first of all, I would like to introduce myself to this forum. I am Jerry, recently moved to New York and I am having the time of my life here in this awesome city. Many thanks to Mystery, Mrsex4unyc, Tony, Maniac_High and David Shade who truly helped me in recuperating from my AFC syndrom :-).
Alright guys, here is the question: I went to a strip club the other day and one of the stripper, a Latina and perfect 10, genuinely seemed interested in getting to know me better. The funny thing was actually that she started tonguing me down while performing a lapdance for me. I have to admit that she was tipsy during that night, fair enough, but I still thought she would be interested in seeing me again. And so she was cause she asked me to stop by at the club the next day and sure enough I could give her my business card. That all happened last Thursday and Friday. Now today I got a call from her that she is not working this week and would like to meet up. Now I am far from shitting into my pants because of her mere beauty but I was still contemplating as to whether or not there is a special way of laying strippers as opposed to the "normal" HB's. I mean she is loaded with money so I don't intend to spend any penny on her. Dinner would be supplication, so I guess my best bet would be to get wasted with her somewhere in a cosy bar (of course sitting next to her to get some kino going).
I am supposed to give her a call tomorrow - any help out there?
YEAH, be prepared that you MAY be mentally masterbating here.
Dont think DATE. Reframe to GET TOGETHER. She knows the score. Dont invite her OUT, but rather invite her IN. AND ... she is NOT loaded. Most strippers are in debt. They cant spend money in regular ways - they buy spontaneously - things like clothes and shoes.
> first of all, I would like to introduce myself to this forum. I am > Jerry, recently moved to New York and I am having the time of my life > here in this awesome city. Many thanks to Mystery, Mrsex4unyc, Tony, > Maniac_High and David Shade who truly helped me in recuperating from my > AFC syndrom :-).
> Alright guys, here is the question: I went to a strip club the other > day and one of the stripper, a Latina and perfect 10, genuinely seemed > interested in getting to know me better. The funny thing was actually > that she started tonguing me down while performing a lapdance for me. I > have to admit that she was tipsy during that night, fair enough, but I > still thought she would be interested in seeing me again. And so she > was cause she asked me to stop by at the club the next day and sure > enough I could give her my business card. That all happened last > Thursday and Friday. Now today I got a call from her that she is not > working this week and would like to meet up. Now I am far from shitting > into my pants because of her mere beauty but I was still contemplating > as to whether or not there is a special way of laying strippers as > opposed to the "normal" HB's. I mean she is loaded with money so I > don't intend to spend any penny on her. Dinner would be supplication, > so I guess my best bet would be to get wasted with her somewhere in a > cosy bar (of course sitting next to her to get some kino going).
> I am supposed to give her a call tomorrow - any help out there?
sorry the focus here shouldn't be on any one particular woman. Receiving advise would just drive you further into being caught up in the situation and keep drilling holes into you that fill up with afc-liquid. discuss more general topics, obersavations and experiences here. for your own good...
>first of all, I would like to introduce myself to this forum. I am >Jerry, recently moved to New York and I am having the time of my life >here in this awesome city. Many thanks to Mystery, Mrsex4unyc, Tony, >Maniac_High and David Shade who truly helped me in recuperating from my >AFC syndrom :-).
>Alright guys, here is the question: I went to a strip club the other >day and one of the stripper, a Latina and perfect 10, genuinely seemed >interested in getting to know me better. The funny thing was actually >that she started tonguing me down while performing a lapdance for me. I >have to admit that she was tipsy during that night, fair enough, but I >still thought she would be interested in seeing me again.
WHY? Why do you think she was interested (I`m not denying it, but try to understand what motivates her?) Was it physical, personality (quiet, aggressive, funny), financial (are you loaded w/ signs of showing it)? I would try to figure out what interested her in you & play this up in follow-on encounters. I currently am doing 2 strippers in Tokyo (one met at club, one met outside of club) & they ARE real people, believe it or not (although they do tend to be ditsy, bad w/ schedules, & you have to prepared to seem them w/ other guys professionally @ a minimum). I would hazard to guess she liked you cuz you a) didn`t drool over her; b) probably seemed like a normal, regular guy who she may not have much contact w/, etc... BTW, I`ve also had off-line chances w/ strips in Boston & SF but I never worked it to a fuck close...
And so she
>was cause she asked me to stop by at the club the next day and sure >enough I could give her my business card. T
Bad move. IT`s AFC to give out biz cards. A simple phone # (preferably not office) should suffice.
hat all happened last
>Thursday and Friday. Now today I got a call from her that she is not >working this week and would like to meet up. Now I am far from shitting >into my pants because of her mere beauty but I was still contemplating >as to whether or not there is a special way of laying strippers as >opposed to the "normal" HB's.
Don`t shit in your pants. If she likes you for whatever reason, she likes you & you`ve cleared the first hurdle. From now on, the ball`s in your court...
