In article <
an4sld...@mid.individual.net>,
gathring <
co...@dragonpack.com> wrote:
>On 2/1/2013 11:52 AM, mischa wrote:
>> hi RC & astri
>>
>> Am 31.01.2013 17:18, schrieb astri:
>>> On Thu, 31 Jan 2013, jill wrote:
>>>> In article <
2013013017...@oz.volcano.org>,
>>>> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote:
>>>>> On Wed, 30 Jan 2013, mischa wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> we still cannot believe this is really happening to asd. somehow we
>>>>>> still hope things will change again and somehow people will come
>>>>>> back and post etc
>>>>>
>>>>> usenet is so yesterday. just text. no animations jumping all over.
>>>>> no pretty pictures. sigh
>>>>
>>>> I'm pretty sure it's more than just that. Many people dote on email
>>>> and it is pretty much text only between normal people. And on
>>>> facebook there are side ads and such, but the interaction is still
>>>> all in text with a few simple smilies (which are hysterically funny
>>>> btw). So people still do a lot of text only interactions.
>>
>> hm ... well, you may have a point. we've been wondering about the effect
>> of facebook & co. (we're not into those, just in case someone's
>> wondering or looking for us there ;-))
>> but if they are basically text only or text mostly, that's not big the
>> difference
>>
>>>> I think it is more about how we interact, what we say. ASD feels more
>>>> personal and interactive than the other group type things I know of.
>>
>> *nodding*
>> which is why it is so sad to lose asd. it's not just another virtual
>> technical something on the net. it's about very personal contacts.
>> sometimes it feels like the home of our soul(s), so to say, a f*mily of
>> choice for sure
>>
>>>> For example, I am in a nook group on facebook. People come and go,
>>>> they post one sentence or just click 'like'. They don't seem to go
>>>> off topic very far or very often. I don't get to know them as an
>>>> individual, they are simply words on a screen who 'get' the concept
>>>> of nooking. Very shallow. Maybe people prefer this type of
>>>> communication.
>>
>> yup. very non-committal, just on/off to get some info or share bits and
>> pieces of information. pretty much like the boards and groups our SO
>> reads on technical stuff
>>
>>>> And the other part to that is there is no sense of obligation. I
>>>> don't HAVE TO post to the nook group. It goes on just fine without
>>>> me. Here I feel a sense of obligation and committment to keeping the
>>>> group moving. Without me, the group is lessened. There is that
>>>> sense of 'I must'. I'm sure many people in our society would prefer
>>>> to have as little of this as possible. Our social sense of personal
>>>> responsibility is pretty low right now :P
>>
>> yup. stupid society - or rather: societies unless you meant this to be
>> something like "the western cultures".
>> and it's sad cuz I think societies sort of stop to be societies if they
>> lack any sens of personal responsibility. it's like letting go what
>> keeps us (as in us who we form the societies) together. :-(
>>
>>
>>> there are support communities out there. none of them seem much like
>>> asd, tho. they all have rules and moderators and stuff like that. to
>>> us, the "nice" we see there seems fake, cuz they don't have any choice.
>>> there's this obligatory and automatic "i support you" without much of
>>> the critical, active engagement that is asd at its best. we looked when
>>> we realized what was happening at asd. the "nice" here doesn't feel
>>> fake cuz it isn't obligatory.
>>
>> yeah right. asd is as real as the net gets. at least that's what it
>> feels to us. like people we meet here and what goes on between them is
>> really real. definitely not fake, not at all
>> which, again, makes the thought we all might be losing this so
>> unbearably sad
>> mischa's chaos
>>
>
>feels as if its a bit like the art of letter writing. when new, more
>'efficient' methods of communications became widely available and
>affordable, people didn't 'need' that skill anymore.
>
>i agree with the general consensus here tho...the other 'resources'
>available today seem stilted and lacking personality. people seem afraid
>to share anything deeply personal, or to form meaningful relationships.
>some of that i think is because of the 'thread' phenomena. maybe some of
>it is because web pages seem so much more public. when i first started
>using usenet, the only way to access it was to find a group or groups by
>searching through lists of thousands, using a separate application.
>
>maybe community means something different now
This is a very good point. If you have to scroll through a list the
place feels more private. If you can find it by googling, then it is
not. How much of this perception is important in asd survival? If we
were to move it or make it more accessible in some way, would it
retain the same feeling of privacy? Even if there is some bridge thing
that allows us to type in a web address in google and then it links to
usenet, won't it still feel more public? Will that 'damage' asd in
some way?
Rainbow Colors (Jill)