seeing 2 women tommorrow

[The Putt King]

At 10 o clock I'm seeing Wendy who is a 'working girl' - going to have a session with her. Being seeing her for a few years, about 3 or 4 times a year. It's a full on girl friend experience. Can't wait for that !

At midday I'm seeing this woman I used to work with. (I bought her a xmas present for those who remember me a few years back) - She's treating me for lunch. She asked me, sent me a text. I was in love with her but once she become engaged to some drummer, my interest faded. I'm not that bothered to be honest. She didn't pick me, we were both single for a time and she knew how I felt. That's my beef but at least she makes the effort every now and again. Sometimes when we meet, she will ask me to do overtime in her shop so I think she's a bit of a user. It's strange meeting someone who you used to love. I go thru the motions sometimes with her. I will try tomorrow. She obviously doesn't know about the other woman.

[The Putt King]

On Thursday, May 16, 2013 7:57:48 PM UTC+1, The Putt King wrote:
> At 10 o clock I'm seeing Wendy who is a 'working girl' - going to have a session with her. Being seeing her for a few years, about 3 or 4 times a year. It's a full on girl friend experience. Can't wait for that !
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> At midday I'm seeing this woman I used to work with. (I bought her a xmas present for those who remember me a few years back) - She's treating me for lunch. She asked me, sent me a text. I was in love with her but once she become engaged to some drummer, my interest faded. I'm not that bothered to be honest. She didn't pick me, we were both single for a time and she knew how I felt. That's my beef but at least she makes the effort every now and again. Sometimes when we meet, she will ask me to do overtime in her shop so I think she's a bit of a user. It's strange meeting someone who you used to love. I go thru the motions sometimes with her. I will try tomorrow. She obviously doesn't know about the other woman.

The midday woman has called it off. She's ill. Always fucking ill. This isn't the first time she's done this !

[Mouthsniper]

This is very late to respond in your post. But any further development anyway.

[The Putt King]

not much, she sends me texts and talks about all kinds of stuff, us meeting and playing golf together. It's mostly all talk. I have not seen her since March. It doesn't bother me.

[Mouthsniper]

That's the midday woman you are talking about. So how about Wendy? Sorry, if I have too much question.

[Beaver_Fever]

On Thursday, May 16, 2013 11:57:48 AM UTC-7, The Putt King wrote:
> At 10 o clock I'm seeing Wendy who is a 'working girl' - going to have a session with her. Being seeing her for a few years, about 3 or 4 times a year. It's a full on girl friend experience. Can't wait for that !
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> At midday I'm seeing this woman I used to work with. (I bought her a xmas present for those who remember me a few years back) - She's treating me for lunch. She asked me, sent me a text. I was in love with her but once she become engaged to some drummer, my interest faded. I'm not that bothered to be honest. She didn't pick me, we were both single for a time and she knew how I felt. That's my beef but at least she makes the effort every now and again. Sometimes when we meet, she will ask me to do overtime in her shop so I think she's a bit of a user. It's strange meeting someone who you used to love. I go thru the motions sometimes with her. I will try tomorrow. She obviously doesn't know about the other woman.

A few days ago I hung out with this chick I met seeing a favorite band in common. We watched bootleg concert DVD's.

She is older than me, doesn't drive, doesn't work, lives with her mother.

Should find some way to lure her to my hovel though I am not all that attracted but just to see what can happen. She keeps poking me on Facebook and she liked some comments I made in the aftermath of the George Zimmerman controversy.

The next day I went to the massage therapist to replace the one I used to go to but closed down. It wasn't very good. The only reason I chose her over one of the other chicks I see is I needed the tension in my shoulders beat out but she didn't really do that.

I hung out a few months ago with this chick I was totally in love with once upon a time and even crashed at the family estate which was practically a mansion in a very exclusive area.

[The Putt King]

no I was talking about the second woman.

The first woman (Wendy) I don't really want to talk about.

[Mouthsniper]

Sorry, if I mislead. So, is there any development on the second woman. And what her good name actually.

Nil

[The Putt King]

she's called Lisa. She's engaged to somebody else. I used to work with her 2 and half years ago. We keep in touch thru text messages and facebook. I haven't seen her since March. I am not bothered that much now. I was in love with her 2 years ago. When she got engaged it hurt like hell.

