Advice -- What should I have said!!!???
MTGawd
phone with a broad I had a kiss close with after a coffee date.
Anyway, she told me how she hadn't showered and just got back into town.
I suggested that she take a hot bath. I told her to imagine soaking in a hot
tub with lit candles as she completely unwinds. I told her to anticipate that
hot soothing feeling of sliding into the tub.
She was like, "ooooooooooo...That sounds so good!!!"
I told her, "Make sure you tell me how your hot soothing bath was -- I want you
to report to me on a scale from 1 - 10."
She said, "It won't be a 10, I'm out of bubbles!"
I said, "Well, let's keep it positive -- It will still be a perfect 10 bath
because we will rate it on the scale of 'Bath with no bubbles'"
She laughed her ass off!!!!
Then she said,"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and being alone."
I just fucking froze. I mean FROZE the fuck up.
I gasped and said, "I'm not going to touch that..." and laughed
Now, I know I didn't play it BAD --- I just wanted to play it conservative.
I do know in the future that she would love to take a hot bath with me...
What should I have done? Now, I will be honest, even if I knew I had the
killer line or whatever to take a bath with her tonight, I wouldn't want to --
Planned on doing some sarging anyway, which, is more of a desire (most of the
time) than getting some easy sex. So my goal was NOT to get her in the tub and
fuck. I'm not a rusher...And we have only seen eacher once.
Another positive note -- When she was telling me she couldn't give 100% details
of the bachelorette party -- I joked, "Well since we have a rare, special bond,
we can ignore the rules and you can reveal what really happend..."
She bit: "Yeah, we do have a rare and special bond, for sure, but I still can't
tell you -- tehehehe."
I just love dropping little gems like that 8) The nice thing is I just read
about that on the fastseduction web site about an hour earlier --
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/05_How_to_Handle_Girls/special.shtml
mathias
"MTGawd" <po...@poot.net> wrote in message
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Scruff
On Dec 10, 11:00 pm, MTGawd <p...@poot.net> wrote:
> Goddamn...Where in the past, I wouldn't have a clue, today just got of the
> phone with a broad I had a kiss close with after a coffee date.
>
> Anyway, she told me how she hadn't showered and just got back into town.
>
> I suggested that she take a hot bath. I told her to imagine soaking in a hot
> tub with lit candles as she completely unwinds. I told her to anticipate that
> hot soothing feeling of sliding into the tub.
>
> She was like, "ooooooooooo...That sounds so good!!!"
>
> I told her, "Make sure you tell me how your hot soothing bath was -- I want you
> to report to me on a scale from 1 - 10."
>
> She said, "It won't be a 10, I'm out of bubbles!"
>
> I said, "Well, let's keep it positive -- It will still be a perfect 10 bath
> because we will rate it on the scale of 'Bath with no bubbles'"
>
> She laughed her ass off!!!!
>
> Then she said,"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and being alone."
>
> I just fucking froze. I mean FROZE the fuck up.
>
> I gasped and said, "I'm not going to touch that..." and laughed
>
> Now, I know I didn't play it BAD --- I just wanted to play it conservative.
>
> I do know in the future that she would love to take a hot bath with me...
>
> What should I have done? Now, I will be honest, even if I knew I had the
> killer line or whatever to take a bath with her tonight, I wouldn't want to --
> Planned on doing some sarging anyway, which, is more of a desire (most of the
> time) than getting some easy sex. So my goal was NOT to get her in the tub and
> fuck. I'm not a rusher...And we have only seen eacher once.
>
hey hey, you are definitely in there, but i would have gone for the
easy sex...! but thats just me ;)
as for a line, i'm fond of:
"hmm, you'll have to work a little harder than that to get me, i'm not
that easy darling."
sometimes i'll add: "but thanks for the image."
a little cocky, but not much, let her decide for herself whether you
are just being cheeky or if you actually are hard to get. she'll choose
the one she prefers.
easy and simple, you can use that for so much, and it instantly puts
her into the frame that she's got to get you. you are the prize and
she's got to get you.
