Well, what works for me is in my cellphone I have a memo section where I list
simple, basic notes that helps reinforce my learning.
For example:
Cologne opener
3 second rule
demonstrate value
best friends test
elicit values
act like we have a special bond
false time constraints
...or whatever material will help you
And here is how to be smooth -- If you spot a target, go to your cellphone memo
section to help reinforce ideas and pretend you are reading a text message and
use the cellphone opener 8) You can check your notes and open at the same time!
it's a nice security blanket.
"Uhoh, he is texting me again -- He says his girl is threatening to burn all
his clothes -- hahahahaha"
And that will at least create more convo and allow you to focus on your next
move after you review your notes.