I posted a couple of times here a while back and have been sort of lurking
since then...I have a (kind of) question -
I'm "perimenopausal" according to my doc, 43, married, no kids. In the last
couple months, I've noticed that one of my breasts is larger than the other.
Now, I know everybody is asymmetrical to some degree, but the difference has
become more noticeable recently, to the extent that I'm wondering if one is
growing or the other shrinking - any other peri women have experienced this?
I know the tissues start drying up around now, so it makes sense that I'd
noticed some changes - is it too much to hope that they'd dry up
symmetrically?
I've had a mammogram in the last year, and I'm scheduled for my annual
checkup shortly, so I'll be getting in checked out, but I was just
wondering. Thanks for any input.
M9
Hi and welcome to asm! I've never had the problem you mention. Very puzzling.
My bet is that all is well,but glad you're checking it out. Keep us posted,ok?
I'm curious.
Sharon........."One of the blessings of old friends is that you can afford to
be stupid with
them." (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
Are you *sure* it's a case of *shrinkage*, or could it be a
case of *unequal growth*?
In the last few years my boobs have grown larger - but one
seems larger than the other by about half a cup size. They
were always *unequal* but it was hardly noticable before,
but as they've grown a fair bit, it has become more noticeable.
--
Jette
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> I'm "perimenopausal" according to my doc, 43, married, no kids. In the
> last couple months, I've noticed that one of my breasts is larger than the
> other. Now, I know everybody is asymmetrical to some degree, but the
> difference has become more noticeable recently, to the extent that I'm
> wondering if one is growing or the other shrinking - any other peri women
> have experienced this?
I have. I've always had one breast larger than the other, but else
equal. Then one started drooping earlier this year (got "deflated"),
making them look even more lopsided. Now they've evened out again
("reinflated"). I'm your age and I just assumed these sort of changes
are general body changes due to age.
--
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> In the last few years my boobs have grown larger - but one
> seems larger than the other by about half a cup size. They
> were always *unequal* but it was hardly noticable before,
> but as they've grown a fair bit, it has become more noticeable.
>
>
Yes, I'm having pretty much the same. I've always been lopsided, but it
seems (and I just noticed it a few days ago) that I'm more lopsided now
than ever before.
Chakolate
--
On sadness:
The cure for this ill is not to sit still,
Or to frowst with a book by the fire,
But to take a large hoe and a shovel also,
And to dig till you gently perspire.
--Rudyard Kipling
Chakolate wrote:
> "Jette Goldie" <j...@blueyonder.com.uk> wrote in
> news:SOgjb.7882$EH6.69...@news-text.cableinet.net:
>
>
>>In the last few years my boobs have grown larger - but one
>>seems larger than the other by about half a cup size. They
>>were always *unequal* but it was hardly noticable before,
>>but as they've grown a fair bit, it has become more noticeable.
>>
>>
>
>
> Yes, I'm having pretty much the same. I've always been lopsided, but it
> seems (and I just noticed it a few days ago) that I'm more lopsided now
> than ever before.
I am very lopsided now, but never paid attention enought to know if I
always was, or if it started as I started to droop. I am thinking that
when they didn't droop, the difference is size wasn't as noticable.
sue
The head nurse at the breast clinic I went to last year said one of my boobs is
smaller. I never noticed.
Sharon........A book is like a garden carried in the pocket.
Frankenmel wrote:
Glad to hear I am not the only one who never noticed(grin).
sue
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>
>You mean they *grow* in perimenopause?!?!? Egad. I'm in deep trouble.
>It's bad enough I'm a D-cup that's rapidly heading south, I don't wanna get
>bigger! I thought they dried up and got smaller - in fact, I was looking
>forward to it. Damn. - M9
I feel your pain,doll.
Me, too! "South" is an apt description...
FurPaw
--
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To reply, unleash the dog.
>
>
>On Thu, 16 Oct 2003 07:52:11 +0000 (UTC), c...@holyrood.ed.ac.uk (Chris
>Malcolm) wrote:
>
>>
>>....... I was once an
>>Art College model.
>
>Okay, this caught my eye.
>
>You have led a VERY interesting life, Chris!
>
>:-)
My life wasn't as interesting as Chris',but I was also a life model in college.
Paid me too! Through my college. Hard to sit still that long.
>>My life wasn't as interesting as Chris',but I was also a life model in college.
>>Paid me too! Through my college. Hard to sit still that long.
