I'm fed up with my girlfriend
Treval
[b]legend: x = private parts[/b]
Hello
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 months now.
The problem is the following:
She doesn't want to show her private parts (yes you know what I'm
talking about), ever.
She's so fanatic about it, that she even wants to make a sort of
contract signed by both
where it says I can't get to see/touch her x until after marriage.
She says I don't have the right, that her x is too private.
5 months together and I have never seen her x.
Hard to believe, isn't it?
Lately I tried to touch her x at night while cosily lying in bed and
she was half asleep.
She didn't notice I was doing this until after she woke up a bit and
then
she turned hysterical on me and left the room and told me to go fuck
myself.
That's what I get every time I try to touch her x.
Don't get me wrong, I've tried everything, every time I slow romance
the whole thing,
I make it romantic, I kiss and massage her for hours, do everything
she wants,
then the moment I try to touch her x, bam, she tells me to fuck off.
How nice..
Any advice?..
Thanks.
Treval
mmaclennan
Sounds like your girlfriend has had some traumatic experience in her
past that is making her request such an unreasonable request. Have you
ever talked to her about her past relationships? Has this always been
an issue with her?
I would be concerned to sign a contract or make any agreement that you
can't touch her x after marriage because why is it that marriage will
change anything? She could just be doing this to get you to marry her
then once married you may find that her sexual desires are incongruent
with yous and you are stuck. If she has this hangup now how can she
guarantee that marriage will make her change.
If it was me bottom line like many have said it you need to find a
woman that fulfills your needs both physically and emotionally if she
is not then you need to find someone else. I've been in many
relationships where I wasn't satisfied sexually and it creates an
imbalance - you are trying desperately to please her and she is
calling the shots - physically. This has the potential to bleed over
into other aspects of your relationship and can lead to further
unhappiness don't get stuck get out while you can and find someone
that makes you happy it makes all the difference. 5 months isn't so
bad but Imagine a life where you are always trying to initiate
intimacy and she is saying no....
santos
"Treval" <kwe...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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Treval
> Sounds like your girlfriend has had some traumatic experience in her
> past that is making her request such an unreasonable request. Have you
> ever talked to her about her past relationships? Has this always been
> an issue with her?
Yes I did.
She's had a guy trying to restrain her physically by grabbing her arms
and
trying to grab her x and humping her meanwhile.
She was his gf at that time and she let him just do it because she was
afraid he would dump her if she refused him.
Anyway as you can see she has had a sort of rape-like past..
Yes this is exactly the reason why she is being this unreasonable,
but I am trying to find out how to get her over it, how to heal it,
by slowly being nice to her and all.
Doesn't seem to work..
> She could just be doing this to get you to marry her
> then once married you may find that her sexual desires are incongruent
> with yous and you are stuck. If she has this hangup now how can she
> guarantee that marriage will make her change.
I'm very scared of that.
I actually intend on marrying her but.. I'm terrified of the sexual
incompatibility..
I just expect it to change..
Maybe if I marry her she is less scared..
Then again she said that she prefers to live life without sex..
I couldn't bare with that..
How can she know if she doesn't like it if she's never had it..
I'm confused, argh.
Treval
Treval
On NewYear's eve, she gave her gay male best friend a kiss on the
lips.
I got really mad and I snapped at both of them.
Then, all of her friends thought I sucked because I was mad for the
rest of the night.
We talked about it and she said she would've also kissed her non-gay
male friends lightly
on the lips out of friendship.
She's Italian.. so.. yeah. Touchy feely people. In a very severe way.
Her requirements are:
- spend every single evening of her life with her friends going out,
having fun.
- dressing provocatively (short skirt, boobs showing) but her heart is
still for me
- doing what she wants, being free
And if I do not meet with these requirements she tells me she will
break up with me
because she doesn't want to be tied down to rules.
She wants to hug her friends intimately all the time and it hurts me.
