t and email
confuzzled
bill insurance. don't wanna nag
and if we email about that think others are gonna say other things. dont
wanna be a bother
and maybe t mad at us
astri
> is it ok if we email t? she forget again to give us invoice so we
> could bill insurance. don't wanna nag
is ok to email her
> and if we email about that think others are gonna say other things.
> dont wanna be a bother
that wouldn't be a bother
you keep telling us to email t and let her decide what is a bother
> and maybe t mad at us
doubt it
-- astri
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Shiyiya
think is fine to
why would she be mad?
jill
confuzzled <nospamsometi...@gmail.com> wrote:
>is it ok if we email t? she forget again to give us invoice so we could
>bill insurance. don't wanna nag
>and if we email about that think others are gonna say other things. dont
email her. Getting info for insurance is definitely an ok thing to
email about.
>wanna be a bother
>
>and maybe t mad at us
T'pist is probly not mad at you. I can't say 100 percent because I'm
not there in real, but almost all the time when a client thinks a
t'pist is mad it's cause the client is confused about something or
thinking it is from the past stuff or whatever. Rarely, very very
rarely, would a t'pist be mad.
So, I'd suggest you email about the invoice and then, if someone else
wants to say something, just put in a little spoiler type thing like:
and now so and so wants to say something and let that insider type
(with help if necessary of course *grin*). That is being respectful
of others inside and letting them say what they want to say. Then
that insider will remember that you are letting them talk and they
will be more inclined to listen when _you_ talk.
Rainbow Colors (Jill)
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we are becoming white light.
ji...@tuells.org
jill
astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote:
>On Mon, 21 Dec 2009, confuzzled wrote:
>
>> is it ok if we email t? she forget again to give us invoice so we
>> could bill insurance. don't wanna nag
>
>is ok to email her
>
>> and if we email about that think others are gonna say other things.
>> dont wanna be a bother
>
>that wouldn't be a bother
>you keep telling us to email t and let her decide what is a bother
Yes, I think you should email _your_ t'pist as well *wicked grin*
Rainbow Colors (Jill)
>> and maybe t mad at us
>
>doubt it
>
>-- astri
astri
> In article <Pine.BSI.4.64.09...@malasada.lava.net>,
> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote:
>> On Mon, 21 Dec 2009, confuzzled wrote:
>>
>>> is it ok if we email t? she forget again to give us invoice so we
>>> could bill insurance. don't wanna nag
>>
>> is ok to email her
>>
>>> and if we email about that think others are gonna say other things.
>>> dont wanna be a bother
>>
>> that wouldn't be a bother
>> you keep telling us to email t and let her decide what is a bother
>
> Yes, I think you should email _your_ t'pist as well *wicked grin*
her husband is in hosp
was in icu
she busy
she preoccupied
(as she should be)
but that means she not there
she even said she might not read email
so she not there
she not really back yet
Baba Yaga
>her husband is in hosp
>was in icu
>she busy
>she preoccupied
>(as she should be)
>
>but that means she not there
>she even said she might not read email
understandably!
think o.k. to send it, nonetheless.
>so she not there
>she not really back yet
8-(
Baba Yaga
--
External things are no more like the perceptions they give rise to,
than wine is similar to intoxication, or opium to the delirium which
it produces.
- John Playfair
astri
> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote, in alt.support.dissociation:
>
>> her husband is in hosp
>> was in icu
>> she busy
>> she preoccupied
>> (as she should be)
>>
>> but that means she not there
>> she even said she might not read email
>
> understandably!
> think o.k. to send it, nonetheless.
not ok
>> so she not there
>> she not really back yet
>
> 8-(
told her
Baba Yaga
>On Tue, 22 Dec 2009, Baba Yaga wrote:
>> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote, in alt.support.dissociation:
>>
>>> her husband is in hosp
>>> was in icu
>>> she busy
>>> she preoccupied
>>> (as she should be)
>>>
>>> but that means she not there
>>> she even said she might not read email
>>
>> understandably!
>> think o.k. to send it, nonetheless.
>
>not ok
k.
regret that.
>>> so she not there
>>> she not really back yet
>>
>> 8-(
>
>told her
fair nuff. sure she understands that.
astri
> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote, in alt.support.dissociation:
>> On Tue, 22 Dec 2009, Baba Yaga wrote:
>>> astri <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote, in alt.support.dissociation:
>>>
>>>> her husband is in hosp
>>>> was in icu
>>>> she busy
>>>> she preoccupied
>>>> (as she should be)
>>>>
>>>> but that means she not there
>>>> she even said she might not read email
>>>
>>> understandably!
>>> think o.k. to send it, nonetheless.
>>
>> not ok
>
> k.
> regret that.
oh well
>>>> so she not there
>>>> she not really back yet
>>>
>>> 8-(
>>
>> told her
>
> fair nuff. sure she understands that.
see her mid-day today
thinking of trying to give back her marble
wonder if she'll take it
smoke alarm went off randomly at 2am :P
never got back to sleep
kept thinking of too much to do
finally got up at about 3:30
scrubbed the back room floor on hands and knees
(worked better than mop)
(is laminate floor)
put miscellaneous small furniture back down
drinking coffee now
had 4 hours sleep
should survive
if coffee doesn't take care of headache then will take painkiller
guess we're still fine
fuzzy
we thought maybe she be mad cuz was wolfie in last session with all her
walls up. wasn't much... forthcoming
Shiyiya
think she probably understands that is never perfect open progress always.