You don't. If you're not willing to seek help in some form, you will
eventually end up destroying your life with your eating disorder, to
the point that professional help will be your only option to get your
life back. I'd suggest just giving it some time. Either way, you'll get
help, or die not trying.
Risa
My advice? Read, think, read, and think some more....the ability to control
your behavior will come to you if that is what you truly want. You have more
power to control your behavior than anyone else in this world so go ahead
and seize it, take back your life for all that it's worth, because you can.
Remember, this is not a physical disorder, it is mental, and the maze that
it is made of exists inside of you, it's up to you to find your way out.
I believe in you, I BELIEVE WE ALL HAVE THE POWER TO HEAL OURSELVES, it is
out god given right, He wouldn't have had it any other way.
E-mail me any time you need a friend,
Allison
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Your private email to me is offensive. Sending your religious
proselytizing to my email? I think not. Go to alt.religion.minority if
you want to "share" your god, or recruit bystanders.
<E-mail me any time you need a friend>
Yeah, right. Religious dogma to the rescue . . .
Risa
Why should you? We all need others, and others need us - it is one of the
joys of being human.
Recovering and healing and living the healthy life that you deserve is
partly a personal journey and partly a process of finding resources that
work for you. Seeking and using the help of others (professional and
personal help) is part of being a healthy human being.
It is a sign of strength, not weakness, to find and embrace the life you
deserve.
Laura Collins
la...@eatingwithyouranorexic.com
I am not religious and have never read the bible or been to church, I just
feel very strongly that we are here for a reason and have the power to do
anything we set our minds to. It's a shame to see it any other way.
Take care,
Allison
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--Connie
Allison
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I have been where you are and can completely relate to your situation, for
me, I would have to say it made my behaviors worse when I told people, not
better at all. I think if I had taken that same energy and focused it on
myself I would have recovered much sooner and suffered alot less. I know
many people benefit form seeking outside help, just for me it wasn't the
case.
I wish you and everyone reading this all the best on your journeys, remember
to take it one meal at a time and truly take care of yourselves, good things
will come naturally when you do : )
Allison
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> but you see to tell someone, to seek help, would destroy my
> life, my career, my relationships, everything i have acheived in spite
> of my ed. i am not willing to take that risk, but at the same time i
> feel more and more hopeless i can do this on my own. if i knew i could
> get help completely confidentially i may consider it, but in my
> profession that will be a near impossibility!
You may want to examine http://tinyurl.com/6yzz8 which details the
confidentially you are legally provided within the UK. You can receive
treatment in complete confidentiality without anyone finding out, failure to
provide this would result in criminal prosecutions against anyone who
disclosed the information about you.
> can anyone provide me
> with any help, advice, or just kind words... to help me continue my
> fight without throwing the rest of my life away (and no, my recognition
> that my ed is ruining my life and will probably eventually kill me if
> it continues doesn't persuade me that its worth 'throwing the rest of
> my life away' to seek professional help). how do i overcome bulimia on
> my alone? have any of you done it? thank you for reading.
Learn to have faith in yourself... You can get the professional help you
require in confidence, you can begin to treat your problems, especially with
the help of another. It is incredibly difficult with the help of another
trained to help, without them you're just stacking the odds against
yourself. It really is worth considering long and hard, you've lived a life
trying to cure yourself without the guidance of another. You may do it
certainly, but it could be so much easier and it need never be at the
expense of your career.
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Carnal Excess
was so abusive he even put damaging FALSE INFORMATION in my
medical record in an effort to harm me. You have NO CONTROL over what
your Doctors or Therapists write down in your PERMANENT RECORD. These
records will stay with you for life. You reach a point where you dont
really believe there is help -- and maybe thats a good thing to know.
Erika
Did you report this? Mental health professionals have a code of ethics
to which they must adhere. I can't imagine why a psychiatrist would
record "false information" in an attempt to harm you.
Doctors and therapists write what is pertinent to your treatment in
your record. Their notes are supposed to be nonjudgemental and
objective.
"You reach a point where you dont
really believe there is help -- and maybe thats a good thing to know. "
I disagree. It's unfortunate that someone would think there is no help
and would steer away from professional intervention as a result of
mistrust.
Some psychiatrists will resort to using false information in order
to max-out the length of stay the patient will be held in psych.
They must make the patient seem in need of long-term treatment.
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Thet may have a 'code of ethics' but that doesn't mean they always adhere to
them.
I can't imagine why a psychiatrist would
> record "false information" in an attempt to harm you.
I can think of a multitude of scenareos in which this could occur.
>
> Doctors and therapists write what is pertinent to your treatment in
> your record. Their notes are supposed to be nonjudgemental and
> objective.
Key word: *supposed*.
>
> "You reach a point where you dont
> really believe there is help -- and maybe thats a good thing to know. "
>
> I disagree. It's unfortunate that someone would think there is no help
> and would steer away from professional intervention as a result of
> mistrust.
You disagree with what? That someone could reach that point? On what do
you base this assertion?
'rie & Bella the Cat
>
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