She wants to live a life full of friendship love and blah blah.. sigh.
Oh yeah, about her sexual desires.. she is a masochist. I don't like
it..
She will never ever feel excited/horny by my doing and she never did,
she said.
She only gets horny if she fucking smacks someone on the head really
hard
that it bleeds or watches people getting severely hurt.
She fucking smacked me on the head really hard in bed and well I
didn't like it..
It makes her masturbate. Sigh.
Great to know that I don't make my girl horny or excited AT ALL.
Treval
Alex
On 1/5/10 8:33 AM, in article
29b963a6-c2a6-437f...@a21g2000yqc.googlegroups.com, "Treval"
Alex
She's not a puzzle to figure out. She's seriously messed up.
What do you do when you get damaged goods? You take it back and get a new
one.
Why is this different?
On 1/5/10 3:57 PM, in article
cd82a015-c704-4f29...@j5g2000yqm.googlegroups.com, "Treval"
Teddybear
"when they start to be a problem, I just drop back 15 yards and punt".
Dump her, and go fuck her best friend
"Treval" <kwe...@gmail.com> wrote in message
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>
Lori Koonce
Dude
It's this simple. If she's not giving you what you want, or has
desires you aren't willing to fulfill, then move on.
Lori
JJTj
>It's this simple. If she's not giving you what you want, or has
>desires you aren't willing to fulfill, then move on.
And perhaps grow up a little as you do..
BOTH of ya..
JJTj
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> >It's this simple. If she's not giving you what you want, or has
> >desires you aren't willing to fulfill, then move on.
>
> And perhaps grow up a little as you do..
>
> BOTH of ya..
>
> JJTj
>
I suppose the response was a bit childish, but the information behind
it surely isn't, is it?
If not, please explain how I need to grow up?
Yours in Serious Adulthood
Lori
Alex
On 1/7/10 2:04 PM, in article
e9b2bd9c-05a7-469b...@b2g2000yqi.googlegroups.com, "Lori
JJTj
>I thought he was referring to the OP and his clearly disturbed girlfriend.
I was. Nice catch, Alex.
Both seem to have weird issues that makes the whole
thing just not able to happen, on either wrong level.
Seems like a complete waste of time for both of them.
Cybderdog
Check if she has a dick. You never know these days - even president
Obongo just appointed a tranny to some political post.
Oh, and grow the fuck up... her "x"??? WTF, are you in kindergarten
that you can't even type the word "cunt" or "vagina" on the Internet?
JJTj
>Oh, and grow the fuck up... her "x"??? WTF, are you in kindergarten
>that you can't even type the word "cunt" or "vagina" on the Internet?
That's what made me think it was all a troll post, not
serious at all. Then again, who knows for sure..
JJTj
Remember the South Park show with this song?
Hey, pretty lady...
I�ve got something in my front pocket for you
Why don�t you reach down in my pocket
and see what it is?
Then grab on to it, it�s just for you
Give a little squeeze and say how-do-you-do?
I�ve got something in my front pocket for you
Why don�t you reach down in my pocket
and see what it is?
Then grab on to it, it�s just for you
Give a little squeeze and say how-do-you-do?
There�s something in my front pocket
There�s something in my front pocket
There�s something in my front pocket for you!
F/32 Eurydice
Have you tried getting her drunk to make her put out?
keelhaulem
> >Oh, and grow the fuck up... her "x"??? WTF, are you in kindergarten
> >that you can't even type the word "cunt" or "vagina" on the Internet?
>
> That's what made me think it was all a troll post, not
> serious at all. Then again, who knows for sure..
If it is real, then the GF is a tranny for sure. Kissing the gay guy,
plus the bizarre behavior is almost identical to the details in the
story about the teenage tranny that was murdered by some other teens
near he'd fooled near L.A. a year or so ago. Also, the OP (if real) is
obviously very immature and naive, so he's exactly a target for a
trany to string along and fool.
