"Budd Cochran" <
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> Don't waste your time, Julie, the net nannies are blooming this spring ...
> again.
Yeah. I already FKed a bunch of them.
>
> I moved a lot as a child from Colorado to Indiana and back with a side
> trip to California.
>
> I agree with you that each state has their own requirements and, when it
> comes to credits for courses taken, some school systems can't do simple
> math:
>
> Colorado gave half as many credits for the same course as Indiana and
> Indiana couldn't figure out that I had passed the courses in Colorado ...
> I had to take some over again my Sophmore year.
The reason I had so many was that I hated the two free periods that most
students took. I am one of those people who reads fast, takes tests fast,
etc. And I almost always got good grades. So I had no need for the free
periods. We rarely had any homework in high school and if it was assigned,
I could almost always get it done in class. I worked in the office, I
worked Switchboard. I was on the school newspaper and I was a teacher's
assistant. I had to get special permission to do this and had I had my way
I would have done something for *both* of those periods but they would only
allow me to do this for one of them. So that's how I got all of those extra
credits.
>
> Those two states also had different required courses to graduate and
> Colorado didn't offer Art classes in high school at all, for example, in
> the more rural towns ... I guess they didn't think farm kids could figure
> out which end of a pencil did what.
Yes. Here, they now require Washington State history which someone who came
from another state would not have. So they have to take a summer course.
Here, art is required. And not just art but a specific kind. There are
other art classes that are electives. But in NY? At least while we lived
there, they considered art unnecessary and did not offer it.
A certain number of P.E. credits are required here. Some school districts
would count Angela's dance, provided that her dance teachers signed a form
telling the school how many hours she is taking. One of the girls she is
dancing with even gets some of her dance paid for by the school! This is
the same school that Angela would like to do but I won't allow it. They
advertise as an online school but they are not really. They are a home
school. And I don't think that's a good idea for her. Anyway... Our
school disctrict does not allow students to count other activities as P.E.
except for as makeups for classes missed due to illness and injury.
>
> My Mom ran a boarding house in Indiana during the Depression, my Dad was
> unemployed but did odd jobs, and my Step-Dad was a dryland homesteader in
> S.E. Colorado then a hobo after his third wife died.
>
> All of them said that those that weren't willing to work had it hardest
> because they wanted everything for free but there wasn't the current
> governmental support system we have today.
>
> But it made some of the lazy ones get up and work, some became bums ( not
> to be confused with "hoboes" who were more like a transient laborer), and
> some starved.
>
> I can't say if Diabetes is the result of the Depression, but I do believe
> it caused flu, diptheria, and polio epidemics.
That very well could be. I did read some other book (can't remember which
one now) and it claimed that lack of proper nutrition in vitro could cause
diabetes. My mom did not have proper nutrition because in those days they
put the women on strict diets and even prescribed amphetamines to keep them
from gaining weight. But while I was put on the Exchange Plan for diabetics
because I had gestational diabetes, I was strictly monitored and I did my
best to eat what they told me to eat. It was a little difficult because it
was much more food than I was accustomed to eating. 5 pieces of fruit per
day? Gah! I couldn't always eat that much food but it was a very balanced
diet.
My friend was married to two different men. She had three kids with the
first husband. He owned a photography studio but didn't do well with it and
didn't budget money very well. As a result, they had very little food in
the house. They didn't starve but she said she had to be very careful with
the food so that everyone had something to eat. And it was only healthy
food that she brought into the house. Then when she went into Pre-Eclampsia
a few days before her due date, she said the Dr. told her, "Well! It's all
those potato chips you've been eating!" She said she really wanted to say
nasty words to him. But in her mind she was thinking... If only I had the
money to buy potato chips! She said often they'd each get a few bites of
meat and a few bites of vegetables. Because there was no other food in the
house.
Oddly enough I went into Pre-Eclampsia two days before my due date. Some
studies link it to malnutition. But I don't think so. Had another friend
who had it early on in her pregnancy and I know that she ate well.
But where I am going with all this is... None of my first friend's kids
have diabetes. Granted they are a little younger than me but not by much.
Her 4th son by another father grew up eating well, except that he was a very
picky eater back then. Less so these days.
So I don't know if there is a link there either.
>
> Today it's the same except we have the government programs taking the
> place of poor farms and church based charities.
>
> During the last "recession", I found work when some couldn't because I was
> willing to push a broom to care for my family.
That's the problem these days. Especially with young people. They place
far too many parameters on what they will and will not do for work.
>
> Many people didn't want to lower their standards (think "income") in order
> to stay off welfare ... they went on welfare instead!
And in some cases, they do better on welfare. I don't personally know
anyone who is on it now but... In the case of the second friend that I had
mentioned, she broke up with her boyfriend and moved her baby into a house
with a friend who also had a baby. She worked. Her friend did not. She
was on welfare. She did stay home with the two babies and did not charge
Mary for sitting for her. She told me that she was getting paid $800 a
month on welfare. I think that was the figure she gave me. She said if she
went to work she wouldn't even be able to live off of what she made because
she would have to pay $600 a month for daycare or a babysitter. She didn't
have anyone who could watch her child for free!
Of course there is also the notion that one shouldn't have kids if one can't
afford them. But... You just never know what will happen in your life! I
had planned to go back to work when Angela was 2. But then I became
disabled around her first birthday and things all went downhill from there.
Since then I have never been well enough to be able to do any sort of job on
a consistent basis. I don't think there would be too many employers that
would allow me to go put my feet up above my heart to take the strain off of
the veins for most of the day. Or to let me get up and walk around or
stretch when my muscles cramp. Or let me take some hours off when I get
sick to my stomach. Or any of the other problems that I sometimes have.
The thing is, for a lot of what I have, I never know when it is going to act
up. I could have a day or two where I seem pretty fine...well...unless I
have to walk very far. Because I can never do that. But to be well enough
5 days a week? Or even 20 hours out of the week as assigned by an employer?
Not going happen.