Special way of laying strippers, hmmm.. I think you treat them like normal people, perhaps even be extra tender physically. They see so many drunk, macho, bravado BS guys at work that they probably want a sensitive guy to some degree; gentle caressing (not groping), good foreplay, etc. Now, I would agree there`s probably a Springer-class type abused chick who works in the scene, who`s perpetually involved w/ Alpha, abusive, fucked-up macho guys. But if HB Latina has expressed an interest in you (I assume a normal guy w/ AFC tendencies), then she`s probably at least open to getting away from that bullshit.
I mean she is loaded with money so I
>don't intend to spend any penny on her.
I agree & disagree w/ the other poster. Yes, she probably ain`t loaded. But she should have enough spare change jingling around that she should pull some of her weight in the date (my strip, HB Cat Eyes, bought me dinner at a family-style restaurant 2 outings ago...)
Dinner would be supplication,
>so I guess my best bet would be to get wasted with her somewhere in a >cosy bar (of course sitting next to her to get some kino going).
Bar?... Perhaps. Maybe work it in w/ a bit more romantic scene. Again, this goes back to what interests her about you. Perhaps a bar would work, but maybe not if she thinks of you as a reg guy who likes opera, plays, etc.. Dunno, ELICIT VALUES, Jerry!
>I am supposed to give her a call tomorrow - any help out there?
Keep it brief. Strips tend to be ditzy & can`t process an array of information at once (she may be sleepy/drunk/hungover also). Make a simple appointment conventient to both of you, & let it go from there. Save the heavy interaction for in person...
jerrynyc1...@my-deja.com wrote: > I was still contemplating > as to whether or not there is a special way of laying strippers as > opposed to the "normal" HB's.
It seems so. Search Formhandle's site or Deja for posts on strippers by Mystery or Craig. Some notables:
some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not want to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on top of that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i have a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
strippers can have anyone. that is why once they decide they want you they dont think about games and instead just BAM! go for your throat. this is typical of all strippers and 10s. she doesnt want to DATE (do the drinks thing) and instead wants to HANG with you. dont make steps backwards. invite her over to the house NOW.
> some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not want > to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on top of > that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i have > a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i > should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
hey master, you might be right and i am totally fucking this up. this stripper is really weird though, but then again i can't speak from experience. here is the story:
yesterday she wanted to meet for lunch and since it was getting close to noon, i called her with her not answering. then i left a message on the cell phone. at 2.30pm or so she calls and said she just got up. fair enough so i say let's meet tomorrow and i give you another call. then she calls me AGAIN! and asks me for my cell phone number and home phone (she only had my business phone number) cause she might call me today (and i thought we were gonna meet the next day). then she asks me where my company is located and on what floor i work on, i say why, she says cause i want to visit you!!! holy shit i think and say no, i don't want that. guess what happens then? she hangs up on me!
such a strange chick... so i call her again, she says call me back later and i say it was not the right time to talk since i was standing next to an managing director. she says finish your work and then call me...
so i come home at 7, take a nap cause i thought we might go out/meet and call her at 8.30pm on her cell phone. i get cut off (i think) and call her again, we just chat a little bit, she giggles and then i get cut off again but this time i think she just hung up on me. so i call again, leave her a message on her cell phone with my cell phone and home phone number in case she wants to get back to me and does not have the numbers with her.
nothing happens until 10pm (and i just left this one message on her cell). then at 10 she calls my home phone number and asks me WHERE ARE YOU!!! so i say well, you called my home phone number so i guess i am HOME, (dummy - or maybe on drugs?) then i say what happened during our last phone call, she doesn't reply to that. then she says "i want to see you" so i kid around saying it's not lunch time, so it's not such a good idea to get together is it, cause that's what she said herself two days ago. so she says alright, too bad for you, let's do lunch then. i reply i was just kidding, we can meet if you want, what do you want to do? she says i want to see you. so i said, well, you live on the westside, right, so since i live on the east side, do you want to meet half way? she says no - and HANGS UP!!!
end of story. i did not bother calling her back.
(maybe that was an implicit invitation to come over to her place though and i just didnt get it or was too fucking nice since i said let's meet up outside).
i think she might have been on drugs or she is a psycho. now at least she admitted that she wants to see me, which is good, so now i think i will not call her today since i have called her too many times already and will just wait what happens. maybe i call her tomorrow but i am getting a little bit fed up with that. but then again, someone who looks like carmen electra might be worth a little hassle...
that was all yesterday btw and we did not meet for lunch today since she didnt call.
one more question: couldnt she turn into a returning fox now that i am not calling her anymore?
hopefully i havent fucked it up...
thanks for your advice!
jerry
In article <rDAk5.49739$07.1538...@news1.rdc1.on.wave.home.com>, "the_master" <idonthin...@NOPE.com> wrote:
> strippers can have anyone. that is why once they decide they want you they > dont think about games and instead just BAM! go for your throat. this is > typical of all strippers and 10s. she doesnt want to DATE (do the drinks > thing) and instead wants to HANG with you. dont make steps backwards. > invite her over to the house NOW.
