People come and ask me if sex is a taboo to attain awakening. And I
always explain them that awakening and sex are two different stages.
Awakening is a state of existence and sex may be used as a means to
attain that state of existence. Sex is like a jungle. It allures
people with its flowers; its fragrances; its fruits. But it offers a
risk also. The risk of being lost inside it is there; and hence,
mostly people have a fear of being lost in this jungle of flowers,
fragrances and fruits. I ask my pupil that the journey for bliss
cannot start with a fear. You start it with fearlessness. Do not be
scared of sex. It is not scary. It is merely alluring; alluring to
take you astray so long as you are not aware of the sex itself.
The basis of all sins is your ignorance. You are ignorant of sex and
you have made it a sin; a taboo. You are ignorant of awakening and you
have made it a ritual; a penance. You are ignorant of meditation and
you have made it a mystical practice; an esoteric formula. When you
enter meditation; when you start entering it you find that it was not
so complicated as it was described by the experts.
Experts always make the things incomprehensible. They put simple
things with such a great extensions of “ifs” and “buts” that a common
person cannot understand it. The same has happened to both of the sex
and the meditation. Both are very simple but Pundits have made them
burdensome.
Sex is one of the natural tendencies of the body. Restraining it is
unnatural. There are those who say avoid sex. They teach their lesson
plans to people and the people find it difficult. On the other hand
are those who preach to enjoy it like an animal. They induce you to
the limits of pornographic domain to earn their monetary benefits. A
common man finds himself in a fix. The first approach restrains you of
your natural requirements and the second one drains you of your money,
your self and the all.
I have shown my children, my pupils that a third option is also there.
Both of the aforesaid groups mislead you only because of your
ignorance. My point is – Just Be Awakened. Stop sleeping in a sleep of
ignorance. Gurus, professionals, pornographers could mislead you only
because you were not awakened – neither about the sex nor about the
meditation.
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