news:28016112.710.1335481593921.JavaMail.geo-discussion-forums@vbx14:
> So are you saying that because of your own personal beliefs and your
> own personal success, others should be denied support if it will help
> them achieve their own success?
No, not at all. What I am saying is that the Price of such 'support' must
not be more expensive than we can afford...and 'trading', i.e. Throwing
Away our Dignity for it is far too high a price. Furthermore, if it's to
be Genuine help, it will ultimately have to come from some sector other
than the NT one as the NT idea of 'support' is Always to 'cure', or
otherwise Change us to Their NT Standard way of thinking and existing.
> Surely you recognize that autism is a
> heterogeneous thing, and what may apply to one, may not apply to all,
> especially due to the vast differences in how autism affects one's
> life? Seems rather short-sighted and potentially self-centered to me.
> I do not judge the life of another based on my own abilities and
> experiences. Each person is an individual.
Yes, of course I recognize that - Difference is what it's all about, and
it's something I Celebrate. However, if someone wants to have me labeled
as 'disordered' because they are having problems, then I would actually
proceed to tell them, in full view of the Difference factor, that Their
condition may be a 'disorder', but mine is Not, and that I prefer Not to
be Pigeonholed with the 'disorder' 'disability' 'disease' crowd.
> Clearly you feel very strongly about your opinion, and I respect that,
> but it would seem that it doesn't hold true in all cases. I would also
> argue that receiving support or assistance does not mean one cannot
> have dignity.
While that's certainly possible, it's not very probable, particularly
when considering that 'the government' is to be involved.
> To claim that would be to claim that anyone blind, deaf,
> or otherwise disabled does not have dignity, would it not?
Not quite. The blind cannot see, the deaf cannot hear, the lame cannot
walk or perform other Physical activity, but the autistic, IF autism
continues to be viewed as a Mental Disorder, will be considered not to be
able to think/behave 'right' - where 'right' is the Established
NeuroTypical Standard of Conformity and Compliance...Big difference.
> I am in the
> business are caring for the disabled and those who cannot care for
> themselves. I would not say they are without dignity.
I used to work with the disabled and I noticed 2 basic types, one type,
the Victim crowd, wanted everything done for them and constantly relied
on their disability as a 'security blanket' to 'justify' constant
laziness while shamelessly imposing on everyone else around them. The
other type, by sharp contrast and a refreshing departure from the
pathetic first type, was what I referred to as the 'Dignity crowd'. They
Refused to view themselves as sickling victims and saw their disabilities
as challenges to be risen to and ultimately overcome or at very least
brought under their own control.
> IMHO, I think it is fair for you to speak for yourself, but perhaps
> less so when you superimpose your personal experience on others. Most
> of whom you have never met.
I am speaking for myself. I do Not want to be Labeled as 'Mentally
Disorderd' because others less inclined to rising to life's challenges,
which can include autism, would rather take their perceived 'easy' way
out.
Perhaps I should explain how I came to be deposited/marooned in this
Alien world and how by all known science and reason, I should, as of next
month, have been dead for the last 56 years. It might help to encourage
those who need it...it has given me the attitude with regards to
challenges that if I can do it, Anyone can.