> > some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not want > > to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on top of > > that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i have > > a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i > > should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
I'd like to know how some of the PUAs here do pickup the strippers. I think THAT IS THE TOUGHEST PICKUP!
I mean you are at a place where they are showing you their pussies and tits in your face. It's very difficult to hide your intentions! LOL When a woman puts her pussy in your face, and then you want to get together with her, it's HARD TO HIDE WHAT YOU WANT TO DO to her!! hahahaha
Furthermore, all the other guys in the room (most of them anyway) want to fuck the strippers too! I guess everynight, the joint is filled with guys who want to fuck them.
This is what makes this a tough pickup. I once managed to get a strippers phone number, but she was moving back to Texas the next week. She gave me her TX number. LOL! And since I live in CA, it didn't do me much good.
If anyone here has gotten phone numbers from strippers in THE CLUB, and they were actually right numbers, tell us how you did it. What process did you use to get that ELLUSIVE PHONE NUMBER?
Frustrated cool guy wrote... >I'd like to know how some of the PUAs here do pickup the >strippers. >I think THAT IS THE TOUGHEST PICKUP!
Yeah? And how about an engaged chick? How about a threesome with an engaged chick who's a virgin and her future sister in law who's a man-hating lesbian? ;-)
And here's what NYC once wrote about strippers:
"I will never fuck and have never fucked porno bitches, stripping bitches, ANY KIND OF SEX INDUSTRY BITCHES because they do that shit for a living. MORE chance for disease... MORE exposure to guys that are willing to pay them to lick the guy's asshole... then YOU want to MAKE OUT with these bitches? There's no telling what they were doing in the back room before YOU got them to go home with you... whether you pay them to fuck or not. Yes, it's true that regular chicks are just as nasty sometimes... but shit! you see these bitches ON STAGE shaking their asses because they have no other means of making money... what do you think they're going to do when a guy says he wants to piss in their mouths for $1,000... when they are collecting money $1 at a time from suckers that frequent strip clubs? THAT BITCH IS GETTING PISSED ON AND YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HER LATER?"
To all PUA and all readers of the HB Latina Stripper Update
Hey Guys,
Here is my latest update of my events with HB Stripper Latina. (I couldn’t help but calling her the next day despite she hung up on me (see last Report) though looking back I think it was a good decision since the ball was back in her territory. Anyway, so she called me surprisingly Friday night where I was at a Penthouse party in a hotel. She told me she wants to see me again and would like to have dinner with me and then do something else, i.e. go to some other place. I told her, sorry, you gotta have dinner by yourself since I am at a BBQ right now, but I will call her when I get home. And so I did and called her at 9.30pm. I suggested going to a bar in Midtown/New York and she pretended she had no fucking clue where to meet up so I switched back into being AFC again and told her I would pick her up. Now in the bar something interesting happened. First of all she wanted me to pay for all the drinks and I just innocently said “I thought we are taking turns with the drinks”. She was surprised but concurred (well, not exactly cause she gave me the money for the drinks and I still got them – question: is there are difference between the girl literally buying the drinks or just giving me the money for it and I buy them? I guess I need some education on this part)
So the beginning of the evening went very well and she started revealing more about her personality, such as that her real name is not …. but …. and that she is not 21 but 24 (I really have no idea as to why she would hide her age). Moreover she told me that she doesn’t like the other strippers, that she has totally different values than they do and that is why she doesn’t hang out with them who are only into money, alcohol, cars and drugs….She, on the other hand, had true values instilled by her parents and wants to keep them like that. She also told me the story about her ex-fiancee who took away all her belongings in Miami (Hb Latina told me she worked as a TV host for a Spanish TV program in Miami for two years), which is why she had to come to New York City to make up for the lost money by working in a strip joint.