Scruff.
MTGawd
Gotcha. I know enough now where I should have said something along those
lines. I was just shocked when she said that. Whoa.
Now here is another question...This was a phone convo...What moves would you
have made to get over her place and bathe her and bang her? If she said it in
person, I can see making that transistion. But over phone...It seems like she
tossed that line out, and if I woulda swiped, she would have the perfect
opportunity to get some control and you could lose points...
MeHigher
: "Whatever makes u happy!"
MeHigher
Alex
12/11/06 12:30 PM:
> Now here is another question...This was a phone convo...What moves would you
> have made to get over her place and bathe her and bang her? If she said it in
> person, I can see making that transistion. But over phone...It seems like she
> tossed that line out, and if I woulda swiped, she would have the perfect
> opportunity to get some control and you could lose points...
Or you would have the perfect opportunity to go to her place and bathe with
her.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
speeding
What... you don't have a rubber duckie? ;)
--
She wants to meet a man and God dammit! I am a man! == Scruff
Capital
Good one!!!
Capital
Now Im Confused
> Goddamn...Where in the past, I wouldn't have a clue, today just got
> of the phone with a broad I had a kiss close with after a coffee
> date.
>
> Anyway, she told me how she hadn't showered and just got back into
> town.
>
> I suggested that she take a hot bath. I told her to imagine soaking
> in a hot tub with lit candles as she completely unwinds. I told her
> to anticipate that hot soothing feeling of sliding into the tub.
>
> She was like, "ooooooooooo...That sounds so good!!!"
>
> I told her, "Make sure you tell me how your hot soothing bath was --
> I want you to report to me on a scale from 1 - 10."
>
> She said, "It won't be a 10, I'm out of bubbles!"
>
> I said, "Well, let's keep it positive -- It will still be a perfect
> 10 bath because we will rate it on the scale of 'Bath with no
> bubbles'"
>
> She laughed her ass off!!!!
>
> Then she said,"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and
> being alone."
>
> I just fucking froze. I mean FROZE the fuck up.
>
> I gasped and said, "I'm not going to touch that..." and laughed
>
ANNNNT WRONG ANSWERE!
You just said, "i am afraid of your sexuality"
> Now, I know I didn't play it BAD --- I just wanted to play it conservative.
>
Yes, you played it bad
> I do know in the future that she would love to take a hot bath with
> me...
>
Or maybe not, because you were afraid of her sexulaity.
> What should I have done? Now, I will be honest, even if I knew I
> had the killer line or whatever to take a bath with her tonight, I
> wouldn't want to -- Planned on doing some sarging anyway, which, is
> more of a desire (most of the time) than getting some easy sex. So
> my goal was NOT to get her in the tub and fuck. I'm not a
> rusher...And we have only seen eacher once.
>
"Imagine that perfect person there with you, listen to that voice,
see the outline of that part of body that you find most intriguing,
maybe its the jaw, or the curve of the eyebrows, or maybe its
something else, ummm, let the flickering tongue of the candle play
tricks on the mind as if that person was there with your right now
cast into the shadows of the wall."
--
The guy who fails at the game is the one who
goes out looking for women to make him
feel good about himself.
The guy who succeeds at the game is the one
who goes out and makes other people feel good
about themselves. - Style
Now Im Confused
> On Dec 10, 11:00 pm, MTGawd <p...@poot.net> wrote:
> > Goddamn...Where in the past, I wouldn't have a clue, today just got of the
> >
> > Then she said,"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and
> > being alone."
> >
> > I just fucking froze. I mean FROZE the fuck up.
> >
> > I gasped and said, "I'm not going to touch that..." and laughed
> >
> > Now, I know I didn't play it BAD --- I just wanted to play it
> > conservative.
>
> hey hey, you are definitely in there, but i would have gone for the
> easy sex...! but thats just me ;)
>
Why break the tention? Keep it going, quit being afraid of sex. Who
wants to go to bed with someone who pushes when they should have
pulled.
