Interest level too high?
Craig
I talk with lots of people a day (customers, Co workers) I can talk to
these people and make them laugh pretty easy and I usually have
something to say. But everytime my interest level is up I always find
ways of screwing up.
I'm not very shy except around girls I'm attracted to and thats when
the problems start.
I get nervious and suddenly have nothing to say, or I say to much and
just start jibbering on and on about something stupid.
Why is it I can talk to a total stranger or girl im not attracted to?
And although I am a social guy. I have never really had a girlfriend
or met that special someone.
I'd really like a girlfriend and want to start dating but I don't know
what I'm doing wrong.
Richard
Oh MAN, you are the way *I* used to be. You are shy, that's all.
You need to overcome your shyness somehow. It's not easy, but you have
no choice but to work on it. Talk to good looking girls more and more,
even if you just have something stupid to say. The more exposure you
get, the less shy you will become. Another thing is you have to
increase your self esteem and also stop caring what other people think
about you, except of course when it's actually important to care. Try
reading some books on shyness. Maybe they could give you things to do.
I used to be painfully shy and I couldn't talk to any girls at all
except for ugly girls. Now I think I am less shy than the average
person, but I still have more to work on. I got myself one girlfriend
so far. I loved being with her, but after a while she abandoned me and
refuses to call, despite that we got along real well and I was always
good to her. Now I am working on a new girl, who is so awesome and
perfect for me, and she might be interested in me. I'm gonna try hard
to get her to be my girlfriend. I already talked to her a bit and I
got her phone number! Another thing you need to do is read all the ASF
stuff and download e-books on dealing with women and picking up women
and stuff. That shit is very informative and necessary. Since you have
no experience with women, you have a lot to learn so that you can know
what you're doing when dealing with them. I am still learning more
about women myself, although I already know some stuff. I've been
studying asf type of materials for several weeks now. It seems to take
people about 6 months to become a really good pickup artist. As for
me, I just want to use those skills to get myself ONE great girlfriend
whenever I lose a girlfriend for whatever reason. I also will use that
knowledge to avoid losing great girlfriends in the first place.
Try doing the newbie mission. This involves saying hi to beautiful
girls at a shopping mall or other public place and looking them in the
eye and smiling. This is supposed to cure your shyness. But I haven't
been able to do it myself so far. I tried two times and couldn't get
up the nerve to say hi, since I have no pretext in this case to talk
to the girls. I can talk to girls in my classes because I'm in their
class, so I have excuses to talk to them. A lot of times, I'll start
by asking them what their major is. Then the conversation flows easily
from there. Maybe you could take a community college class that
interests you and meet a girl there who shares your interest. That'll
give you something in common and something to talk about. The latest
girl I have a crush on wants to do oil painting and so do I. Right now
we are in a beginning painting class where we are just using acrylic
paint. So she's going to be in oil painting classes with me after this
semester. I think she's awesome and ideal in every way for me. I love
her looks, her personality, and everything. It's like she was MADE for
me. I really want this to work out and get her to be my girlfriend and
my life partner. I want to have babies with her and spend the rest of
my life with her. I can't imagine finding another girl who is as
perfect for me as she is, because I never have before. If I can't make
her my girlfriend, then I'll be disappointed, but I'll still keep
working on getting a girlfriend. Winners never quit, and quitters
never win. Just remember THAT. I'm going to using everything I can
think of to make this girl my girlfriend and keep her forever. Right
now I don't know if she wants to be my girlfriend or not. All I know
is that she seemed to enjoy talking to me and she smiled big smiles at
me, and we traded phone numbers. The phone number is real too. I
called and I got her voicemail because she wasn't home. I just met her
so I haven't gotten around to finding out yet whether she'd want to be
my girlfriend. But I guess I'll find out soon. I have a really good
pretext to go out with her for the first time. We have to go to a
museum to write about a piece of art, so I'm going to ask her to go to
a museum with ME. So it'll be a low pressure kind of thing, but we'll
still get to spend time alone with each other and I'll get to know her
better and work on seducing her.
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wkong0806
HOURS of it in fact easily.
Come to a workshop or seminar man. Ill show you the ropes, and get you up to
speed in the same game Im playing. aight?
Mystery
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