Anyway, so after a couple of hours at around 2am we went to a club but the guestlist just closed about 20 minutes before we got in. That was too bad and totally unexpected from my side, since I had to face paying $40 fucking bucks cover for the remaining 2hours in this club. I know that paying for my and her cover was a AFC move bigtime but I didn’t think about that and did it anyway (I know, I know – big mistake, feel free to rip me apart for this one). But I did tell her though after having paid the cover that I am close to being broke now and I really was (the whole evening was about $90). So she offered paying for the next round of drinks, which unfortunately still was not enough for her. And she was getting increasingly drunk. Now one minute after I left HB Latina in order to get the drinks for us at the club, an Italian guy approached her and tried to pick her up. She told him that she is here with me and he just did not fucking care (Question: What the hell am I supposed to do when I am out with a really Hot Babe, I mean she is a real 10 and every other minute someone else tries to pick her up????) HB Latina told me that the Italian guy just told her I should be so lucky to be with her and I replied and so should you that you are here with me. After that we went dancing and the Italian was so bold that he even tried to dance with her when I was dancing with HB Latina (any advice on this one, I mean what the fuck am I supposed to do when I am dancing with a HB and someone else tries to interfere? As for me (though maybe that’s just me being too much of a nice guy) I would have too much pride and just wouldn’t even think of doing this. But he didn’t give a shit and still was dancing with her. HB Latina liked the attention from both sides but was still showing me physically that she was more interested in me). After a while, I got fed up with this and just left in order to look for some friends who were also supposed to be at the club (they wanted to see her, too). So she comes running after me telling me “I wanna be with you!” but still didn’t mind at all that the Italian guy was constantly harassing her. So after a while even the bouncers told me if he approaches her again, he’s gonna get chucked out. Right before the club closes, HB Latina wants to have another Martini (the 5th or so). So I tell her that I am pretty much broke and she has to chip in if she wants to have another one. So she does and I get another Martini for her while she keeps on talking to the Italian guy. When I came back with her Martinis, I lost it a little bit and told him and told him to get lost and mind his own business. By that time, HB Latina is already pretty wasted. So it turns 4am and the club closes. We go outside and she tries to pick a fight with me and I tell her that I am not used to sharing women with anyone and just won’t tolerate that (which was also the main reason why I left every time the Italian guy wanted to pick her up). She gets a little bit angry but eventually hails a cab and tells me to join her. So I get in the cab with her and we start making out and fumbling a little bit. Then the disaster of the evening comes: Since I paid the whole $40 for the club cover I just had no more money on me. So we get out of the cab at her place and she supposedly expects me to pay though I did not have any more money. So I tell her that I have no more dollars left and that we either have to drive now to the next ATM or she chips in. The fare was $7 and she just repeatedly says she can’t believe I have no more money, then she gives me $5, I give it to the cab driver and she CLOSES THE DOOR TO HER APARTMENT RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!!!! Another guy was watching this scenario and offered me to call her on his cell phone. So I call her and after me trying to explain the situation to her she hangs up on me. So I get another $20 at the nearest ATM and call her again but she doesn’t pick up the phone and I leave a message on her voice mail saying something like how great this evening was and that it is so stupid to ruin it that way, I know she likes me (she actually told me a couple of times “I like you a lot!” and “You know I like you” and I like her so why don’t we just get over it and maybe she can even go downstairs again to talk about it again. She doesn’t answer though so I leave for home and am now writing this follow –up post.
Now I have no ideas what my next step would have to be, gut wise I would say I don’t call her anymore until she calls me and if she doesn’t then whatever, though I know now from tonight’s conversation that she is flying to Miami on Monday to get a visa for Italy, then she will be modeling in Milano the whole August and then wants to see her parents in Peru before she gets back to working at the Strip club in September. So I have the feeling if I don’t reconcile this before she flies to Miami that this will be it since I won’t see her for a long time.
Now, all your PUA’s out there I need your help!!!
What the hell I am supposed to do now? Since she was pretty drunk, I would say I should just call her again tomorrow and maybe the whole thing won’t be a problem anymore. Though on the other hand, I am pissed off with her behavior and feel like telling her, that if she wants to play the free drinking game, she better get herself a millionaire which I am, on top of that she earns so much more money than I do so I really don’t want to waste any money on her…..
> hey master, > you might be right and i am totally fucking this up. > this stripper is really weird though, but then again i can't speak from > experience. here is the story:
> yesterday she wanted to meet for lunch and since it was getting close to > noon, i called her with her not answering. then i left a message on the > cell phone. at 2.30pm or so she calls and said she just got up. fair > enough so i say let's meet tomorrow and i give you another call. then > she calls me AGAIN! and asks me for my cell phone number and home phone > (she only had my business phone number) cause she might call me today > (and i thought we were gonna meet the next day). then she asks me where > my company is located and on what floor i work on, i say why, she says > cause i want to visit you!!! holy shit i think and say no, i don't want > that. guess what happens then? she hangs up on me!
> such a strange chick... so i call her again, she says call me back later > and i say it was not the right time to talk since i was standing next to > an managing director. she says finish your work and then call me...
> so i come home at 7, take a nap cause i thought we might go out/meet and > call her at 8.30pm on her cell phone. i get cut off (i think) and call > her again, we just chat a little bit, she giggles and then i get cut off > again but this time i think she just hung up on me. so i call again, > leave her a message on her cell phone with my cell phone and home phone > number in case she wants to get back to me and does not have the numbers > with her.
