to women's houses when they are supposed to be at work for no
reason.

[Sadi]

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>So I've sent a facebook friend request.

Sigh... Some people never learn.

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[ThePuttKing]

On Mar 21, 11:25 pm, Sadi <sxys...@gmail.com.INVALID> wrote:
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> >So I've sent a facebook friend request.
>
> Sigh... Some people never learn.
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My reasons were. The woman who told me she saw the managers car
outside her house later back tracked and changed her story. He was
only giving her a lift to work. I also got told this woman was a bull
shitter, makes up stories. A supervisor who obviously got to know more
than me said the boss was obsessed with the xmas present woman but
nothing happened. She told me not to believe any of the stories. And I
got told by one of my friends at work who spoke to xmas present woman,
that she considered me to be a very good friend.

So baring in mind all this, I thought I made the wrong decision. I
sent a facebook friends request. She accepted. I sent a text on
Monday, she replied to that. I haven't done anything since. I'm not in
love with her anymore. I have other women friends. I don't see the
harm in 'keeping in touch'

So huge sigh..... I think I made the right call on this !

[ThePuttKing]

I just deleted her number of my mobile and deleted her off my
facebook. Just not interested anymore.

[ThePuttKing]

She got back to me. Made quite an effort. Sent me a text and then rang
me up. I had a bit of explaining to do because she wanted to know why
I had deleted her number. We went for a coffee and a chat. We spoke
for over an hour. She denied the affair with the boss, said it never
happened even though he wanted to. I told her how I used to feel about
her. I said I had 'feelings' - she didn't seem to mind. She wants to
be friends, wants to play golf. I don't love her anymore. It was
strange talking to her. She is nice though, I can talk to her easily.
I don't regret telling her what I did. She is engaged to some bloke.

Everybody told me to forget about her. People at work, my family,
people on forums. I guess they were all wrong. My feelings for her now
are 1% of what they used to be.

[Sadi]

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On Sat, 21 Apr 2012 12:02:38 -0700 (PDT), ThePuttKing
<thepu...@googlemail.com> wrote in post:

>Everybody told me to forget about her. People at work, my family,
>people on forums. I guess they were all wrong.

Nope. We were ALL RIGHT.

Why? You just said it, uh, wrote it...

>She is engaged to some bloke.

(One more time...)

>She is engaged to some bloke.

May I suggest you listen to Cee-Lo's "Forget You", preferably the
"explicit lyrics" version. Here's a LIVE version recorded during an
interview he did at The Guardian... Note, NSFW lyrics.
http://tinyurl.com/39lafb8

> I had a bit of explaining to do because she wanted to know why
>I had deleted her number.

You owed her NO explanation. You shouldn't have contacted her.

>She denied the affair with the boss, said it never
>happened even though he wanted to.

Do you really think she'd admit it? Don't they both still work at the
company? AS DO YOU.

>I told her how I used to feel about her.

(Sigh... Some people never learn.)

>She wants to be friends, wants to play golf.

An engaged woman doesn't go golfing with another man, unless other
people go, too. If she wants to go golfing with you ALONE then she's
playing with your head. Mixed signals. Don't give her power over you.
She knows you like her. She's ALWAYS known you like her, but she's
not interested in you in THAT WAY. She's using you. Maybe her fiance
plays golf and she wants to play with him, but isn't good at it and
thinks he'll be bored if she can't play.

Whatever the reason, if she's engaged then YOU shouldn't bother with
her. You're bringing all this anxiety on YOURSELF.

>I don't love her anymore.

Of course you do. Otherwise you wouldn't have 'friended" her again.
Play Cee-Lo's song AGAIN. This time, LOUD. This version's the
official music video... Note, NSFW lyrics.
http://tinyurl.com/3awe4jr

> I can talk to her easily.

Of course you can, because you know she's not available.

>I don't regret telling her what I did.

You can easily sit with your legs crossed without it being
uncomfortable.

>She is engaged to some bloke.

'nuf said.

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[Sadi]

On Sat, 21 Apr 2012 12:02:38 -0700 (PDT), ThePuttKing
<thepu...@googlemail.com> wrote in post:

> I had a bit of explaining to do because she wanted to know why
>I had deleted her number. We went for a coffee and a chat. We spoke
>for over an hour. She denied the affair with the boss, said it never
>happened even though he wanted to. I told her how I used to feel about
>her. I said I had 'feelings' - she didn't seem to mind. She wants to
>be friends, wants to play golf. I don't love her anymore. It was
>strange talking to her. She is nice though, I can talk to her easily.
>I don't regret telling her what I did. She is engaged to some bloke.

