Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said that there was really no need. Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be much appreciated..
logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next > day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said > that there was really no need. > Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her > period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave > her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about > it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that > we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. > However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again > last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, > she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she > has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a > young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an > affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. > I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she > simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her > but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually > an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her > so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that > there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I > was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my > last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be > much appreciated..
Gee, almost, if not word for word, from a post a few weeks ago. Troll, maybe?
Well your sister and close friends are wrong. I was told this by a doctor, when the ex and I were considering natural birth control. There may have been sperm on the seminal fluid that was on the end your penis, which usually occurs during petting. He told us this occurs most of the time.
Once you entered her, those sperm may have been released into her reproductive tract and one may have made it to egg. Too bad your brain is smaller than your testicles. It is true in your case that 75% of your blood leaves the brain when you get an erection. It ceases to function.
logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next > day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said > that there was really no need. > Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her > period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave > her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about > it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that > we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. > However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again > last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, > she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she > has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a > young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an > affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. > I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she > simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her > but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually > an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her > so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that > there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I > was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my > last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be > much appreciated..
It's not too late for her to go the doctor, if she wants to get an abortion. Maybe you could help by going with her. Sheesh! Sex can be such a pain in the ass, sorry.
The biggest issue here is that she won't tell me if she has had her period. When I ask her by text message she just says 'leave me alone'. She has told me not to worry in a previous message but why is this question so offensive? I can't do anything unless she tells me.
> logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > > Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next > > day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said > > that there was really no need. > > Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her > > period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave > > her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about > > it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that > > we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. > > However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again > > last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, > > she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she > > has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a > > young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an > > affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. > > I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she > > simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her > > but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually > > an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her > > so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > > social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that > > there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I > > was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my > > last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be > > much appreciated..
> Gee, almost, if not word for word, from a post a few weeks ago. Troll, maybe?
> Well your sister and close friends are wrong. I was told this by a doctor, > when the ex and I were considering natural birth control. There may have > been sperm on the seminal fluid that was on the end your penis, which > usually occurs during petting. He told us this occurs most of the time.
> Once you entered her, those sperm may have been released into her > reproductive tract and one may have made it to egg. Too bad your brain is > smaller than your testicles. It is true in your case that 75% of your blood > leaves the brain when you get an erection. It ceases to function.
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The initial seminal fluid (precum) is manufactured in the cowpers, prostate and other small glands and lubricates the penis way before ejaculation. The only time is contains semen is if there was some left over in the urethra from a previous ejaculation. If you urinate then it flushes and destoys any semen in the urethra. Doctors have told me things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know that this means 'heart attack'!!
"GGGNH" <NoS...@NoWhere.net> wrote: > logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: >> Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly >> ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; >> I snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised that >> what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most.... > Gee, almost, if not word for word, from a post a few weeks ago. > Troll, maybe?
Well, he forgot to mention the whereabouts of his actual GF. Remember the one who he wanted to marry? Where's she at, Logan? Perhaps she could persuade this other girl to get herself tested, both for pregnancy & STD's. Along the same lines, Logan, both you and your GF should both be tested for STD's... no telling what's slipped inside her before you.
logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > On 13 Jan, 13:55, GGGNH <NoS...@NoWhere.net> wrote: >> logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: >>> Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly >>> ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I >>> snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised >>> that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. >>> I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily >>> said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next >>> day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said >>> that there was really no need. >>> Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her >>> period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave >>> her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about >>> it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that >>> we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. >>> However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again >>> last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, >>> she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she >>> has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a >>> young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an >>> affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. >>> I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she >>> simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her >>> but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually >>> an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her >>> so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a >>> social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that >>> there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I >>> was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my >>> last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be >>> much appreciated.. >> Gee, almost, if not word for word, from a post a few weeks ago. Troll, maybe?
>> Well your sister and close friends are wrong. I was told this by a doctor, >> when the ex and I were considering natural birth control. There may have >> been sperm on the seminal fluid that was on the end your penis, which >> usually occurs during petting. He told us this occurs most of the time.
>> Once you entered her, those sperm may have been released into her >> reproductive tract and one may have made it to egg. Too bad your brain is >> smaller than your testicles. It is true in your case that 75% of your blood >> leaves the brain when you get an erection. It ceases to function.