> nothing happens until 10pm (and i just left this one message on her > cell). then at 10 she calls my home phone number and asks me WHERE ARE > YOU!!! so i say well, you called my home phone number so i guess i am > HOME, (dummy - or maybe on drugs?) then i say what happened during our > last phone call, she doesn't reply to that. > then she says "i want to see you" so i kid around saying it's not lunch > time, so it's not such a good idea to get together is it, cause that's > what she said herself two days ago. so she says alright, too bad for > you, let's do lunch then. i reply i was just kidding, we can meet if you > want, what do you want to do? she says i want to see you. so i said, > well, you live on the westside, right, so since i live on the east side, > do you want to meet half way? she says no - and HANGS UP!!!
> end of story. i did not bother calling her back.
> (maybe that was an implicit invitation to come over to her place > though and i just didnt get it or was too fucking nice since i said > let's meet up outside).
> i think she might have been on drugs or she is a psycho. now at least > she admitted that she wants to see me, which is good, so now i think i > will not call her today since i have called her too many times already > and will just wait what happens. maybe i call her tomorrow but i am > getting a little bit fed up with that. but then again, someone who looks > like carmen electra might be worth a little hassle...
> that was all yesterday btw and we did not meet for lunch today since she > didnt call.
> one more question: couldnt she turn into a returning fox now that i am > not calling her anymore?
> hopefully i havent fucked it up...
> thanks for your advice!
> jerry
> In article <rDAk5.49739$07.1538...@news1.rdc1.on.wave.home.com>, > "the_master" <idonthin...@NOPE.com> wrote: > > strippers can have anyone. that is why once they decide they want you > they > > dont think about games and instead just BAM! go for your throat. this > is > > typical of all strippers and 10s. she doesnt want to DATE (do the > drinks > > thing) and instead wants to HANG with you. dont make steps backwards. > > invite her over to the house NOW.
> > > some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not > want > > > to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on > top of > > > that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i > have > > > a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i > > > should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
> hey master, > you might be right and i am totally fucking this up. > this stripper is really weird though, but then again i can't speak from > experience. here is the story:
> yesterday she wanted to meet for lunch and since it was getting close to > noon, i called her with her not answering. then i left a message on the > cell phone. at 2.30pm or so she calls and said she just got up. fair > enough so i say let's meet tomorrow and i give you another call. then > she calls me AGAIN! and asks me for my cell phone number and home phone > (she only had my business phone number) cause she might call me today > (and i thought we were gonna meet the next day). then she asks me where > my company is located and on what floor i work on, i say why, she says > cause i want to visit you!!! holy shit i think and say no, i don't want > that. guess what happens then? she hangs up on me!
> such a strange chick... so i call her again, she says call me back later > and i say it was not the right time to talk since i was standing next to > an managing director. she says finish your work and then call me...
> so i come home at 7, take a nap cause i thought we might go out/meet and > call her at 8.30pm on her cell phone. i get cut off (i think) and call > her again, we just chat a little bit, she giggles and then i get cut off > again but this time i think she just hung up on me. so i call again, > leave her a message on her cell phone with my cell phone and home phone > number in case she wants to get back to me and does not have the numbers > with her.
> nothing happens until 10pm (and i just left this one message on her > cell). then at 10 she calls my home phone number and asks me WHERE ARE > YOU!!! so i say well, you called my home phone number so i guess i am > HOME, (dummy - or maybe on drugs?) then i say what happened during our > last phone call, she doesn't reply to that. > then she says "i want to see you" so i kid around saying it's not lunch > time, so it's not such a good idea to get together is it, cause that's > what she said herself two days ago. so she says alright, too bad for > you, let's do lunch then. i reply i was just kidding, we can meet if you > want, what do you want to do? she says i want to see you. so i said, > well, you live on the westside, right, so since i live on the east side, > do you want to meet half way? she says no - and HANGS UP!!!
> end of story. i did not bother calling her back.
> (maybe that was an implicit invitation to come over to her place > though and i just didnt get it or was too fucking nice since i said > let's meet up outside).
> i think she might have been on drugs or she is a psycho. now at least > she admitted that she wants to see me, which is good, so now i think i > will not call her today since i have called her too many times already > and will just wait what happens. maybe i call her tomorrow but i am > getting a little bit fed up with that. but then again, someone who looks > like carmen electra might be worth a little hassle...
> that was all yesterday btw and we did not meet for lunch today since she > didnt call.
> one more question: couldnt she turn into a returning fox now that i am > not calling her anymore?
> hopefully i havent fucked it up...
> thanks for your advice!
> jerry
> In article <rDAk5.49739$07.1538...@news1.rdc1.on.wave.home.com>, > "the_master" <idonthin...@NOPE.com> wrote: > > strippers can have anyone. that is why once they decide they want you > they > > dont think about games and instead just BAM! go for your throat. this > is > > typical of all strippers and 10s. she doesnt want to DATE (do the > drinks > > thing) and instead wants to HANG with you. dont make steps backwards. > > invite her over to the house NOW.