[ThePuttKing]

On Apr 22, 2:20 pm, Sadi <sxys...@gmail.com.INVALID> wrote:
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> On Sat, 21 Apr 2012 12:02:38 -0700 (PDT), ThePuttKing

> <theputtk...@googlemail.com> wrote in post:

>
> >Everybody told me to forget about her. People at work, my family,
> >people on forums. I guess they were all wrong.
>
> Nope. We were ALL RIGHT.
>
> Why? You just said it, uh, wrote it...
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> (One more time...)
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> May I suggest you listen to Cee-Lo's "Forget You", preferably the
> "explicit lyrics" version. Here's a LIVE version recorded during an

> interview he did at The Guardian... Note, NSFW lyrics.http://tinyurl.com/39lafb8

>
> > I had a bit of explaining to do because she wanted to know why
> >I had deleted her number.
>
> You owed her NO explanation. You shouldn't have contacted her.
>
> >She denied the affair with the boss, said it never
> >happened even though he wanted to.
>
> Do you really think she'd admit it? Don't they both still work at the
> company? AS DO YOU.
>
> >I told her how I used to feel about her.
>
> (Sigh... Some people never learn.)
>
> >She wants to be friends, wants to play golf.
>
> An engaged woman doesn't go golfing with another man, unless other
> people go, too. If she wants to go golfing with you ALONE then she's
> playing with your head. Mixed signals. Don't give her power over you.
> She knows you like her. She's ALWAYS known you like her, but she's
> not interested in you in THAT WAY. She's using you. Maybe her fiance
> plays golf and she wants to play with him,  but isn't good at it and
> thinks he'll be bored if she can't play.
>
> Whatever the reason, if she's engaged then YOU shouldn't bother with
> her. You're bringing all this anxiety on YOURSELF.
>
> >I don't love her anymore.
>
> Of course you do. Otherwise you wouldn't have 'friended" her again.
> Play Cee-Lo's song AGAIN. This time, LOUD. This version's the

> official music video... Note, NSFW lyrics.http://tinyurl.com/3awe4jr

>
> > I can talk to her easily.
>
> Of course you can, because you know she's not available.
>
> >I don't regret telling her what I did.
>
> You can easily sit with your legs crossed without it being
> uncomfortable.
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> 'nuf said.
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there is nothing wrong with having a female friend is there ?

[ThePuttKing]

On Apr 22, 2:20 pm, Sadi <sxys...@gmail.com.INVALID> wrote:

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> On Sat, 21 Apr 2012 12:02:38 -0700 (PDT), ThePuttKing

> <theputtk...@googlemail.com> wrote in post:

>
> >Everybody told me to forget about her. People at work, my family,
> >people on forums. I guess they were all wrong.
>
> Nope. We were ALL RIGHT.

I disagree.

>
> Why? You just said it, uh, wrote it...
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> (One more time...)
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> May I suggest you listen to Cee-Lo's "Forget You", preferably the
> "explicit lyrics" version. Here's a LIVE version recorded during an

> interview he did at The Guardian... Note, NSFW lyrics.http://tinyurl.com/39lafb8

>
> > I had a bit of explaining to do because she wanted to know why
> >I had deleted her number.
>
> You owed her NO explanation. You shouldn't have contacted her.
>
> >She denied the affair with the boss, said it never
> >happened even though he wanted to.
>
> Do you really think she'd admit it? Don't they both still work at the
> company? AS DO YOU.

I believe her. Nothing happened.

>
> >I told her how I used to feel about her.
>
> (Sigh... Some people never learn.)
>
> >She wants to be friends, wants to play golf.
>
> An engaged woman doesn't go golfing with another man, unless other
> people go, too. If she wants to go golfing with you ALONE then she's
> playing with your head. Mixed signals. Don't give her power over you.
> She knows you like her. She's ALWAYS known you like her, but she's
> not interested in you in THAT WAY. She's using you. Maybe her fiance
> plays golf and she wants to play with him,  but isn't good at it and
> thinks he'll be bored if she can't play.

I don't think he plays golf. Do you know how many texts I've sent her
since last Wednesday ? None.
>
She has quite a few male friends.

> Whatever the reason, if she's engaged then YOU shouldn't bother with
> her. You're bringing all this anxiety on YOURSELF.

There is no anxiety. I might not hear from her again for months. I am
not that bothered. I have no plans.

>
> >I don't love her anymore.
>
> Of course you do. Otherwise you wouldn't have 'friended" her again.
> Play Cee-Lo's song AGAIN. This time, LOUD. This version's the
> official music video... Note, NSFW lyrics.http://tinyurl.com/3awe4jr

I don't. I know how I feel. She is not on my mind. That 'fake holiday'
woman is a bit.

>
> > I can talk to her easily.
>
> Of course you can, because you know she's not available.
>
> >I don't regret telling her what I did.
>
> You can easily sit with your legs crossed without it being
> uncomfortable.
>
> >She is engaged to some bloke.
>
> 'nuf said.
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I suppose you've been bored waiting for me to come on here and write
some posts so you can slag me off like you do.

[ThePuttKing]

On Apr 22, 2:21 pm, Sadi <sxys...@gmail.com.INVALID> wrote:
> On Sat, 21 Apr 2012 12:02:38 -0700 (PDT), ThePuttKing

> <theputtk...@googlemail.com> wrote in post:

It was maybe all talk from her, the play golf bit, the 'lets keep in
touch' - I am not overly bothered either way. If I don't hear from her
again I won't be losing sleep about it.

Whatever I say, you will disagree with it. It is sad.

[ThePuttKing]

She sent me a text this morning. Just everyday chit chat. I answered
it.

I feel as though I have moved on from her. I won't go back to how I
was. She certainly seems to want to be friends with me though. Last
year I used to hope and pray to hear from her. Now I'm not that
bothered. It's funny how things change.