>
> "hmm, you'll have to work a little harder than that to get me, i'm
> not that easy darling."
>
Lame and Late.
> sometimes i'll add: "but thanks for the image."
>
Lamer.
Now Im Confused
> always a perfect line when confused what to say..always say
> : "Whatever makes u happy!"
>
Have you ever heard of timing? This was the wrong time to break the
tension, wrong, wrong, wrong.
Now Im Confused
> On Tue, 12 Dec 2006 06:40:32 GMT, speeding <no...@biz.org> wrote:
>
> >MTGawd <po...@poot.net> wrote in news:part1of1.1.g...@ue.ph:
> >
> >"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and being alone."
> >
> >What... you don't have a rubber duckie? ;)
>
> Good one!!!
>
> Capital
>
>
Stop! That is wrong line for this time, build tension, kids build!
Don't be afraid to be a MAN, this was the time to be fully sexual. Not
playful!
A grim thread for ASF.
speeding
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> Capital <cap...@webshadows.com> writes:
>
>> On Tue, 12 Dec 2006 06:40:32 GMT, speeding <no...@biz.org> wrote:
>>
>> >MTGawd <po...@poot.net> wrote in news:part1of1.1.g...@ue.ph:
>> >
>> >"No, I will rate it on a bath with no bubbles and being alone."
>> >
>> >What... you don't have a rubber duckie? ;)
>>
>> Good one!!!
>>
>> Capital
>>
>>
>
> Stop! That is wrong line for this time, build tension, kids build!
> Don't be afraid to be a MAN, this was the time to be fully sexual. Not
> playful!
>
> A grim thread for ASF.
The one problem I see with being fully sexual at this point is that she's
being a tease. She's alone AND she knows she's remaining alone. So, she's
tossing out a teaser, looking for a response. Going sex talk at this
point, I'd think, would be a bad idea. She's looking for sex TALK... not
sex PLAY. If he could be present or go over... then go for it. Otherwise,
she's just being a tease. Tease her back, is my thought.
Now Im Confused
> Now Im Confused <no...@none.none> wrote in
> news:87slfjo...@localhost.localdomain:
> >
> > A grim thread for ASF.
>
>
> The one problem I see with being fully sexual at this point is that
> she's being a tease. She's alone AND she knows she's remaining
> alone. So, she's tossing out a teaser, looking for a response. Going
> sex talk at this point, I'd think, would be a bad idea. She's
> looking for sex TALK... not sex PLAY. If he could be present or go
> over... then go for it. Otherwise, she's just being a tease. Tease
> her back, is my thought.
>
>
So anchoring the idea to of sex to you is a bad thing, how?
speeding
> speeding <no...@biz.org> writes:
>
>> Now Im Confused <no...@none.none> wrote in
>> news:87slfjo...@localhost.localdomain:
>> >
>> > A grim thread for ASF.
>>
>>
>> The one problem I see with being fully sexual at this point is that
>> she's being a tease. She's alone AND she knows she's remaining
>> alone. So, she's tossing out a teaser, looking for a response. Going
>> sex talk at this point, I'd think, would be a bad idea. She's
>> looking for sex TALK... not sex PLAY. If he could be present or go
>> over... then go for it. Otherwise, she's just being a tease. Tease
>> her back, is my thought.
>>
>>
>
> So anchoring the idea to of sex to you is a bad thing, how?
It's not. But, do you think she's making the comments because she's horny
or because she's teasing?
If you really think it's because she's horny, then go making some equally
sexually charged reply. But, again... she KNOWS you aren't coming over.
And then she makes a comment about being alone.
And.. just how would you anchor her horniness to you over IM? you
obviously can't use touch... or even tonal inflection.
If she's teasing... then you just gave her what she wanted. But, if you
make a C&F kind of statement, it leaves the door open. Even if she's not
teasing, the joke still leaves the door wide open for more foreplay.
Where making some overt sexual reply, either way, closes your options.