My wife seems to have all the power in our relationship. I am a quiet guy usually. She shows me no affection and when I try she just kind of ignores me. last year she said she had thoughts of leaving and even talked with her mom about it. All I could get out of her was that I did not help out around the house enough. I have since done better but she is still this way towards me. We have two children. before the first time, every once in awhile when she was out of line she would appologize. After the child, she never does. I am sure I have my faults too but I dont know what to do.
I am also afraid if something ever happens in this relationship, I will have a hard time finding someone else. All my life I have been a little "premature" (about two minutes). My wife says it is not a problem and wants it over fast anyway. But it bothers me. She wont work with me on the exercises for it and everyhting. I have been to the doctor, taken precriptions, tried all the exercises you could do by yourself. I have even had hypnosis. Nothing has worked. Will women not want to be with me if something happens ot my current relationship? (I am willing ot do "other" things. Although my wife generally does not like those other things.
> My wife seems to have all the power in our relationship. I am a quiet > guy usually. She shows me no affection and when I try she just kind of > ignores me. last year she said she had thoughts of leaving and even > talked with her mom about it. All I could get out of her was that I did > not help out around the house enough. I have since done better but she > is still this way towards me. We have two children. before the first > time, every once in awhile when she was out of line she would > appologize. After the child, she never does. I am sure I have my faults > too but I dont know what to do.
Start being a man and stop taking her shit?
> I am also afraid if something ever happens in this relationship, I will > have a hard time finding someone else.
If you act like a wuss, you will.
>All my life I have been a little > "premature" (about two minutes). My wife says it is not a problem and > wants it over fast anyway. But it bothers me. She wont work with me on > the exercises for it and everyhting. I have been to the doctor, taken > precriptions, tried all the exercises you could do by yourself. I have > even had hypnosis. Nothing has worked. Will women not want to be with > me if something happens ot my current relationship? (I am willing ot do > "other" things. Although my wife generally does not like those other > things.
You're acting like a doormat, and she doesn't respect you for it. Odds are she's fucking another guy on the side.
> My wife seems to have all the power in our relationship. I am a quiet > guy usually. She shows me no affection and when I try she just kind of > ignores me. last year she said she had thoughts of leaving and even > talked with her mom about it. All I could get out of her was that I did > not help out around the house enough. I have since done better but she > is still this way towards me. We have two children. before the first > time, every once in awhile when she was out of line she would > appologize. After the child, she never does. I am sure I have my faults > too but I dont know what to do.
> I am also afraid if something ever happens in this relationship, I will > have a hard time finding someone else. All my life I have been a little > "premature" (about two minutes). My wife says it is not a problem and > wants it over fast anyway. But it bothers me. She wont work with me on > the exercises for it and everyhting. I have been to the doctor, taken > precriptions, tried all the exercises you could do by yourself. I have > even had hypnosis. Nothing has worked. Will women not want to be with > me if something happens ot my current relationship? (I am willing ot do > "other" things. Although my wife generally does not like those other > things.
Ignore that other idiot that replied to your post, But what is funny is he tells you to be a man, when he is the biggest child to grace the internet.
Just to clear it up, this info is all free. But if you would like more structured info you can try many of the commercial guys selling products on that board. From e-books to CD audio programs.
Remember, this is not a rare case, MANY, MANY men go thru this either in marriage or relationships. It basically comes down to the fact that they are so scared of loosing the woman they love they do everything to keep her, and please her, that everything is what has been driving them apart in the first place. The cycle won't end until she leaves.
Now you have the power, you have information. You control YOU now. Half the battle is knowing.
(OH and ray, when you belittle and berate a prospective client, it's not a good look for your up coming court case on the "Seduction Mafia" (snigger) posts like that might convince a jury that you are a "nutjob".)
> Ignore that other idiot that replied to your post,
Gee, look at that....an insult. I wonder if the idiot who insulted me is going to insert a plug for a commercial website later in his posting.
>But what is funny is he > tells you to be a man, when he is the biggest child to grace the internet.
> Just to clear it up, this info is all free. But if you would like more > structured info you can try many of the commercial guys selling products > on > that board.
Wow, look at that!
We have an anonymous poster attacking me, offering little or no advice on his own, and recommending to a man that he visit a commercial website and try out the commercial products offered for sale there. Most of the "seduction community" agrees that trashing competitors is a sign of a Beta male.
> > Ignore that other idiot that replied to your post,
> Gee, look at that....an insult. I wonder if the idiot who insulted me is > going to insert a plug for a commercial website later in his posting.
> >But what is funny is he > > tells you to be a man, when he is the biggest child to grace the internet.
> > Just to clear it up, this info is all free. But if you would like more > > structured info you can try many of the commercial guys selling products > > on > > that board.
> Wow, look at that!
> We have an anonymous poster attacking me, offering little or no advice on > his own, and recommending to a man that he visit a commercial website and > try out the commercial products offered for sale there. Most of the > "seduction community" agrees that trashing competitors is a sign of a Beta > male.
> My books are free. See BELOW-ME:
Duck and cover, duck and cover, gordon the turtle never got hurt, because he knows how to duck and cover
You missed a REALLY important point.
and PS, your first post didn't have a .sig
>(OH and ray, when you belittle and berate a prospective client, it's not a >good look for your up coming court case on the "Seduction Mafia" (snigger) >posts like that might convince a jury that you are a "nutjob".)
Please, Gordon, lets address this issue hey?
Why oh why, when a PERFECT candidate for your "Seduction Materials" comes along, ALL YOU CAN DO IS INSULT AND BELITTLE HIM?
My question to you, today, this hour. IS "How can you claim, in a court of law that your business is suffering due to a "mafia" yet you yourself do not promote your OWN materials when given a golden opportunity?"
> Duck and cover, duck and cover, gordon the turtle never got hurt, because he > knows how to duck and cover
> You missed a REALLY important point.
> and PS, your first post didn't have a .sig
> >(OH and ray, when you belittle and berate a prospective client, it's not a > >good look for your up coming court case on the "Seduction Mafia" (snigger) > >posts like that might convince a jury that you are a "nutjob".)
> Please, Gordon, lets address this issue hey?
> Why oh why, when a PERFECT candidate for your "Seduction Materials" comes > along, ALL YOU CAN DO IS INSULT AND BELITTLE HIM?
> My question to you, today, this hour. IS "How can you claim, in a court of > law that your business is suffering due to a "mafia" yet you yourself do not > promote your OWN materials when given a golden opportunity?"
