On Thu, 24 May 2012 02:25:42 -0700
"Julie Bove" <
juli...@frontier.com> wrote:
> I am also having a bit of a problem with what she is eating. I don't
> think she is eating enough and she failed to have any protein at all
> today until dinner time, except for whatever protein is in a serving
> of milk. Granted she wasn't feeling well and didn't feel like eating
> much. She had a steak for dinner and I told her she had to eat more
> protein before bed.
Angela is of an age where she needs to make her own decisions even
if they are wrong. One steak is enough protein for most people
for one day, especially if they are losing weight. If you try to
micromanage her life, things will turn ugly. She will not respect
your advice unless you can show that you are in good health yourself.
Personally I think both of you have a problem with milk, but from
this distance I can't say for sure.
> Anyway... If you lost enough weight to go down more than one size in
> clothing... Or if you are currently losing weight and plan to go
> down more than a size... What do you do? Do you replace the whole
> wardrobe? I figure it is okay to wear shirts that are somewhat too
> big. She has to wear form fitting things for dance so I have had to
> replace those things. And she needs to have some of her costumes
> altered because she has lost so much since they were ordered or
> made. But the studio has an excellent seamstress who can take care
> of that.
>
> Do you buy used clothing until you get to the size you want?
>
> Do you have your clothing altered? I could see doing that with
> like...business attire. But Angela lives in sweatpants and yoga
> pants and I am not sure it would be worth it to have those altered.
> I wouldn't be able to do it myself and would have to pay someone to
> do it so that doesn't seem feasible.
>
> I do know that it is not a good idea to sleep in something that is
> too big. I ripped a few nightgowns down the back by doing that. I
> turned over but the gown was so big it didn't turn with me.
All of the above are strategies for coping with a shrinking body.
I used some of my older clothes for sleeping, because I like a
looser fit at night. The stuff that was warm went to charity,
and some things became rags or were thrown out.
Why not put Angela on a budget and let her decide? Maybe she can
do a little sewing on her own? I bought a sewing machine at a
neighbor's yard sale for $20. I haven't used it yet, but I will
need to learn it soon.