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John

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Nov 21, 2003, 11:48:44 PM11/21/03
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I am very confused on the entire weight loss scheme -- nearly everyone I
talk to tells me something different. Some say the old food pyramid is
proven a failure, others say the newer mediterranean diet is the way to go,
others say no carbs, still others say very low calorie diets, etc.

The main thing that gets me is this:
I am 295 pounds, 6'2", and 45 years old. I am told by some that I should be
eating around 3200 - 3500 calories per day just to maintain my weight with
little or no exercise. I have software where I log my meals, and I average
around 2000 calories per day and unless I exercise vigorously (like
volleyball, tennis, etc.), I cannot lose weight ... in fact, I'll slowly
gain at those calorie counts. What would happen if I added another 1000
calories per day? I'm afraid I'd blow up like a balloon. I did begin back
in June of 2002 weighing 329. I've lose 34 pounds in that year and a half
now, but have been bouncing between 289 and 300 for the past month ... not
able to take any more off. I've tried getting down to around 1200 calories
per day, but I'm afraid I'm losing lean muscle mass along with the fat when
I do that, and I've been told I'll train my body to only use 1200 calories
per day so I'll never be able to go back to normal eating once I get down to
where I want.

So, what is the key to nutritionally get the proper content for your body,
yet lose a couple pounds a week (or even more if possible) so I can get to
that 175 range I'd like to be? Should I be working out with weights at the
same time I'm attempting to lose weight, or does that fight somehow against
the weight loss as that requires me to eat more protein and fats to attempt
to build the muscle I need to increase my metabolism (a sort of catch-22)?

I hope someone here has some really good advice that can help me get to
where I need to be with my weight.

Thank you.


Miss Violette

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Nov 22, 2003, 4:44:30 AM11/22/03
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first off the biggest problem I see here is you are talking in terms of a
difference in your eating to lose and after you lose, you need to find a way
of eating that you can live with from now on. I like WW because it teaches
the things that you are asking within a flexible format that allows for all
preference, and dietary restrictions that one may have due to health,
conviction or religious belief. I can't give you specifics, all I can tell
you is that I weigh 78 pounds less than I did a year ago, all of that but
14.5 was done with WW and I can't say I have been deprived at all, in fact
there is a batch of brownies cooling on the stove as I write this, Lee
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Lesanne

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Nov 22, 2003, 7:37:20 AM11/22/03
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I don't know what might be going on with you. I am a 55 year old (very
active) female, 5'8", 159 pounds this morning. I eat around 1800 calories a
day and maintain on that. In fact I have lost about 3 pounds in the last 3
months while trying to learn to maintain. I do lift weights and have done
for the past few years. Are you sure about your intake? If you are not
doing it, try for a few days weighing and measuring everything. Are you
sure about your software? This is a very complex issue (I am sure you are
aware from your post). I have lost a total of 206 pounds from my highest
weight. Don't let anyone anywhere tell you that you can't take this weight
off. You just need to find "YOUR" program.

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Amber

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Nov 22, 2003, 10:53:15 AM11/22/03
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I don't know about your calorie question. As far as the different advice
goes on low carb/mediterranean/low calorie I agree w/ a previous post in
that you have to find something healthy that you will be able to
continue the rest of your life. However, I think the extreme of anything
is harmful, such as cutting out all carbs. Lifting weights is very good
for losing weight, although you may not see the number on the scale
right away. It increases your muscle mass, which help you burn more
calories- this losing fat. Just don't get discouraged b/c muscle does
weigh more than fat and at first you may see a increase on the scale. I
hope this helps.

