just friends
@lmostl33t
have a very good relationship. But we've grown closer last weeks, had much
fun, and excanged some signals and i know that we like eachother but that
she doesnt know how to act. I would really want to have a
lovers-relationship with her, but when we started talking about it she said
it would be better for us to just stay friends, because she is not really in
love with me and she's afraid our friendship would break if the relationship
didnt work out... How do i convince her we could have a nice relationship,
that it's def. worth a shot?
tanQ
Hillman
> d she's afraid our friendship would break if the relationship didnt work
> out... How do i convince her we could have a nice relationship, that
> it's def. worth a shot?
>
> tanQ
You're in the LJBF zone. I think it's too late.
@lmostl33t
"Hillman" <hill...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:pan.2002.11.03.17...@hotmail.com...
but is there no way to get outta the LJBF zone? I mean, in fact its just a
lil step, just adding sex to the relationship, the rest of it we already
got...
MP
> lil step, just adding sex to the relationship, the rest of it we already
> got...
>
Ahhhh I've got this same problem with a girl at my college.
I even made a move on her, even though she made it clear
we are just friends. She didn't let me screw her, and we are
still friends despite me trying it on. Thing is, I guess it is a bit
different with her, as she doesn't want a relationship with
anyone, as she is confused about her sexuality, straight or
lesbian or bi, so she is taking "time out" from all relationships.
Thing is, girls *like* to get to know a guy before screwing them,
so if your friends with a girl then this should help, as she knows
you?
Wilk
@lmostl33t wrote in message ...
No no it愀 NOT LATE, because you have to understand there are actually two
different LJBF-zones.
Other means that you are friends who never see or never speack and the other
means that you are REAL FRIENDS. I mean friends who share a lot of things. I
have few girls who I was just a friend with and finally decided to fuck them
and went for it succesfully. Someone has to fuck them anyway, so why
wouldn愒 it be someone they had a long friendship with?
My advice is JUST KISS HER. (She has to be seduced first ofcourse... so read
her behaviour like always, but) the next time you are with her and the
atmosphere gets magic don愒 say a thing, don愒 have doubts... just kiss her
and after that she just might be yours. Before the kiss you can use patterns
like 'have you ever seen someone in a new light' if you feel unsecure.
If she won愒 fall for you... atleast you might have a friendfuck (which is
actually better)
Wilk
MP
> her behaviour like always, but) the next time you are with her and the
> and after that she just might be yours. Before the kiss you can use patterns
> like 'have you ever seen someone in a new light' if you feel unsecure.
>
> actually better)
>
Worth a try :)
@lmostl33t
"MP" <M...@plusnet.com> wrote in message news:eZzx9.2811$dz2.278781@stones...
nah
just kiss her... than i risk a slap in my face and a total brake of our
friendship... I wanna convince her with words that she should take a chance
on me, scince we always have good conversations together. Just dunno how to
tell her i'm really worth a try :)
Hillman
> I wanna convince her with words that she should take a chance on me,
hrmmm.
I don't think you can convince a women to have sex with arguments(or
logic). It has to be emotional. I agree with Wilk, that there's two LJBF
zones. But I think that one of them is where there have been initial
feelings but you never did something about it. And the other one is where
the woman has absolutelly no sexual attraction for you and sees you as
another girlfriend. Anyway, that's my opinion.
btw, i wouldn't sacrifice a good friendship over sex unless you want to
take the risk to lose it. Because female friends always have some female
friends to introduce you to.
MP
> take the risk to lose it. Because female friends always have some female
> friends to introduce you to.
You might still be able to keep your friendship, even if you try it,
if you read my post on this thread, about am simular situation I
was in, she is still my friend, even though I made a pass at her
and kissed her, even though she didn't want to, I guess it depends
on your friendship
>"MP" <M...@plusnet.com> wrote in message news:GTvx9.2719$dz2.270232@stones...
> I even made a move on her, even though she made it clear
> we are just friends and we are still friends despite me trying it
> on