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Larry (Laura) Denis Blake - Internet Terrorist
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From: "Susan Robins" <sue-ann...@home.com>
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Date: Tue, 30 Oct 2001 17:11:48 GMT
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>But wait... how come you didn't spot the idiots
who've been attacking me for
> the last 5 years?
I have spotted them, it takes 2 hon and in my
opnion your reaction to all of this is way out
of context. You would be the better person if
you just turned the other cheek. I know what it
is like in real life to be harassed and abused
for more then just my Transsexuality, I was
borne blind and made my through life with 20/200
vision. being denied services, jobs and treated
like a sec nod class citizen. so your poor me
stuff doesn't wash with me.
Pick yourself up, stop feeling sorry for
yourself and get on with life for your own sake
if no one else's.
> >if you can't take the abuse leave.
>
> Well lets put this to the test... If I abuse
you would you leave?
>
> I mean... surely you don't want me to adhere
to any rule you, yourself,
> would not obey?
You miss the point Lora, if you feel you have to
react to the what you call abuse then do us all
a favor and leave.
If you really can take it, then stay and show
people you really are capable of making a serous
contribution to the community.
This should clarify that statement.
as for my leaving because of the possibility of
abuse from one or two people, not a chance. I
consider the source, people who contribute to
the community deserve respect. You have made
some insightful contributions to this community.
why not make all your posts of that type?
> In case you didn't notice I've apologized for
the mistake already... but
> then you wouldn't notice something like that,
since it takes away your
> opportunity to attack me, now doesn't it?
>
Yah I did notice that I saw your apology last
night.
as far as I am concerned this issue is at rest.
> >I have followed this obsession of yours since
> >sometime after the beginning of 1995 when I
> >first got online.
>
> Obseesion of *Mine*?
>
> You really don't understand what's going on,
do you?
>
> Honey, I *guarantee* you that if Diane lays
off that problem ends with her
> last message. Really, I have no interest in
her other than getting her off
> my back. She can write to people here, she
can share ideas and views all
> she likes... all she has to do is leave me
alone. That's it... just leave
> me alone.
One of the things I found out, and I admit it
wasn't early in life is if you stop reacting the
problem will in time just fade away.
I do understand what is going on here. Part of
it is a peace of my own history. The one eyed
Crossdresser with a chip on his shoulder. Look
Lora as long as that chip is there someone is
going to see it as a target. in my case it cost
me the best job I ever had, it may cost you
posting privileges. Over what? what someone
thinks of you? Get a Grip dear, life is way too
short for all of this.
> >Lora I would think that someone who has put
> >together a site like yours would want to
> >represent yourself in a fashion that lives up
to
> >the author of that site. (just my onion mind
> >you)
>
> Oh I do, believe me...
Woops typo here :) o well you got the point I
have been involved in other communities in a
leadership position. I let my feelings about a
couple of people distort most all of the
credibility I had with that community. so what
did I do? well I sure didn't continue to attack
those people. I not only apologized I came out
to those people, the end result is I am still a
part of that community. Yes there are people in
the community that snipe at me from time to
time. what difference does it make what people
think if you know in your won hart and mind what
they are saying isn't true. You go on about
your life and do what it is you do.
> Which do you think portrays a better
impression of human rights leadership;
> someone who runs away and hides at the first
sign of trouble or someone who
> stands their ground and refuses to be bullied?
>
> I'm sorry I'm so inconvenient for you... but
life's like that sometimes.
this is the easiest question you have posted so
far.
you stand up for your rights, without question.
You don't have to fight back by attacking
someone or launching bots. (reference to past
events before yesterday)
I stand up for my rights every minute of every
day.
The clerk at the DMV here in SanDiego didn't
want to help me fill my name change paperwork.
I didn't yell at her, and make threats I
politely reminded her that the American's with
Disabilities Act required her to provide someone
to help me to fill out the form. I told her she
should talk to her supervisor about it. She did
and came back with a smile on her face and
filled out the paperwork for me.
That dear is how you stand up for your Civil
Rights. Not by making threats, name calling or
launching pesky bots.
compared to what I put up with as a blind person
before the ADA and before public law 94-142, you
have it real easy hon. Just take another
approach.
Take Care;
--
Susan Robins
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