Amber
214/208/165

Elaine Kirkham

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Nov 22, 2003, 3:51:21 PM11/22/03
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Hi John, welcome aboard. Have you every tried Weigh Watchers? It does work.
Elaine K
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Robin

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Nov 22, 2003, 6:24:32 PM11/22/03
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In article <lqCdncGGqKM...@tznet.com>,
"John" <jayj...@wctc.net> wrote:

John,
I am SO with you, my situation EXACTLY. A recent change to a new diet
is low carb, which I've been doing for a month, lost initial 5 lbs in
the first week, that's been it. I have not had a slice of bread in all
that time. Nor do I miss it. I am significantly overweight, and in
perimenopause, but have had weight issues all my life. Genetic
predisposition, but cannot, will not give up, it doesn't even make
sense, that with the sensible way I eat (food types and in moderation),
that my body won't loose. I've been checked, no medical issues causing
this. I'm considering switching over to Weight Watchers which I have
not tried, hoping that for whatever reason with my particular
metabolism, it might respond better to WW. I do not over eat, not a
compulsive eater or binger. No diet is particularly difficult for me to
stay on. My body just wants to be fat. One day I'll accept this and
move on.

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Laura

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Nov 22, 2003, 8:17:11 PM11/22/03
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Have you ever thought that maybe you are not eating enough food to lose
weight? I know that it sounds strange but it is true. It was not untill I
started WW that I was able to lose weight. Atkins worked for me for a couple
of months but I could not maintain the way of eating for very long. Way too
restrictive. Too many hidden carbs in everyday things. WW on the other hand
forces you to eat the right amount of food for your weight. You gradually
lower the amount of food as you lose weight. It teaches you the right amount
of food to eat to then maintain that weight when you get to goal. It is a
way of life not a diet. That is a key difference between WW and the other
diets out there. They all work in the short term but don't teach you how to
eat properly. WW does. It is also easy to follow which makes it nice too.
Good luck.

John Hrusovszky

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Nov 23, 2003, 5:30:23 PM11/23/03
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I've never tried weight - watchers .. from what I've read, it's one of those
diets that works, but people seem to gain back the weight once they've went
off that program. I'd love to be able to eat "normal" meals instead of
buying pre-packaged meals. My concern is to know what I should be eating in
terms of calories, to lose fat, but not to lose lean muscle mass -- no one
can seem to tell me this. I realize that lean muscle mass helps raise one's
metabolism, thus I don't want to lose any more of this than I need to.
Perhaps, I'm thinking wrong and should just forget about losing muscle and
get my weight where I want it, and THEN go back and start to build muscle?


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John Hrusovszky

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Nov 23, 2003, 5:33:21 PM11/23/03
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One of the responses said I shouldn't plan to go back to "normal eating".
What I meant by "normal" was what a standard, 6'2" 45 year old man should
eat per day ... not what was "normal" for me the past 20 years. I dont'
know the exact figures, but I would imagine a "normal" 6'2" 45 year old, 175
pound man shoudl eat around 2200 calories per day with a light activity
lifestyle.


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John Hrusovszky

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Nov 23, 2003, 5:37:38 PM11/23/03
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Can I ask you to briefly explain what WW actually is? Perhaps what I've
been led to believe it is, is wrong? I've been led to believe that it is an
expensive "meal plan" where you buy their meals and continue buying their
meals (pre-package) for life.

As to your statement of not eating enough food ... how does one arrive at
the proper amount a person should be eating?

Thanks in advance.


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Amber

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Nov 23, 2003, 5:52:39 PM11/23/03
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Well I don't think that you'd be losing muscle unless you went way under
what the WW program recommended. If you are careful to include your
activity points, and eat lots of veggies you shouldn't have a problem.
Also eat enough protien and healthy fat b/c you want to gain muscles
mass to speed weight loss. I think in general your body tends to use up
stored fat before muscle unless you starve yourself. I know since I
started WW just 3 weeks ago I feel a lot leaner even though I've only
lost 6 pounds. That tells me that my body fat is decreasing and/or my
muscle mass is increasing from working out. With any weight loss program
if you go off the program and back to your old eating habits- or even
somewhere between the two, you will gain the weight back there is no way
around that. I don't see how being on WW for a lifetime would be hard. I
love the way that it teaches me how much I should eat, and allows me to
"cheat." It is normal for your body to pleatu w/ weight loss for a
while, you might just want to give it some time.