[Linus Fisher]

Putt King, hopefully you're significantly younger than me, but a massive
amount of time will pass with not a lot happening and it will shock you.
I can't go back and tell my younger self that his apparent experiments
were the beginnings of exhausting and unnecessary patterns but I can say
something here. You say you're not bothered about this woman but you
are, this thread being the evidence. You're rightly enough telling
yourself otherwise, it's a sort of self-hypnosis and might help in time,
but you're still ruled by hope, by hopes. You will never get this time
back, and two years will be ten and then twenty before you know it. You
don't need to be unfriendly to the woman or make a big thing of it, but
each messed-up or cancelled meeting with this person will eat further
into you and have some role in how appealing you can be at a later date
or at least how healthily you can deal with later opportunities.

There is strength even in, if it comes to it, telling this person why
you've decided to stop meeting up. She might in the moment be angry or
verbally abusive, or may cry or just frown or walk away, but in your
head and hers it will be plain that you've done something that shows
self-awareness, and a wish to develop. You might be tempted to wish then
that the show of strength will affect this woman positively, that she'll
see you differently, but with a population of over 6 billion, why see
the world of possibilities as revolving around what can happen in the
situation you're currently focused on?

If she suggests a meet, can't you sort of smile and say, "Oh you know,
better not eh!" She says why, you say, "You're lovely and all that, but
this ain't doing me any good, I've got to get myself a future haven't
I." If you can see the merit in that, and if she's got a working mind
then you can have your quick hello in the corridor etc, if need be, but
both of you will be at peace with the change. You don't have to make up
something about being busy. Even if you're not and are open about it,
that you are not willing to indulge further pain and frustration to fill
some time is a show of strength, and is strength.

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[Mouthsniper]

Ignoring, snob, set-aside, don't paying attention, don't bother, do cares what else? Maybe one of these, woman weaknesses you will find. This is only a addition to what you advised and opinion.

[Darkfalz]

On Friday, 17 May 2013 04:57:48 UTC+10, The Putt King wrote:
> At 10 o clock I'm seeing Wendy who is a 'working girl' - going to have a session with her. Being seeing her for a few years, about 3 or 4 times a year. It's a full on girl friend experience. Can't wait for that !
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> At midday I'm seeing this woman I used to work with. (I bought her a xmas present for those who remember me a few years back) - She's treating me for lunch. She asked me, sent me a text. I was in love with her but once she become engaged to some drummer, my interest faded. I'm not that bothered to be honest. She didn't pick me, we were both single for a time and she knew how I felt. That's my beef but at least she makes the effort every now and again. Sometimes when we meet, she will ask me to do overtime in her shop so I think she's a bit of a user. It's strange meeting someone who you used to love. I go thru the motions sometimes with her. I will try tomorrow. She obviously doesn't know about the other woman.

It's good to hear you loosened up about "working girls". I would have recommended this to any of the guys here, particularly beyond 30. I never took that step myself despite much, much contemplation but if I knew what I know now I'd have never been so uptight about it - particularly with regards to thinking it's going to stop you from meeting someone or "spoil" you for them. Do you think there are women out there waiting around, "saving" themselves, for you? There are not. It could even help in some ways if you did meet someone down the line. Getting certain things out of your system.

Sorry to hear that user chick blew you off. In the past, if someone got a glint that I had an interest in them, and didn't respond in kind, I pretty much eliminated them from my life after that. It's the only way I could deal with it ultimately.

[Beaver_Fever]

On Friday, August 9, 2013 12:27:21 AM UTC-7, Darkfalz wrote:
> On Friday, 17 May 2013 04:57:48 UTC+10, The Putt King wrote:
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You wouldn't believe the scene in Los Angeles. So many wannabe sugar babies have flooded the market and not enough sugar daddies. That Sugar Daddy For Me site really opened the market. Chicks head to that site thinking they will find someone to support them, when it doesn't happen, they will eventually relent and give $50 BJ's

So many actresses/models but if you don't have a regular starring role, it won't pay enough to live on. For the past almost 2 years I have been banging this chick, totally smoking hot, perfect body, for less than it would cost to take her out on a date. Accidentally found out her real identity when she switched me from a trick phone to her real number. I get myself in the mood by playing You Tube clips of her bit parts on TV shows and tell myself I can't believe I am going to be blowing a load in her mouth in a few minutes.

You can also troll the backwaters of dating sites and find total amateurs testing the waters by doing whatever "non-sexual" sexual activities with whatever boundaries they set for themselves but then once they trust you and feel comfortable with you they will let you do anything to them.

[The Putt King]

I did try that and she made such a big deal of it. Sent me text messages, facebook messages and even rang me up. So I ended up becoming 'friends' with her again. But weeks go by without any contact so it isn't much of a big deal.

[Beaver_Fever]

going thru a rather low level but tiring exchange with a female myself, trying to read deeper into the situation but coming up blank.

[The Putt King]

I have something interesting happening, just wrote a post about it !