someone needs to talk to wolfie
Oscar of confuzzled
she's scaring the others
Emerging Butterfly
<nospamsometimesknownas...@gmail.com> wrote:
> she does *not* get to kill the body
> she's scaring the others
is she still?
maybe she can talk here.
glad you posted, Oscar, and are protecting.
Juniper
<a63043ac-62d6-4b6f...@q11g2000yqi.googlegroups.com>,
Emerging Butterfly <emerging....@hotmail.com> wrote:
Yeah. I wish she'd post here. I don't have long stretches when I can
come in here, but I can from time to time. I'm having one of those "I'm
so tired I can barely keep my eyes open"days which don't reflect lack of
sleep but which I encounter from time to time due to impending (soon I
hope) menopause. Ah, the glory and joy of being a woman. NOT.
Juniper
--
Hearts cannot be bound to orthodoxy.
wolfie of confuzzled
we deleted that post
stupid google groups
wolfie of confuzzled
We tired too. was just too much of a day
hope you feel less tired soon
EB
ahh. but wolfie, i think it's important that oscar and others can
express themselves here. and they were scared. could you do something
to help them or make a post yourself about the feelings?
EB
<nospamsometimesknownas...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> silvershard wrote:
> >X-No-Archive: Yes
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> > Oscar of confuzzled wrote:
> >> she does *not* get to kill the body
> >> she's scaring the others
>
> > she does not get to make that decision, imo.
> > how can we help?
>
> know i don't get that decision. sorry i upset everyone.
>
> i just gotta sheild my thoughst better.
>
> > wolfie please do not scare the others. what's making you
> > feel this way?
>
> is just too much
:( everything convergind and overwhelming and can't get away from it?
> they dont understand how tired i am
this is tiring work you're doing.
> and they all seem to need me and i just wanna go away
what do they need from you? can someone else inside do it for awhile
so you can rest?
do you have a place inside you can go with nice restful things?
> and it gets all loud and i dont know how to make it be quiet
others inside.
> and we are convinced we are going to be horribly needy.
you're not. and if you were, that doesn't go away by trying to stomp
it out. nope, it festers and gets worse. if you got big deep needs,
gotta learn to validate em inside.
have to find
> some way to stop that.
like we said -- that will only make it worse. (and we dont' think
you're horribly needy. we think that you, like us, have unmet needs,
big ones, from kidhood, and that gets confusing showing up in a grown
up body.)
don't like this.
i know.
can feel the neediness. isn't
> ok. just isn't.
feels icky?
the people who tried to stomp out your need were wrong.
have to make it go away
again....nope. gotta find ways to meet it.
> and when i get this overwhelmed not such a great person.
no one is a great person when they're overwhelmed, full of charity and
kind thoughts. it's okay to be irritable. is part of being human.
just want to be
> left alone. melt down. no patience. don't like me. don't like us.
okay.
we're here though.
(glad you wrote. is braver than deleting. is hard work.)
fuzzy
have postetd
everything is fine
EB wrote:
> On Jul 8, 9:05 pm, wolfie of confuzzled
> <nospamsometimesknownas...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>> X-No-Archive: Yes
wolfie of confuzzled
> that was all just dumb drama. oscar shouldn't have posted. I shouldn't
> have postetd
>
> everything is fine
>
Emerging Butterfly
oh. i kinda think whenever you start protesting that it's all fine and
all drama, that's the most powerful stuff for you. the need to make it
not be real speaks to the power of its existence.