Amber
214/208/165

JulieB

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Nov 23, 2003, 6:35:22 PM11/23/03
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There are no pre-packaged meals with WW, unless you want to buy their frozen
dinners (available at supermarkets). Essentially, all food is assigned a
points value based on calories, fat and fiber (I'm assuming you're in the
USA - the formula varies from country to country). You are then given a
number of points to eat for the day depending on your current weight and
sex. You can gain bonus points by exercising, which you can either use to
eat extra or hold onto to increas your weightloss.

WW works out to be a simpler way of counting calories, while encouraging a
low fat, high fiber diet. It also encourages exercise, and learning how to
eat normal foods in a normal way (something a lot of people have forgotten
how to do!).

--
Julie.
93.5/73.2/74 (WW)/72 (Personal) kg
205.7/161.0/162.8 (WW)/158 (Personal) lb

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Prairie Roots

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Nov 23, 2003, 7:14:08 PM11/23/03
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Sorry, this ISN'T brief.

The beauty of Weight Watchers is that you can eat according to the old
pyramid, the new pyramid, the South Beach diet, the low carb, high
protein, high carb, low fat, diabetic, vegetarian, mediterranean, or
Ornish, or The Zone, or any other plan you might come across. Weight
Watchers is not about which foods to eat but about serving sizes,
portion control, and finding what works for you. You can choose to
follow a specified meal plan, which I did when I first started while I
learned about points and to get a good sense of serving sizes. Every
once in a while, when I need new ideas or am having trouble adjusting
a reduction in daily points, I'll try a meal plan or two to get myself
back on track again. But it's totally my choice to do that.

Instead of counting calories alone, Weight Watchers assigns every food
a points value, taking into account calories, fat, and fiber. (If you
live in the U.S. Nutritional info requirements vary from country to
country, and thus, so does the WW points calculation.) The number of
points you can eat in a day is determined by your current weight. As
you lose weight, your daily points decrease as well. The daily points
target for someone weighing 295 lbs is 31 points. It's hard to say how
that converts to calories because of the fat and fiber variables, but
roughly 31 points works out to approximately 1700 calories. On days
you exercise, you can eat more points depending on the level of
exercise and time spent.

If you're eating 1200 calories a day, you might have put your body
into something called "starvation" mode, where your metabolism slows
and becomes an even more efficient fuel burner simply because you
aren't eating enough. To give you some perspective, my daily points
target is 22 points, which works out to approximately 1250 calories.
My current weight is 173.6 lbs.

Here are some sample food points values: a 3 oz. lean beef steak (fist
size) = 5 pts., a small apple = 1 pt., a scoop of regular ice cream =
4 pts, 1 cup of almost any vegetable = 0 pts. If you join WW, either
by attending a weekly meeting, or joining Online, you'll receive all
kinds of information about how to calculate and track your daily
points. You might want to snoop around weightwatchers.com, although I
don't know any more how much info is available with signing up first.
Another good site to look at for WW info is Dotti's Weight Loss Zone,
www.dwlz.com. It was on her site that I found the points to calories
conversion.

Yeah, lots of people who've lost weight on WW regain it. That's also
true of every weight loss program out there. But the reason for that
is people tend to gradually return to their old ways of eating. It's
not the fault of WW.

Most of us here on asdww are aware of the possibility of regaining the
weight we've lost after we reach our goal. Many of us have been down
this road before and know that keeping it off FOR LIFE is, in some
ways, a trickier road than getting off.

Good luck
--
Prairie Roots
232/173.6/WW goal 145
joined WW Online 22-Feb-2003

Elaine Kirkham

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Nov 23, 2003, 9:26:04 PM11/23/03
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Definitely continue to excercise. WW's recommends this also. The one thing that
is great about WW's is that it teaches you to each normal meals but with portion
control. One of the others on this group will have to help you about how much
exercise & what kind to do, as I have to force myself to do any at all other
than walking & dancing. I can't help you on the calories either as I simply
follow the WW point system & don't have to worry about calories at all. Wish you
luck.
Elaine K
331.4/215.6/179

Fred

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Nov 23, 2003, 11:58:43 PM11/23/03
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Just to emphasize, in WW, you eat NORMAL foods that you buy at the
fruit stand, the meat market and the shelves of grocery stores. While
WW does have labeled food items that are available, they do not push
that stuff.

