It's important to have communication with a partner. It may seem
obvious but it lacks in so many relationships.
I have a blog that I created to discuss some of the finer points on
marriage (and divorce) and the peaks and valleys that are present in
all relationships. If you feel like checking it out you can find it
here:
http://savingthemarriage.blogspot.com/
Love is still a mystery. It's also a choice we make when we wake up in
the morning and when you go to sleep at night. Some days you may not
feel the original feeling that brought you together in the first place
but that is no reason to give up on it. Feeling that way may mean you
just need to spice things up a bit and create that spark yourself
instead of waiting for it to magically appear again. Love in many ways
is an ongoing project. Something that you can't just take for granted
and expect to flourish.