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> The initial seminal fluid (precum) is manufactured in the cowpers, > prostate and other small glands and lubricates the penis way before > ejaculation. The only time is contains semen is if there was some left > over in the urethra from a previous ejaculation. If you urinate then > it flushes and destoys any semen in the urethra. Doctors have told me > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know
> that this means 'heart attack'!!
So you didn't have a heart attack if he wrote that. If you had a heart attack, he'd have written "myocardial infarction". I'd have thought someone who studied "advanced biology" would have known that.
If you know all that, then why are you worried as it is impossible for her to be with child. If she has a baby, you can always demand a DNA test to prove the baby isn't your's, since there is no question.
Funny though, I know of a number of children who were conceived even though the male withdrew before ejaculating. That was supposedly their birth control method.
Best to you, stay sober, and keep on posting this again and again. Maybe that will make it all better for you.
On Jan 13, 6:21 am, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
> The biggest issue here is that she won't tell me if she has had her > period. When I ask her by text message she just says 'leave me alone'. > She has told me not to worry in a previous message but why is this > question so offensive? I can't do anything unless she tells me.
You seem pretty sure she couldn't be and the others you have talked to as well have told you so.
I agree she should tell you one way or the other, but she won't.
The question is not really offensive, but just reminds her of the big mistake you both made. This is probably her way of punishing you.
Chalk this up to another reason not to drink and be irresponsible. There isn't much you can do at this point, until she is ready to tell you if anything is up. As hard as it is, I think you have to just go on......and learn from this experience.
On Jan 13, 8:10 am, Lauri <laurinos...@nwidespam.netunspam> wrote:
> On Sun, 13 Jan 2008 05:38:11 -0800 (PST), logan1...@googlemail.com > wrote:
> >so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > >social worker and other close friends
> So much for your girlfriend not finding out. Remember the big > discussion a few weeks ago where many people told you to 'fess up? > Remember others saying that it was probably OK to keep it a secret > because the GF wouldn't find out? And after that, you went and > discussed it with a bunch of people? Can you predict what might > happen next?
I remember it!
Now that he has discussed it with others, I think he may need to tell the GF. Still not sure though.
On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > Doctors have told me > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know > that this means 'heart attack'!!
I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is myocardial infarction.
On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 05:38 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote: > Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next > day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said > that there was really no need. > Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her > period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave > her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about > it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that > we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. > However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again > last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, > she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she > has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a > young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an > affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. > I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she > simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her > but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually > an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her > so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that > there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I > was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my > last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be > much appreciated..
Stop bugging her. I'd be angry too if some guy I drunkenly fucked kept asking me if I got my period. FYI: you can still bleed if you're pregnant. It's unusual, but it happens.
Nina wrote: > On Sun, 13 Jan 2008 08:10:58 -0800, Lauri > <laurinos...@nwidespam.netunspam> wrote:
>> On Sun, 13 Jan 2008 05:38:11 -0800 (PST), logan1...@googlemail.com >> wrote:
>>> so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a >>> social worker and other close friends
>> So much for your girlfriend not finding out. Remember the big >> discussion a few weeks ago where many people told you to 'fess up? >> Remember others saying that it was probably OK to keep it a secret >> because the GF wouldn't find out? And after that, you went and >> discussed it with a bunch of people? Can you predict what might >> happen next?
> I hate to say it, but when that actually does happen... and as I said > weeks ago, it's a SURE thing, it will be his fault and no one else's.
> It's so depressing to watch people do the really stupid things that > you just hope that they won't.
Isn't it, though???? I mean, really, when you really think about it ..... it really IS damn depressing.
"Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> wrote:
> Nina wrote: >> It's so depressing to watch people do the really stupid things >> that you just hope that they won't. > Isn't it, though???? I mean, really, when you really think about > it ..... it really IS damn depressing.
Fuddy-duddy. Actually, its quite entertaining. Life would be quite boring if there weren't such folk to which the rest of us could feel superior. Its the silly-ass dunces of the world make even the mediocre appear to be great sages by comparison.
Rog' wrote: > "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> wrote: > > Nina wrote: > >> It's so depressing to watch people do the really stupid things > >> that you just hope that they won't.