> > > some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not > want > > > to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on > top of > > > that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i > have > > > a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i > > > should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
> Frustrated cool guy wrote... > >I'd like to know how some of the PUAs here do pickup the > >strippers. > >I think THAT IS THE TOUGHEST PICKUP!
> Yeah? And how about an engaged chick? How about a threesome with an engaged > chick who's a virgin and her future sister in law who's a man-hating > lesbian? ;-)
> And here's what NYC once wrote about strippers:
> "I will never fuck and have never fucked porno bitches, stripping bitches, > ANY KIND OF SEX INDUSTRY BITCHES because they do that shit for a living. > MORE chance for disease... MORE exposure to guys that are willing to pay > them to lick the guy's asshole... then YOU want to MAKE OUT with these > bitches? There's no telling what they were doing in the back room before YOU > got them to go home with you... whether you pay them to fuck or not. Yes, > it's true that regular chicks are just as nasty sometimes... but shit! you > see these bitches ON STAGE shaking their asses because they have no other > means of making money... what do you think they're going to do when a guy > says he wants to piss in their mouths for $1,000... when they are collecting > money $1 at a time from suckers that frequent strip clubs? THAT BITCH IS > GETTING PISSED ON AND YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HER LATER?"
jerrynyc1...@my-deja.com wrote: >hey master, >you might be right and i am totally fucking this up. >this stripper is really weird though, but then again i can't speak from >experience. here is the story:
>yesterday she wanted to meet for lunch and since it was getting close to >noon, i called her with her not answering. then i left a message on the >cell phone. at 2.30pm or so she calls and said she just got up. fair >enough so i say let's meet tomorrow and i give you another
call.
Good move. I`ve learned to move my appointments w/ strippers (e.g., HB Cat Eyes) later cuz they tend to sleep late after getting home real late. She probably was telling you the truth, & earlier had been trying to overaccomodate you; I agree generally w/ Master that apart fromt the issues of whether this chick has a full deck of cards, she still is fuckable from what you`ve been describing (i.e., she wants you & should you manage to meet up w/ her should be able to fuck her same day). Also, do you know her schedule (assuming it`s regular) in terms of days off, etc).
then
>she calls me AGAIN! and asks me for my cell phone number and home phone >(she only had my business phone number) cause she might call me today >(and i thought we were gonna meet the next day). then she asks me where >my company is located and on what floor i work on, i say why, she says >cause i want to visit you!!!
>that. guess what happens then? she hangs up on me! >>such a strange chick... so i call her again, she says call me back later >and i say it was not the right time to talk since i was standing next to >an managing director. she says finish your work and then call me...
>so i come home at 7, take a nap cause i thought we might go out/meet and >call her at 8.30pm on her cell phone. i get cut off (i think) and call >her again, we just chat a little bit, she giggles and then i get cut off >again but this time i think she just hung up on me. so i call again, >leave her a message on her cell phone with my cell phone and home phone >number in case she wants to get back to me and does not have the numbers >with her.
I too have had a lot of phone tag experience w/ strippers. I think they are ditzy, don`t have good social skills on communication protocol, and probably to some extent are playing a mind game to see how badly you want them.
>nothing happens until 10pm (and i just left this one message on her >cell). then at 10 she calls my home phone number and asks me WHERE ARE >YOU!!! so i say well, you called my home phone number so i guess i am >HOME, (dummy - or maybe on drugs?) then i say what happened during our >last phone call, she doesn't reply to that.
Don`t rehash negatives (I know you`re pissed, but venting over shit that went down but didn`t work will not constructively move the conversation forward & improve your chances of a lay).
>then she says "i want to see you" so i kid around saying it's not lunch >time, so it's not such a good idea to get together is it, cause that's >what she said herself two days ago.
Good, try to keep the kidding/lightness/playfulness factor high!
so she says alright, too bad for
>you, let's do lunch then. i reply i was just kidding, we can meet if you >want, what do you want to do? she says i want to see you. so i said, >well, you live on the westside, right, so since i live on the east side, >do you want to meet half way? she says no - and HANGS UP!!!
I can see her point. While my view is contrary to the supplication literature, I don`t see the problem of accomodating her a little in the beginning w/ location. Maybe she doesn`t have transportation, etc. In my view, it`s AFTER the 1st meeting where you establish contact/control/desirability/puppy eyes adoration that you start laying down ground rules.
>end of story. i did not bother calling her back.
>(maybe that was an implicit invitation to come over to her place >though and i just didnt get it or was too fucking nice since i said >let's meet up outside).
Yes, the-master is RIGHT. If you had managed to hook up w/ her that night - perhaps thru a little accomodation - you would have had a great fuck.