>>Sharon........A book is like a garden carried in the pocket.
>>
>>
>
> Hmmm......
>
> I think a new poll is in order then:
>
> What's the most unusual job for which you were ever paid?
My jobs have been pretty mundane. I guess the most unusual, in the sense
of numbers of people who have done it, was a college summer job where I
spent the summer analyzing plutonium samples for impurities. (At Los
Alamos National Labs - my dad was an employee, and at that time employees'
kids got preferential treatment for summer jobs.)
One day I had the hottest knees in town, but that's another story...
One model was very good - she could hold difficult poses (as in catching a
ball) for a long time. Another model fell asleep when doing reclining
poses. Another one - she was thin, but had no waist. Saw her again a few
months later - turned out she was pregnant (maybe 7 - 8 months by then).
Mystery solved.
Cathy
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> On Thu, 16 Oct 2003 07:52:11 +0000 (UTC), c...@holyrood.ed.ac.uk (Chris
> Malcolm) wrote:
>
> >
> >....... I was once an
> >Art College model.
>
> Okay, this caught my eye.
>
> You have led a VERY interesting life, Chris!
>
> :-)
>
> Cathering
> -- "Everything I've ever let go of has claw marks on it." - Anne Lamott
>
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Joanne
>
>
>I majored in elem. ed. w/ a concentration in Art. In life drawing classes
>the male models - acc. to law - had to wear some sort of clothing (like a
>Speedo swimsuit), but the females didn't. Go figure.
>
>One model was very good - she could hold difficult poses (as in catching a
>ball) for a long time. Another model fell asleep when doing reclining
>poses. Another one - she was thin, but had no waist. Saw her again a few
>months later - turned out she was pregnant (maybe 7 - 8 months by then).
>Mystery solved.
I wore a leotard and sat....very still.
No unusual jobs here, either. But your post reminded me that I did babysit
for the local funeral director & his wife's kids, while I was in HS. They
lived upstairs, above the funeral parlor, in a largish house. The kids were
all boys - ages 7 & under. If during the day, I had to keep them quiet (no
running footsteps above funeral going on downstairs); if at night, I tried
not to think too much about the downstairs part of the house... ;-)
All of our female models modeled nude, which kept me from applying for the
job - pure self-consciousness. It was relatively good money, so was sort of
tempting.
My Sophomore roomate was so funny: she'd look at drawings I brought back
after Drawing II (life drawing), & would always say: "Was she *really*
naked?" (No, I was able to see right through her clothes!<g>)
I keypunched election returns for the News Election Service during the
election in which Ronald Reagan whupped Jimmy Carter. As the night wore
on I began wishing I could make up the numbers instead of punching in the
ones I was given, but this was just for the news, not for the gummint
counts.
Priscilla
There is nothing to sag :) still perky....
tee hee...training bra and all....(naa... jk)
>Damn...... i didnt read all the posts but now I am depressed....
>I WAS COUNTIN ON THEM GETTIN BIGGERER!!!!!
Hey,some of ours did..mine did.
Okay, toplessintoronto. See, it's posts like this that make me wish I knew
how to do that raspberry thing other posters use sometimes. :-)
>
>
>toplessi...@aol.com (Toplessintoronto) wrote in
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>> Damn...... i didnt read all the posts but now I am depressed....
>> I WAS COUNTIN ON THEM GETTIN BIGGERER!!!!! Well one consolation....
>> my friends are jealous of me.....
>>
>> There is nothing to sag :) still perky....
>> tee hee...training bra and all....(naa... jk)
>>
>
>Okay, toplessintoronto. See, it's posts like this that make me wish I knew
>how to do that raspberry thing other posters use sometimes. :-)
If all a person has to brag about is their body...
Moi aussi.
(and because they arrived so recently, they haven't drooped
yet)
:-Þ
That what you mean? If you're using a pc with windows, hold
down the "alt" key and hit 0222 on the number keypad on the
right of your keyboard.
--
Jette Goldie
je...@blueyonder.co.uk
Some people are like Slinkies . . . not really good for anything, but you
still can't help but smile when you see one tumble down the stairs.
Same here...perky "B" cups, not bad for male gynecomastia. <G> Of course, my
mumble-mumble has shrunk from lack of erections, but I can live with that.