They teach you how much to eat and how to control some of the bad
behaviors and how to reinforce positive behaviors.

Stan

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Nov 24, 2003, 1:55:20 AM11/24/03
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On Mon, 24 Nov 2003 10:35:22 +1100, "JulieB"
<julie.bla...@optushome.com.au> wrote:

>WW works out to be a simpler way of counting calories, while encouraging a
>low fat, high fiber diet.

Well, I was simply counting calories before I decided to go for
WeightWatchers, and frankly, I found that to be a lot simpler. Every
food you buy tells you how many calories are in it, right on the
label. To find out how many points are in that food takes more work
than that.

Mind you, I'm happy to go through the extra work to get the results I
want, and I can't argue with success (35 lbs. in just over two
months).

But I've seen others who agree with you, that the Points are a great
way of simplifying nutrition information and calorie intake, and I
just don't see it.

Stan
309/273.5/199

Kate Dicey

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Nov 24, 2003, 7:57:37 AM11/24/03
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John Hrusovszky wrote:
>
> I've never tried weight - watchers .. from what I've read, it's one of those
> diets that works, but people seem to gain back the weight once they've went
> off that program. I'd love to be able to eat "normal" meals instead of
> buying pre-packaged meals. My concern is to know what I should be eating in
> terms of calories, to lose fat, but not to lose lean muscle mass -- no one
> can seem to tell me this. I realize that lean muscle mass helps raise one's
> metabolism, thus I don't want to lose any more of this than I need to.
> Perhaps, I'm thinking wrong and should just forget about losing muscle and
> get my weight where I want it, and THEN go back and start to build muscle?

You can eat what you like on WW! It's all about portion control and
eating sensibly. If you stop doing this, on ANY 'diet' you will gain
back the weight you lost. HOWEVER, if you keep control of portion
sizes, eat sensibly (and not too much!) you will maintain your new lower
weight.

I am losing weight nicely (if slowly!), and eating normal meals. I use
lower fat versions of things, make sure I don't eat too much, and cook
the same thing for all of us here: it's working. I also use quite a few
of the WW cookbooks, which allow me to be lazy about working out portion
sizes and points values - that'd done for you! It's lower calorie
versions of things, and all the recipes I used so far have been
excellent. I made an excellent chicken curry for dinner last night, for
example, and there's home made pizza on the menu for tomorrow and
sausages and chips later in the week! Real food all the way! Lo-fat
oven chips and lo-fat sausages for me! In fact, both my son and my DH
like the low fat sausages nearly as much as some of the 'normal'
ones... Like Cumberland, Toulouse and pork and apple sausages!

The thing you have to remember with all of this is that it takes self
discipline: without that, you learn nothing, and if you go back to the
way you ate before (which made you fat in the first place), you WILL get
fat again.

The way to keep lean muscle going while losing weight it to exercise: it
doesn't have to be high impact stuff - a good brisk 2 mile walk every
day will do fine. Start slowly and build up... The other thing to
remember is that as you get smaller, you will need less food to maintain
the weight you are at... WW decreases the amount you are 'allowed' in
slow stages, allowing you to adjust as you shrink. Your appetite will
decrease over the time as well, so you won't want as much food as you
used to eat. As you get slimmer, you can increase the exercise
programme.
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Miss Violette

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Nov 25, 2003, 10:39:51 AM11/25/03
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I eat very few prepackaged meals, you need to decide what is important to
you, what you are willing to change for life and just do it, good luck, Lee

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Miss Violette

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Nov 25, 2003, 10:44:52 AM11/25/03
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if you do WW as prescribed you will learn what is right for you, there is no
real normal for everyone to follow. If you read this group you will find
that some of us cannot eat very many carbos or we gain, some must learn to
eat more protein and some of us must learn to cut out much of the sugar we
love. It is truly different for each person, good luck Lee

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Miss Violette

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Nov 25, 2003, 10:49:59 AM11/25/03
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where it seems to be easier is in the addition, 3 points instead of 463 or
165 that sort of thing, Lee, mathematically challenged
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