Firstly hello and secondly your post is not strange, foolish and you are
not "nuts". I live in the UK and although I havent experienced your
symptoms reading your post I thought that "sounds like ocd to me".
I'm no expert but during the last 4 years I havent worked but have read
up on the condition and had some very good therapy as i have tried to
come to terms with my ocd demons.
My own take on ocd is it only affects the caring, sensitive, type of
person and the fact you have found this NG and written such a good post
tells me you fit into this category. As far as I now know no ocd
patients thoughts/fears have ever come true and that's why it is known
as the "worrying disease".
From what I have read/learnt ocd seems to take many varied and at times
somewhat bizarre routes. No-one likes to admit the have mental health
problems and with ocd it can be even more difficult to admit to your
problems. I first had ocd when I was about 13 and that revolved around
the quite common symptoms of worrying if the door was locked or the oven
was turned of etc.
Ignore that post I hit the send button by mistake before finishing it :-(
Hi Stacey
no expert but during the last 4 years I havent worked because of my ocd
but have read
up on the condition and had some very good therapy as i have tried to
come to terms with my ocd demons.
My own take on ocd is it only affects the caring, sensitive, type of
person and the fact you have found this
NG and written such a good post tells me you fit into this category. As
far as I now know no ocd patients thoughts/fears have ever come true and
that's why it is known as the "worrying disease". From what I have
read/learnt ocd seems to take many varied and at times somewhat bizarre
routes. No-one likes to admit the have mental health problems and with
ocd it can be even more difficult to admit to your problems.
I first had
ocd when I was about 13 and that revolved around the quite common
symptoms of worrying if the door was locked or the oven was turned of
etc. After 15 years of being able to ignore, to a certain extent these
thoughts, things got a lot worse and my thoughts got more bizarre and my
MH started to worsen. For example, I started to get thoughts that I
would hurt people and when I was writing/typing stuff at work I started
to think that I might write/type swear words etc. This went on for about
4 or so years with things getting more and more difficult until I just
couldn't cope and i had to admit to the world what was going on in my
head. I've never done anything that my ocd says will happen but that
still wasn't of any comfort when i had the thoughts. It wasn't easy
admitting to my family/friends what was going on in my head at the time
but at least they have now have some understanding of what I have to
deal with...
Anyway that's enough of me ;-)
From what I know it's very common for ocd to get worse and/or for the
thoughts you are getting to change after a period of stress/anxiety. For
me this is the case. The thoughts you are having about houses sound very
normal to me from a ocd point of view so don't feel like you are foolish
having them. I take setraline, i think its called zoloft in the us,
everyday and it does help my condition but from what I have read it is
only a small part of getting better. In my opinion cognitive behavioural
therapy (CBT) is the best way to get to grips with ocd. I have had that
at the best place in the uk and although things for me are still a
struggle I am staring to think of having a future again :-) I'm glad
that you are looking for new therapist because your last one sounds
useless to me. I'm not a believer of psychics myself but looking at your
situation could you be so unlucky that bad things would happen in every
potential place you thought of moving to? Of course not! You are not
psychic but suffering from ocd.
I'm sorry if my ramblings are boring but I have one last point to make,
that I have learnt during my treatment, and that is to do the opposite
to what your ocd tells you to do. If it tells you that you should check
your stove dont because in a few hours your house woont have burnt down.
If it tells you to wash your food becasue you dropped it dont just eat
it and you wont get food poisoning. If you feel bad about a house that
otherwise you really like move there and in a years time you will
realise that your ocd was lieing to you.
I know from experience that overcoming ocd is very hard but steps can be
made to start to get control of your life again. I hope some of this
makes sense and is of help to you.
Take Care
Lawrence
Hi Loz
Personally, I think it's a good idea to check the stove. Once. People with
OCD need to make sensible choices about their safety and exposure to risks.
That's different from unnecessary exposure to unnecessary risks. I'd be
very sad if I lost any of my friends (with or without OCD) to a house fire.
They do happen, and people with anxiety disorders burn just as good as
normal peeps.
Zorg
Hi Zorg
Saw you have been back on the ng so thought I would just butt in and say
hi to you and hope you are well.
It's winter here and really freezing (only about 1 or 2 degrees C at
night and early morning).
Anyway just thought I would say Hi.
Regards
Jan
Adelaide
Australia