> > Isn't it, though???? I mean, really, when you really think about > > it ..... it really IS damn depressing.
> Fuddy-duddy. Actually, its quite entertaining. Life would be > quite boring if there weren't such folk to which the rest of us > could feel superior. Its the silly-ass dunces of the world make > even the mediocre appear to be great sages by comparison.
I like boring. I get to read books, have interesting conversations with friends, enjoy the beauty of things, cuddle with the animals, learn from nice professors, trust your neighbours, rely on your husband or wife not to hurt you, devote your time to creative and challenging projects, listen to the fascinating life stories of seniors, explore the world...... I like boring. If the human race lacked the sexual appetite, and the hormones for aggression, i would consider it Paradise -- and you know, it would be, because there would be no wars, and no painful betrayals.
"Erin" <squig...@sympatico.ca> wrote: > Rog' wrote: >> ... Life would be quite boring if there weren't such folk to >> which the rest of us could feel superior. Its the silly-ass >> dunces of the world make even the mediocre appear to be >> great sages by comparison. > I like boring. I get to read books, have interesting conversations > with friends, enjoy the beauty of things, cuddle with the animals, > learn from nice professors, trust your neighbours, rely on your > husband or wife not to hurt you, devote your time to creative > and challenging projects, listen to the fascinating life stories of > seniors, explore the world...... I like boring. If the human race > lacked the sexual appetite, and the hormones for aggression, i > would consider it Paradise -- and you know, it would be, > because there would be no wars, and no painful betrayals. > Erin
Thus, you are now "a great sage." Res ipsa loquitur.
Erin wrote: > Rog' wrote: >> "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@earthlink.net> wrote: >>> Nina wrote: >>>> It's so depressing to watch people do the really stupid things >>>> that you just hope that they won't.
>>> Isn't it, though???? I mean, really, when you really think about >>> it ..... it really IS damn depressing.
>> Fuddy-duddy. Actually, its quite entertaining. Life would be >> quite boring if there weren't such folk to which the rest of us >> could feel superior. Its the silly-ass dunces of the world make >> even the mediocre appear to be great sages by comparison.
> I like boring. I get to read books, have interesting conversations > with friends, enjoy the beauty of things, cuddle with the animals, > learn from nice professors, trust your neighbours, rely on your > husband or wife not to hurt you, devote your time to creative > and challenging projects, listen to the fascinating life stories > of seniors, explore the world...... I like boring. If the human race > lacked the sexual appetite, and the hormones for aggression, i would > consider it Paradise -- and you know, it would be, because there > would be no wars, and no painful betrayals.
> Erin
Yup, I agree wholeheartedly. Unfortunately, it is not to be.
dejablues <dejabl...@verizon.net> writes: > On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
> > Doctors have told me > > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial > > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know > > that this means 'heart attack'!!
> I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is > myocardial infarction.
No, the doctor must have _meant_ myocardial infraction. It is when your heart (or maybe some other muscular tissue) leads you to do something you are going to regret later!
>> On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
>> > Doctors have told me >> > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial >> > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know >> > that this means 'heart attack'!!
>> I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is >> myocardial infarction.
> No, the doctor must have _meant_ myocardial infraction.
Myocardial infarction! Not infraction!
It is when
> your heart (or maybe some other muscular tissue) leads you to do > something you are going to regret later!
Muscular tissue has no will of its own, the brain controls everything!
>>> On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
>>> > Doctors have told me >>> > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial >>> > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know >>> > that this means 'heart attack'!!
>>> I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is >>> myocardial infarction.
>> No, the doctor must have _meant_ myocardial infraction.
> Myocardial infarction! Not infraction!
> It is when >> your heart (or maybe some other muscular tissue) leads you to do >> something you are going to regret later!
> Muscular tissue has no will of its own, the brain controls everything!
Would that be the brain in the big head, or the little head?
"dejablues" <dejabl...@verizon.net> writes: > "Doug Anderson" <ethelthelogremovet...@gmail.com> wrote in message > news:oh7iiddsg0.fsf@ethel.the.log... > > dejablues <dejabl...@verizon.net> writes:
> >> On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
> >> > Doctors have told me > >> > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial > >> > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know > >> > that this means 'heart attack'!!