>i think she might have been on drugs or she is a psycho. now at least >she admitted that she wants to see me, which is good, so now i think i >will not call her today since i have called her too many times already >and will just wait what happens. maybe i call her tomorrow but i am >getting a little bit fed up with that. but then again, someone who looks >like carmen electra might be worth a little hassle...
Good, let things cool down a bit. Remember, in putting up w/ the psycho shit, you are not looking to take this girl home to the folks. If you are recovering AFC, I would advise continuing this mission cuz if you do lay her, it will add to your confidence. If you don`t, well, you already know she has airhead tendencies, etc... But don`t wait too long; you haven`t sealed the deal yet...
>that was all yesterday btw and we did not meet for lunch today since she >didnt call.
>one more question: couldnt she turn into a returning fox now that i am >not calling her anymore?
>hopefully i havent fucked it up...
>thanks for your advice!
>jerry
>In article <rDAk5.49739$07.1538...@news1.rdc1.on.wave.home.com>, > "the_master" <idonthin...@NOPE.com> wrote: >> strippers can have anyone. that is why once they decide they want you >they >> dont think about games and instead just BAM! go for your throat. this >is >> typical of all strippers and 10s. she doesnt want to DATE (do the >drinks >> thing) and instead wants to HANG with you. dont make steps backwards. >> invite her over to the house NOW.
>> > some strange things are happening here with HB Latina, she does not >want >> > to meet up for drinks but instead wants to have lunch with me. on >top of >> > that she asked me (all in a 5 minute phone conversation) whether i >have >> > a girlfriend (which i declined) and said that on my next vacation i >> > should go with her to peru. how weird is that?
the_master_who's_NOT_mystery wrote... >lameass. thats throwing the baby out with the bathwater dude
Chicks with borefriends or party chicks or pro sex chicks... like she sucks some guy's dick, pops two tic-tacs and then goes to mr.PUA and gives him a tongue down.
That may have never happened to you (would you know?), but when I see hot chicks getting drunk and laughing and going to back rooms with a bunch of these wolf-looking dudes, I can't help but think that's exactly what happens.
"thx" <g...@stick.it> wrote: >the_master_who's_NOT_mystery wrote... >>lameass. thats throwing the baby out with the bathwater dude
>Chicks with borefriends or party chicks or pro sex chicks... like she sucks >some guy's dick, pops two tic-tacs and then goes to mr.PUA and gives him a >tongue down.
Yeah, there`s so much of the virgin shit fantasy on this NG, like (w/ all due respect) Maniac`s HB Ass who was a librarian type (from the classifieds, if memory serves me) turned into a sex fiend who obeys Maniac`s directions & also fucks tons of other guys now, if I understand from his posts. I mean, what`s the diff at some point whether a chick is taking down 5 dicks for $$$ or 5 dicks cuz BF PUA or SM Master is telling her to, or has inspired that interest? I guess the latter image always maintains some `virgin prissiness` quality that is appealing to most guys (like why does Max Hardcore`s Cherry Poppers sick-ass porn shit sell so well in the US?). But I submit the former sex worker type may actually have a better sense of control in terms of using her sexuality to get something in return for her goods, rather than flipping Taco`s for $8/hr or whatever the going rate is these days...
Yes, there may be some issues w/ diseases, etc. to be careful about. But if you`re going to be skeptical of the sex worker crowd, then in this day & age why not demand every potential lay to run through their sexual history & detailed health check b4 initiating any physical activity. W/ regards to safer sexual practices, I think a pro who is comfortable w/ herself may actually, in some respect, have MORE limits (common sense & health awareness) than the good choir virgin types corrupted bad, who may end up in a compound like Waco or something. I mean, those are the chicks more willing to be open to the power of suggestion to knock back BF`s golden shower, cash considerations aside. Very difficult to stereotype, particularly across cultures where once you get outside of the puritanical US, a sex industry (incl. the UK) scene may actually be more mainstream w/ the implications that more `mainstream` type of girls may be involved to a greater extent.
My attitude is each woman is different, and I try to enjoy my time/interactions with each whether they come from a sex industry background or not (disclosure: I just spent a great overnight last night w/ HB Cat Eyes, a stripper, but I mean it was totally cool being around a chick who has a tight, lithe body, is comfortable with it, and looks damn good cavorting around the hotel room in T-back lace panties. Does she do this professionally & maybe for other guys as well....Yes & probably. But at some point I DON`T FUCKING CARE cuz I have my own issues to deal w/ & I`m looking for a quality night together where we both get off on each other and don`t check cell phones 10x a night like so many `good girls` from the burbs do...)
>That may have never happened to you (would you know?), but when I see hot >chicks getting drunk and laughing and going to back rooms with a bunch of >these wolf-looking dudes, I can't help but think that's exactly what >happens.
Sound like you should be more wolf-looking yourself, Thx. They`re the ones getting the pussy, for $$$ or not...
