Hypnosis? I thought you were asking about NLP? Why isn't the girl
relaxed? What are you doing to agitate her?
NLP wasn't designed to get women - was it Bandler
The only hypnotic technique I know, is hypnosis.
By 'relax', do you mean 'rapport'? You can have rapport in any
[perceived] shared state.
Sorry, that is as far as my deconstruction can go, I cannot provide you
a good answer, without a good question... please try again.