The pickup game has its frustrations and setbacks, but it's well worth it,
man. I've truly loved every girl I've been with and enjoyed their company.
And any crap girls have thrown at me don't even compare to the fun times I've
had with the ones that did go for it with me.
A Few Observations::
----Ross's connection patterns seem to work really well when talking to a
girl for the first time. -----The girls that have really gone for it with me,
have done so right from the beginning. No need to coerce, or convince or any
crap like that. They were very friendly and responsive right from the start.
-----Just about anything you say to start a conversation will do. The key is
to jump in and say something( specially in a friendly way). I usually say
stuff like "Hi, where are you from?", " You know, I just think you're really
cute and was wondering if you would like to get together"------You know,
lame, silly stuff like that works as long as you come across friendly and
fun. -----It's a numbers game, man. Just try and try again. If one girl
doesn't respond, just move on to the next one. No need to try too hard on
your part to convince any particular chick. If she wants to play with you,
it'll be smooth riding right from the start.
BTW--I still think that I have a long way to go before I become a great pick
up artist. But, that's Ok with me. I just want to be good at it since at one
point in my life I found myself dumped, with a broken heart and a girl that
didn't give a shit. So I've turned the table around and that particular
moment in my life doesn't even matter to me anymore. It's even fun to look
back at it.
In the meantime, I must say that I truly love women and enjoy their company.
A cutie with a nice personality is just about the most beautiful thing in the
world. So I let them be and feel comfortable with whatever they throw at me.
It's just a game. A fun one at that. Love. One of the best treats in life.
Happy Girl-Chasing :>
David
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We could learn from eachother. Im 26. HOw old R U?
Idiot!
>I guess since the majority of people here are inbred it does not
>mean much.
>Why the hell condone this guy? He has a mental illness.
WHO has a mental illness?
>He needs
>children because his puny mind can't keep up with those his age. But yet the
>losers here brush it off with no word about it. Man you guys are sick.
Sure.
>Is this group changing to alt.sex.pedophilia.
Thanks to you, man, it's becoming alt.support.schizophrenia
Go Away Troll.
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the two continents, (...) for 18 of the past 20 years US unemployment
rates have been higher than those of the European Union."
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FILTER HIM today ... right now. Hes no longer fun ... about 8 of us have
already done so so when you talk about him, we are clueless about what you
are saying about him ... besides, Id hate to have to FILTER out people who
only talk about Jimmy.
tony
Mystery wrote in message <35ff6...@nemo.idirect.com>...
Ha ha! Well, we'd better wait for mystery's response, but I think I have the
answer: if you're just doing it in a casual, fun & friendly way, there's NO
problem at all; in fact, it will even improve your success (SOCIAL PROOF
concept).
>I live in
>a kind of small town, but it does have a University and I believe I would
>run
>out of girls in a short period of time, because I always see the same people
>over and over, no matter where I go. Where are you going and what kind
>of time are you spending. I dont have 12-20 hours a week to chase girls,
>I have a lot of other things going on in my life, but I can go out on
>weekends
>and practice this. Will I learn anything if I just speak with 5-10 girls a
>week?
Sure! But the more the better, I guess. I personally do talk to about 3
every night. And how many times am I still telling myself "you should have
tried this one ..."
nope. I do 2 places an evening. 6 girls a place. 2 hours to meet 6 girls.
Very easy. And 4 of them (this is all averaged over time) will take up only
2 minutes or less. So there LOTS of time to dance and meet friends and hang
out. I dont ATTACK and HIT on women. I approach them. Chat in a very
comfortable and playful way. Believe it or not, most girls appreciate me
talking with them. I certainly dont BOTHER them. Do I surround myself with
women? Sure. Do I look like a ladies man this way? Certainly. Do other
women notice? Of course. Do I look slimy. no. I havent HIT on ANYONE.
I've at MOST flirted a bit, but with my neg hits, I look rather valuable.
>I live in
a kind of small town, but it does have a University and I believe I would
run
out of girls in a short period of time, because I always see the same people
over and over, no matter where I go.
Well if excuses are what you are looking for, then this is as good as any.
You are right. You cant meet any of them - in case they start to think you
like girls or something.
>Where are you going and what kind
of time are you spending. I dont have 12-20 hours a week to chase girls,
I have a lot of other things going on in my life, but I can go out on
weekends
and practice this. Will I learn anything if I just speak with 5-10 girls a
week?
After learning about science and cosmology, I see a more grandious viewpoint
of where I stand in this universe. There is a great futility to the life of
only one human. I have prioritized my life around women. It satisfies me.
Other things ARE important, but getting a good job is to build a good nest
so you can attract a mate to fill that nest with eggs. If you create
another excuse that you dont have the TIME to allot to the most important
thing in a human's life, you've got some prioritizing to contemplate. Goto
collage? Friday night. Saturday Night. And then a Wed. night. Theres 12
hours of girl getting. Done.
"but Ive other things Ive got to do." - excuse
"but I dont have time" - excuse
"but its small town" - excuse
"but I cant talk." - excuse
"but she has a boyfriend" -excuse
:What if I look like a fool?" - excuse
blah blah blah - fucking excuse-artist
3 a night sounds completely reasonable. Its the 10+ a night that I am
thinking is a pretty outstanding achievement. I have a friend that loves
women almost as much as mystery, if that is possible. And as a result
he has a crappy job and not much of a life other wise. What I am saying
is that it seems unrealistic, to me, to spend 3-4 hours a day on the streets
trying to get laid. Then add however much time you spend geting laid
which, if you are at all successful, would tripple the time spent.
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