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Jette Goldie wrote:
> "Chakolate" <chakolateDea...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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>>toplessi...@aol.com (Toplessintoronto) wrote in
>>news:20031020020649...@mb-m12.aol.com:
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>>
>>>Damn...... i didnt read all the posts but now I am depressed....
>>>I WAS COUNTIN ON THEM GETTIN BIGGERER!!!!! Well one consolation....
>>>my friends are jealous of me.....
>>>
>>>There is nothing to sag :) still perky....
>>>tee hee...training bra and all....(naa... jk)
>>>
>>
>>Okay, toplessintoronto. See, it's posts like this that make me wish I
>
> knew
>
>>how to do that raspberry thing other posters use sometimes. :-)
>
>
> :-Ş
>
> That what you mean? If you're using a pc with windows, hold
> down the "alt" key and hit 0222 on the number keypad on the
> right of your keyboard.
Ş this is cool, of course I will never remember it.........sue
Small breasted women have trouble finding clothes that fit (just like large
breasted women) and are often teased about their lack of size.
Why not enjoy this time of life when wearing a training bra has advantages?
Gwen
>Small breasted women have trouble finding clothes that fit (just like large
>breasted women) and are often teased about their lack of size.
>Why not enjoy this time of life when wearing a training bra has advantages?
What I don't understand is wearing a bra when you don't have to. If I
could wear just a camisole without swinging and bouncing all over the
place, I'd do it in a shot!
Priscilla
You could write it on a Post-it - all of those codes for º, £, ¼, é, etc.
are on a little Post-It taped to my desk, next to the keyboard. I'd never
be able memorize more than a few of them.
Amen,sister!
My smaller-breasted best friend wears a bra most of the time. She says, and
I believe her, that going without one isn't always comfortable, physically
and psychologically. I scoff.
M9
<nodnodnod>
Cathy Friedmann wrote:
Good idea!
sue
Gwen
> Priscilla
> I've never felt comfortable going out in public without
> a bra. At home, I go without a bra sometimes, but it gets uncomfortable.
> Rubbing issues.
>
Ah. Now I get it.
> My smaller-breasted best friend wears a bra most of the time. She says,
> and I believe her, that going without one isn't always comfortable,
> physically and psychologically. I scoff.
When I was an A-cup, I wore a bra. It hurt to do PE without. Also, given
time, _anything_ will get dragged down by gravity, including A-cups, so
no more perky. My current B/C-cups can still look decent braless when
necessary because I've always worn a bra.
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******* Keera in Norway ********
** Think big. Shrink to fit. ***
* http://home.online.no/~kafox *
thinkbig_shrinktofit @ yahoo.com
I've never worn a bra unless I had to. I wear one at work
because I'm, err, *perky*, especially when the weather is
parky <g>, and I don't want to embarrass the guys around
me too much. Didn't wear one when I was an A cup, rarely
wore one as a B cup, still don't wear one very often as
a D cup - and I still don't droop. As I say, I wear one to work,
take it off the minute I get home, only wear one at the
weekend if I'm wearing a low top that needs *cleavage*.
I hate wearing one when I'm driving - I tend to get my boobs
squashed by the seatbelt when I do.
> I've never worn a bra unless I had to.
I've always felt I had to. :-)
> I wear one at work because I'm, err, *perky*, especially when the weather
> is parky <g>, and I don't want to embarrass the guys around me too much.
> Didn't wear one when I was an A cup, rarely wore one as a B cup, still
> don't wear one very often as a D cup - and I still don't droop.
Firm skin?
> As I say, I wear one to work, take it off the minute I get home, only wear
> one at the weekend if I'm wearing a low top that needs *cleavage*.
You have cleavage?
> I hate wearing one when I'm driving - I tend to get my boobs
> squashed by the seatbelt when I do.
See, my boobs sit far apart. Seatbelts are no problem. But I have no
cleavage, even with a C-cup.
and regular excercises <g>
>
> > As I say, I wear one to work, take it off the minute I get home, only
wear
> > one at the weekend if I'm wearing a low top that needs *cleavage*.
>
> You have cleavage?
When wearing a bra, I have very good cleavage - certainly
gets the attention of those who matter <g> (ie, hubby)
>
> > I hate wearing one when I'm driving - I tend to get my boobs
> > squashed by the seatbelt when I do.
>
> See, my boobs sit far apart. Seatbelts are no problem. But I have no
> cleavage, even with a C-cup.
without a bra, the seat belt passes nicely through the centre.
With a bra it doesn't work so well :-(
Joanne
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