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Eva

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Dec 25, 2009, 9:21:52 AM12/25/09
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My daughter was visiting me. It was supposed to be for a week but we had a
big snowstorm and her flight was cancelled and she ended up staying an extra
*5 days!* She went back home to the big extended family she lives with
yesterday. I love my daughter very much but I am so happy to have my life
back. My space. My apartment. My little routine. Merry Christmas to all
of you.

I'm Jewish and don't celebrate Jesus' birthday, but I think it's ridiculous
to say "Happy Holidays" when you really mean "I wish you all a very happy
and peaceful day on December 25!"

Merry Christmas!

Eva


astri

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Dec 25, 2009, 1:37:34 PM12/25/09
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happy solstice :)

i'm culturally but not really religously jewish
husband is buddhist
family compromise is to recognize the season as solstice
and celebrate the giving of presents at the most convenient time
but son wanted to light the menorah this year, so we did that too

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Eva

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Dec 25, 2009, 2:14:33 PM12/25/09
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"astri" <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote in message
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>
> i'm culturally but not really religously jewish
> husband is buddhist
> family compromise is to recognize the season as solstice
> and celebrate the giving of presents at the most convenient time
> but son wanted to light the menorah this year, so we did that too
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Like the old folks used to say--It wouldn't hurt!

I'm happy about the solstice, though, because now it gets dark at 4:30
instead of 4:15 p.m., so we're on our way back to lighter days.

Eva


astri

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Dec 25, 2009, 3:25:19 PM12/25/09
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On Fri, 25 Dec 2009, Eva wrote:

yup

Stephen Wilson

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Dec 25, 2009, 7:09:38 PM12/25/09
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"Eva" <EvaDStr...@NOverizon.net> wrote in message
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I'm interested in religion. But I couldn't claim to be religious.

25th December. Middle of winter. There's always been a festival (in Britain
at least) on, or around, that date. Call it what you like - Solstice,
Yuletide, Christmas... it's a national holiday whatever your religion. I get
time off work, and I spend some of it with family, some of it with friends,
and some of it on my own.

I celebrate Christmas because everyone else does. It's unavoidable. And I
can appreciate the Nativity myth, even if I can't believe in it.


earthpots

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Dec 25, 2009, 10:00:33 PM12/25/09
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I'm stuck at home with Calleigh the Calico Kitty. Because of icy conditions,
it was too dangerous to go up the mountain to where my Mom and brother are,
for dinner. Planning on a Sunday visit instead. Know my Christmas Prezzie
from Mom anyways. Getting a FlipCam Ultra from Flip Video Camcorders. It's a
compact pocket camcorder that just flips open for use.

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Canth

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Dec 26, 2009, 7:06:21 AM12/26/09
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Merry Christmas. This has been a weird Christmas as we are in the
throes of moving house to another State, with the added complication
that the destination is far from built, so most stuff will go into
storage for an extended period. So there are boxes everywhere, and
much stuff already packed.

Best wishes for the New Year to all. I intend to spend New Years Eve
driving a car & caravan to our new city. New Years Day will no doubt
be spent recovering.

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buzzard

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Dec 27, 2009, 12:32:16 AM12/27/09
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Did you light one of those candle things for Hannukah?

I had intended to celebrate the solstice in some way, but
was busy (running around like a chicken with its head cut off)
shopping and preparing for Xmas since much of the extended
family is christian. All i managed was to go for a walk in
the snow, glance up at the crescent moon, and remember that
that was the longest night, the most tilted away from the sun
that this hemisphere gets. More like "observe" than "celebrate".

But I suppose an observance counts for ..something..,
at least psychologically.

--
Buzzard

Eva

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Dec 27, 2009, 1:34:00 AM12/27/09
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"buzzard" <us...@domain.invalid.net> wrote in message
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>
> Did you light one of those candle things for Hannukah?

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I don't light candles because I am afraid the cat will knock them over and
burn the house down. I do light an electric window display after saying the
blessing. I don't want to give you the impression that I am religious. Far
from it. I don't believe in God. However, in the Jewish religion, we are
taught that God doesn't care whether you believe in him or not. He only
cares about what you *do*. I like this.
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> I had intended to celebrate the solstice in some way, but
> was busy (running around like a chicken with its head cut off)
> shopping and preparing for Xmas since much of the extended
> family is christian. All i managed was to go for a walk in
> the snow, glance up at the crescent moon, and remember that
> that was the longest night, the most tilted away from the sun
> that this hemisphere gets. More like "observe" than "celebrate".
>
> But I suppose an observance counts for ..something..,
> at least psychologically.

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In Judaism we tend to talk about "observing" the holidays rather than
"celebrating" them. Celebrating is like for a wedding, a bar/bar mitzvah,
birth of a baby, etc.

But for me personally I'd be happier without any holidays, religious or
secular. It's hard enough to manage my life without the extra burden of
holiday rituals, most of which are IMO stupid and I don't even understand
why people actually enjoy them.

As I said before I am happy we have passed the solstice, so that it won't
get dark so early any more. But it doesn't make me want to get dressed up
in fancy clothes and go out and get shitfaced. That's why I'm weird (:^)

Eva


astri

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Dec 27, 2009, 1:37:12 AM12/27/09
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On Sun, 27 Dec 2009, Eva wrote:

> As I said before I am happy we have passed the solstice, so that it
> won't get dark so early any more. But it doesn't make me want to get
> dressed up in fancy clothes and go out and get shitfaced. That's why
> I'm weird (:^)

there's nothing that makes me want to get dressed up in fancy clothes


and go out and get shitfaced.

-- astri

Eva

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Dec 27, 2009, 8:17:04 AM12/27/09
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"astri" <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote in message
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> On Sun, 27 Dec 2009, Eva wrote:
>
>> As I said before I am happy we have passed the solstice, so that it
>> won't get dark so early any more. But it doesn't make me want to get
>> dressed up in fancy clothes and go out and get shitfaced. That's why
>> I'm weird (:^)
>
> there's nothing that makes me want to get dressed up in fancy clothes
> and go out and get shitfaced.
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And that's why I'm so glad I can talk to people like you who feel the way I
do while everyone else can't wait to get dressed up and...!

Eva


Dolphinius

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Dec 28, 2009, 10:43:40 AM12/28/09
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On 25 Dec, 14:21, "Eva" <EvaDStructio...@NOverizon.net> wrote:

> I'm Jewish and don't celebrate Jesus' birthday, but I think it's ridiculous
> to say "Happy Holidays" when you really mean "I wish you all a very happy
> and peaceful day on December 25!"

I think it's ridiculous to say "Happy Holidays" when I really mean

"Bah, Humbug!"

Dolphinius
(Male, mid-thirties, UK, self-diagnosed Scrooge)

HGJ

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Dec 29, 2009, 2:41:00 AM12/29/09
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On 25 Dec, 20:14, "Eva" <EvaDStructio...@NOverizon.net> wrote:
> "astri" <as...@invalid.invalid> wrote in message
>
> news:Pine.BSI.4.64.09...@malasada.lava.net...
>
> > i'm culturally but not really religously jewish
> > husband is buddhist
> > family compromise is to recognize the season as solstice
> > and celebrate the giving of presents at the most convenient time
> > but son wanted to light the menorah this year, so we did that too
>
> ------------
> Like the old folks used to say--It wouldn't hurt!
>
> I'm happy about the solstice, though, because now it getsdarkat 4:30

> instead of 4:15 p.m.,

A bit later than around here then:

http://www.webbkameror.se/webbkameror/hotorget/historik/index.php

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