> >> I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is > >> myocardial infarction.
> > No, the doctor must have _meant_ myocardial infraction.
> Myocardial infarction! Not infraction!
I don't think so. A myocardial infarction is a heart attack, which is obviously not the poster's problem.
I think myocardial infraction is _much_ more likely!
>> "Doug Anderson" <ethelthelogremovet...@gmail.com> wrote in message >> news:oh7iiddsg0.fsf@ethel.the.log... >> > dejablues <dejabl...@verizon.net> writes:
>> >> On Sun, 2008-01-13 at 06:27 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com wrote:
>> >> > Doctors have told me >> >> > things that are incorrect in the past, one wrote 'mycoardial >> >> > infraction' on a sick note, i've studied advanced biology and know >> >> > that this means 'heart attack'!!
>> >> I hope your doctor didn't write that, because the correct term is >> >> myocardial infarction.
>> > No, the doctor must have _meant_ myocardial infraction.
>> Myocardial infarction! Not infraction!
> I don't think so. A myocardial infarction is a heart attack, which is > obviously not the poster's problem.
> I think myocardial infraction is _much_ more likely!
Well, this all seems to involve organs below the waist, mixed with alcohol, so...
> On Sun, 13 Jan 2008 12:01:11 -0800 (PST), Vickie
> <lilliputianbizz...@gmail.com> wrote: > >On Jan 13, 8:10 am, Lauri <laurinos...@nwidespam.netunspam> wrote: > >> On Sun, 13 Jan 2008 05:38:11 -0800 (PST), logan1...@googlemail.com > >> wrote:
> >> >so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > >> >social worker and other close friends
> >> So much for your girlfriend not finding out. Remember the big > >> discussion a few weeks ago where many people told you to 'fess up? > >> Remember others saying that it was probably OK to keep it a secret > >> because the GF wouldn't find out? And after that, you went and > >> discussed it with a bunch of people? Can you predict what might > >> happen next?
> >I remember it!
> >Now that he has discussed it with others, I think he may need to tell > >the GF. > >Still not sure though.
> Oh, come on... let's count who knows now. 1. the girl he slept with, > who is acting a little weird, 2. his sister, 3.+ "other close > friends". A secret that more than one person knows is not a secret > any more (and even if he was "bright" enough to ask sis and friends in > hypothetical terms, they know something is up). Girlfriend is going > to find out; it's just a matter of when, who tells her, and how big > the damage will be. Certainly finding out from someone else is only > going to mean that the damage is bigger.- Hide quoted text -
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You know he hasn't even mentioned the GF, so not sure if he even cares whether she finds out or not.
> Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant. The next > day I asked her if she would take the morning after pill and she said > that there was really no need. > Three weeks later (A few days ago) I asked her by text if she had her > period and it really seemed to upset her, she just told me to leave > her alone. The next day I explained to her how stressed I was about > it; she told me not to worry, there would be no 'comeback' and that > we should both learn from this how silly things can get in drink. > However, she didn't say if she had her period. I texted her again > last night and asked her as gently as possible if she'd her period, > she wouldn't answer and asked me to just leave her alone. I know she > has been through a tough time over the past couple of years, she has a > young daughter and her husband left her a year ago after having an > affair. She has also been in a violent relationship in the past. > I'm going crazy as I am so worried that she might be pregnant but she > simply won't answer me?? She is making me feel like I am harassing her > but I just want a simple answer to a simple question. She is usually > an intelligent and rational person but this question seems to make her > so angry. I have read about this and spoken to my sister who is a > social worker and other close friends with kids and they all say that > there is no way she would be pregnant from such a brief encounter. I > was nowhere near ejaculation and had urinated several times since my > last ejaculation but I'm feeling insanely worried, any advice would be > much appreciated..
On 2008-01-13 05:38:11 -0800, logan1...@googlemail.com said:
> Nearly four weeks ago I got very drunk with a friend and we stupidly > ended up in bed together, we fumbled about and I slipped inside her; I > snapped out of the lust and instantly pushed her off as I realised > that what we were doing was very wrong, it was five seconds at most. > I asked her if she was on the pill and she said she wasn't but jokily > said that we would know in three weeks if she was pregnant
You know what they call people that practice unprotected sex?