<kippNOkiS...@nifty.com.invalid> wrote: >Very difficult to stereotype, >particularly across cultures where once you get outside of the >puritanical US, a sex industry (incl. the UK) scene may actually >be more mainstream
The U.S. has a porn industry which makes more money than Hollywood whereas hardcore porn here is either illegal or on the edge of legality. The U.S. has thousands of strip bars where they are a comparative rarity in the U.K.
So just how is the sex industry mainstream in the UK?
kipp wrote... >But I submit the former sex worker type may actually have >a better sense of control in terms of using her sexuality to >get something in return for her goods, rather than flipping >Taco`s for $8/hr or whatever the going rate is these days...
You misunderstood me. I don't care what some chick did last week or last month or last year. I'm only concerned with whether she sucked some guy's dick after the last time she brushed her teeth. ;-)
If I want her as a girlfriend (and I usually do - I don't go for ONS), then I ask around just to make sure she's not a psycho and while she's with me, checking on her (where she is, what she's doing) is of course standard procedure. Granted, she may STILL find time to do some crazy shit, but the odds are greatly reduced when she doesn't go out to clubs or parties by herself and is always with someone who knows both of us.
And when she comes to my place for sex, if I even suspect she's not minty fresh and clean, I send her to the shower just in case. Maybe I'm turning into a Howard Hughes sort of guy, huh? ;-)
>But if you`re going to be skeptical of the sex worker >crowd, then in this day & age why not demand every >potential lay to run through their sexual history & >detailed health check b4 initiating any physical activity.
I've never fucked a girl without a condom. Did I miss much? Am I still technically a virgin? ;-)
>Sound like you should be more wolf-looking yourself, Thx. >They`re the ones getting the pussy, for $$$ or not...
I'm not an AFC... never was when I think about it. I always knew what to do, only I wasn't good enough. Now you could say I'm doing pretty good considering the rather small number of chicks I meet in the first place.
As for the wolf-looking dudes, they merely looked hungry and were howling half the time. ;-)
thx wrote in message <966186442.688...@proxy0.bits.net>... >And when she comes to my place for sex, if I even suspect she's not minty >fresh and clean, I send her to the shower just in case.
Interesting exchanges! However, I AM STILL Looking for TIPS on how do pickup strippers, because it is soooo damn hard! It's probably the hardest pickup as I Said in my earlier post on this topic.
Kipp, if you have ideas, I am willing to entertain them :))
>I've never fucked a girl without a condom. Did I miss much? Am I >still technically a >virgin? ;-)
AND:
>If I want her as a girlfriend (and I usually do - I don't go for >ONS), then I ask around >just to make sure she's not a psycho and while she's with me, >checking on her (where >she is, what she's doing) is of course standard procedure
What I was referring to in the UK was the legality of prostitution. I read an FT article about `hos posting their cards on public telephone booths & the like; kids have taken to collecting these in favor of Pokemon cards. This has, understandably, created a social outcry (I myself, while I indulge in porn & am fairly liberal about sexuality, do concur there should be limits particularly wrt minors). BTW, Japan has the same issues w/ tons of xxx-rated adverts posted around town.
As for the US, again Hollywood is voluminous & strip bars - I guess - are rampant (although last time I was in Boston damned if I could find one, where there used to be several in the Combat Zone area). I guess I`m talking not only quantity of the sex outlets, but also quality. Eg, many paid sex workers in US ARE ugly, slutty, trailer trash `hos or unfortunate semi- indentured immigrant women. In Japan - & to my knowledge in Europe, but no 1st hand experience in Europe - `average` girl- next-door types populate sex shops. And there are literally THOUSANDS of sex shops across all major station hubs in Tokyo. Just walk around Shinjuku, & you will see scouts approaching young chicks w/ biz cards, etc
Spicetrader wrote... >THIS GUY WROTE: >>I've never fucked a girl without a condom. Did I miss much? Am I >>still technically a >>virgin? ;-)
>AND:
>>If I want her as a girlfriend (and I usually do - I don't go for >>ONS), then I ask around >>just to make sure she's not a psycho and while she's with me, >>checking on her (where >>she is, what she's doing) is of course standard procedure
<kippNOkiS...@nifty.com.invalid> wrote: >What I was referring to in the UK was the legality of >prostitution.
Street prostitution is illegal, putting cards up cards is illegal, brothels are illegal, living of immoral earnings (pimping) is illegal.
>I guess I`m talking not only quantity of >the sex outlets, but also quality. Eg, many paid sex workers in >US ARE ugly, slutty, trailer trash `hos or unfortunate semi- >indentured immigrant women.
Well there aren't nearly as many crack whores over here but most English women are no beauties (paid or otherwise). The rest are usually from either Eastern Europe (controlled by E.European / Russian mafias) or Thai (have their passports confiscated and have to work off a $30,000 "debt" to their pimp who bought them for around $3.000).
As to quality never having paid for sex I really couldn't say.