I meant to post this to the list but accidentally just sent it to Alex.
One of the peculiarities of the Thunderbird email and news client is
that there are separate buttons for Reply and Followup. It's easy to
click the Reply instead of the intended Followup.
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I think the decision to choose active surveillance is very hard for some
people and very easy for others.
I have a cousin who is a medical oncologist. He sees cancer patients
all day long. When I called him about my PCa diagnosis he said that, if
it were him, he'd want surgery right away. He said that he knows
intellectually that radiation works about as well as surgery but he
wouldn't want to have any cancer in him, even if it was quiet or dying.
He'd want it cut out. He didn't even suggest active surveillance.
In his case, I wonder if his knowing a lot about cancer actually scared
him more than the average guy who doesn't know much.
Then I've met other guys who who don't even get follow-on PSA tests,
much less treatment, after their diagnosis. Some of them think, "It
ain't gonna happen to me." Some think "Odds are I'm going to be fine."
Some think, "The treatment is worse than the disease." And more than
a few think - "Ah ... I don't want to think about it."
And of course many men just do whatever the doctor tells them to do -
get treatment, get active surveillance - the doc knows best - I'll just
follow his advice.
It takes an independent and strong minded person to figure out for
himself what is best and then put aside all fears and emotions to do
what reason tells him is right.
Alan