So theres this girl....

[maximil...@gmail.com]

So theres this girl that i met in my rehab center and i gamed her well shes my girl i guess we hook up on the regular but the thing is i havent been able to F close her because everytime shes in my room she hits me with an excuse saying oh i think the tech is gunna walk in , and oh im on my period, so i asked her to blow me and she says shes down but again there is an excuse so now i just went outside and she comes sits down and tells me she wants to fuck. so now i dont even take her seriously anymore i just play it like i could care less and i dont know what to do im getting bored of her now kissing her and all that. WHAT SHOULD I DO.... i know i should play it cool and make it seem like i could care less and just go about my business but i dunno i need some kind of advice ......

[Reverend XIII]

On Thursday, 11 April 2013 19:59:12 UTC-4, maximil...@gmail.com wrote:
> So theres this girl that i met in my rehab center and i gamed her well shes my girl i guess we hook up on the regular but the thing is i havent been able to F close her because everytime shes in my room she hits me with an excuse saying oh i think the tech is gunna walk in , and oh im on my period, so i asked her to blow me and she says shes down but again there is an excuse so now i just went outside and she comes sits down and tells me she wants to fuck. so now i dont even take her seriously anymore i just play it like i could care less and i dont know what to do im getting bored of her now kissing her and all that. WHAT SHOULD I DO.... i know i should play it cool and make it seem like i could care less and just go about my business but i dunno i need some kind of advice ......

Wow It's been a long time since this was posted, First off I'd like to not apologize because i didn't even know this community existed outside of 15 minutes ago, But second I just want to say I'm sad if this didn't get to you in time. Lets say you X and girl Y are in a room together she is seemingly ready and you start to undress eachother and all of the sudde *Bam* a wild outrageous excuse appears! what you are thinking "what the fuck did I do wrong?" "what is she doing?" "why is she teasing me?" it's most likely not her obligation to give you blue balls my friend, she most likely is looking for more of an emotional connection before she is willing to give up something that will hold no power of you once it has been given. Also we live in such a slut shaming culture it doesn't surprise me she is having second thoughs "IT'S NOT YOU" You need to do a freeze out, which is if you don't know where something like this should happen.

X + Y: Making out passionately
Y:I'm so wet, fuck me
X:You haven't even earned this yet, baby.
Y: please please please fuck me.
X: like i said you have to earn it.
Y: how?
X: Make demand, be creative, cocky, and seductive. (don't be lame.)
XandY: Do stuff.
X: okay good now I will allow you to fuck me.
Y: starts grinding, heavy petting,
X and Y start taking off clothes
Y: Stop I can't do this
X: you put on pants turn on light start messing with video game or computer ipod anything.
Y: what are you doing?
X: You said stop, I respect a woman's decision when they say no
Y: pouting playfully, beckons you to fuck her.




(adapted from Style's and Mystery's freeze out method)



another thing is to exemplify seductive qualities in yourself, you are a prize you are the catch and just make sure she earns it first okay?

[whatup...@gmail.com]

On Friday, April 12, 2013 12:59:12 AM UTC+1, maximil...@gmail.com wrote:
> So theres this girl that i met in my rehab center and i gamed her well shes my girl i guess we hook up on the regular but the thing is i havent been able to F close her because everytime shes in my room she hits me with an excuse saying oh i think the tech is gunna walk in , and oh im on my period, so i asked her to blow me and she says shes down but again there is an excuse so now i just went outside and she comes sits down and tells me she wants to fuck. so now i dont even take her seriously anymore i just play it like i could care less and i dont know what to do im getting bored of her now kissing her and all that. WHAT SHOULD I DO.... i know i should play it cool and make it seem like i could care less and just go about my business but i dunno i need some kind of advice ......

Wow, the other guy sure made this sound complicated. It isn't.

He has a point though. Basically you turn her on but there's no connection to make the sex meaningful.

Standard AFC/PUA problem.

AFC goes from having no problems at building connection but he can't turn women on.

AFC turns PUA and has no problem turning women on but he can't seem to build a connection cos he's afraid he'll go back to AFC mode. Resulting in women not trusting him cos he's not being genuine.

Oh and this chick knows your desperate for sex. She also suspects that she doesn't really mean anything else to you other than a fuck.

TL;DR: She won't fuck you cos of you, not her.

[d.mora...@gmail.com]

On Thursday, April 11, 2013 at 7:59:12 PM UTC-4, maximil...@gmail.com wrote:
> So theres this girl that i met in my rehab center and i gamed her well shes my girl i guess we hook up on the regular but the thing is i havent been able to F close her because everytime shes in my room she hits me with an excuse saying oh i think the tech is gunna walk in , and oh im on my period, so i asked her to blow me and she says shes down but again there is an excuse so now i just went outside and she comes sits down and tells me she wants to fuck. so now i dont even take her seriously anymore i just play it like i could care less and i dont know what to do im getting bored of her now kissing her and all that. WHAT SHOULD I DO.... i know i should play it cool and make it seem like i could care less and just go about my business but i dunno i need some kind of advice ......

next time your making out, take her hand, look her in the eyes and put her hand on your cock, and be like woah, whats going?