Disclaimer.
Shiyiya
group at large - weirdness inside, everybody less distinct (don't LIKE
it don't WANT to be everybody hmph), meaning I have some of the other
two. Meaning I've ended up with a faair portion of Rys's harsh
bluntness, which I don't WANT and it was better when she had it because
then we could turn it on and off instead of it being unpredictable! Ugh.
Anyway. Being meaner than usual. Don't like it. Isn't ME. Don't know how
to stop it. Sorry. Very sorry.
cometz
i am confused. but it's ok. life seems to be confusing more often than
not. don't have to be sorry, i don't think.
it sounds like you are saying you were posting as EB but aren't. that
is where i got confused. didn't think you are EB but maybe i missed a
big something.
as i said, confused.
betsy
Sonata
No, was saying that I was talking to EB earlier, on IM, and mentioned it
to her, and figured it was probably something worth saying to everyone
else too. Sorry I phrased it confusingly. Make more sense?
Oscar of confuzzled
you know, it seems like this is probably at least in part about us. how
about you save yourselves the irriatipon and just killfile us
Sonata
That wasn't about you guys at all actually. Sorry if we should stop
replying to you or something.
Oscar of confuzzled
meh, if I was mistaken and it wasn't about us then I apologize
Sonata
It was actually wrt what we had been saying to Michelle, others in EB
asked us to be a bit gentler with her. And it's really frustrating to
have my response to things be totally unpredictable becacuse it's bits
of other peoples' too and knew I've been deleting things that weren't
something I wanted to say more and wanted to put a warning out before
the checks slipped and I said something hurtful.
Oscar of confuzzled
alright. I was wrong.
you ever wonder why rys gets so mad about things?
Sonata
It's her job to have all of the mad. It's basically all she is. And
before all this weird stupid mixy stuff started, seperate alter for the
mad made it possible to lock it away when it wasn't a good thing to have
out, and bring it out when it was a good thing. Instead of it just being
inpredictable and random. Similar goes for Echo - she's basically logic
where Shi is emotional. And sensitive.
Oscar of confuzzled
wolfie thought that about me. I am more then the mad. rys might be too.
and who gets to decide when the mad is appropriate?
Sonata
Personally I'm just glad to have her be 'mad' instead of 'vicious'...
>
> and who gets to decide when the mad is appropriate?
Well, me, because I'm the one in general control by general agreement.
But if need for it is strong enough Echo or Rys can come out anyway even
if I don't like it. Or could. I'm not positive what tense that should be
in. It's REALLY IRRITATING to have our head in upheaval all the time.
Emerging Butterfly
know it's difficult right now.
sorry it is.
think some of this is part of maturing, learning how to modulate some
emotions and how to express different sides to an issue. you're still
pretty young to be learning all of this and doing a darn good job,
imo.
russiandolly
perhaps its a good thing
(someone's into positive thinking today - all of her posts have been
"perhaps it's a good thing" bla bla bla - A)
allowing you to get a bit more control over it, well not control,
dunno. ownership? perhaps this way, although it's difficult to learn
to deal with at first, *you* can learn when is is and isn't
appropriate to ramp up the straight-talking and bluntness, that way it
doesn't feel out-of-control when Rys does it and you don't have to be
embarassed and apologetic about it.
sorry if this is complete cr*p or something, or we're being really
dismissive or something, or patronizing.
it's ok to be like Rys, it's just knowing when its ok and needed. (not
that we're saying that she's *not* ok or appropriate or whatever,
we're not making any judgements or anything like that, it's about
*you* being comfortable with the way the system acts
cometz
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yeah. thanks. we confuse too easily. always have. think it is some of
why we think we are stupid.
Oscar of confuzzled
> Oscar of confuzzled wrote:
>> Sonata wrote:
>>> Oscar of confuzzled wrote:
>>>> Sonata wrote:
>>>>> Oscar of confuzzled wrote:
>>>>>> Sonata wrote:
>>>>>>> Oscar of confuzzled wrote:
>>>>>>>> Shiyiya wrote:
<...>
>>>>> It was actually wrt what we had been saying to Michelle, others in
>>>>> EB asked us to be a bit gentler with her. And it's really
>>>>> frustrating to have my response to things be totally unpredictable
>>>>> becacuse it's bits of other peoples' too and knew I've been
>>>>> deleting things that weren't something I wanted to say more and
>>>>> wanted to put a warning out before the checks slipped and I said
>>>>> something hurtful.
>>>>
>>>> alright. I was wrong.
>>>>
>>>> you ever wonder why rys gets so mad about things?
>>>
>>> It's her job to have all of the mad. It's basically all she is. And
>>> before all this weird stupid mixy stuff started, seperate alter for
>>> the mad made it possible to lock it away when it wasn't a good thing
>>> to have out, and bring it out when it was a good thing. Instead of it
>>> just being inpredictable and random. Similar goes for Echo - she's
>>> basically logic where Shi is emotional. And sensitive.
>>
>> wolfie thought that about me. I am more then the mad. rys might be too.
>
> Personally I'm just glad to have her be 'mad' instead of 'vicious'...
hmm... are you saying she can be vicious? I can be vicious? I'm not
following.
maybe it doesn't matter. I'm just saying that maybe if things are
changing it's worth trying to figure out why rys is mad. or if there's
more then mad.
>>
>> and who gets to decide when the mad is appropriate?
>
> Well, me, because I'm the one in general control by general agreement.
k
> But if need for it is strong enough Echo or Rys can come out anyway even
> if I don't like it. Or could. I'm not positive what tense that should be
> in. It's REALLY IRRITATING to have our head in upheaval all the time.
heh
Sonata
Rys started as vague female voice in the dark that tore me to shreds
before I dropped deep enough for the bad man to start. I'm just relieved
to have her not be that anymore.
russiandolly
>
> Rys started as vague female voice in the dark that tore me to shreds
> before I dropped deep enough for the bad man to start. I'm just relieved
> to have her not be that anymore.
>
>
our Alice started off as someone screaming 'LIAR' in the loudest voice
possible, (not that we, or she, know what she was claiming that
someone was lying about)
she doesn't do it anymore.
tends to have stuff to say - perhaps she might have been in denial or
something? or whoever was saying things had stopped saying them. hmm.
don't know *shrug*
just thought we'd share :)