I need help to regain control
d_long
needed to get laid, and I tapped it a few times. It seemed like every
thing was going smoothly until this weekend she has a male roommate
who she used to bang. He called her up bitching her out and treating
me. I just kind of played it like I really didn't care but I was
pissed I didn't want the dude coming over my pad to kick my ass. And
then the next day we were taking a shower at my pad and she got all
bent because I didn't have ant clean towels, but after thinking about
it I think that there are some hidden issues about the roommate/ex bf.
i need to regain control of this situation
The way I see it there is only 3 options.
1) Dump the hb (which I normally would do but I really like this one,
and it makes the most sense.
2) Tell her how I feel and how I want to be treated from here on out
and don't be afraid to lose her.
3) Make sure I have enough clean towels so that when she comes over she
can take one home to the Ex bf she is most likely still banging.( man
wtf am I thinking)
any suggestions
ags...@yahoo.com
with you.
Option 2 is out of the question, it's basically too late for that and
plus, she's your coworker and you can't impose anything or you will
face your HR director. Option 3, I would have had her do my laundry
while banging her during the spin cycle.
Regards...
Bald Geezer
@o13g2000cwo.googlegroups.com:
> i need to regain control of this situation
You've already got control, and without much luck, you won't need to
fight the prick to keep it.
> every
> thing was going smoothly until this weekend she has a male roommate
> who she used to bang. He called her up bitching her out and treating
> me. I just kind of played it like I really didn't care but I was
> pissed I didn't want the dude coming over my pad to kick my ass.
If he tries, you'll eat him for lunch, because challenging a man on his
home turf is a recipe for disaster. He won't have a prayer if tries
something, but just to be sure, get the plunger handle to use as a billy
club. If you really want to, drill a hole through the end and run a
loop of twine through it, to wrap around your wrist, so it can't be
taken away from you by a better fighter. If he comes to the door, wave
it in his face, and if he tries to shoulder his way in, slap him across
the face a couple of times with it, until he gets the idea. No court in
the world will convict you for defending your home against a
housebreaker, as long as you don't hurt him permanently.
> the next day we were taking a shower at my pad and she got all
> bent because I didn't have ant clean towels,
You're seeing another side of her, and she sounds like a nag.
But that is how gf's behave. And soon she'll be your roommate, because
she needs to get away from the asshole ex-bf. Rescue her from the
prick, and you'll be her white knight, for which she will reward you
handsomely.
> I think that there are some hidden issues about the roommate/ex bf.
Only the fact that she can't disengage from him. They've broken up,
but are trapped in the same apt.
> 1) Dump the hb (which I normally would do but I really like this one,
> and it makes the most sense.
Except that you've just seen another side of her. The dump day may
come, but until then, there's sex to be had.
> 2) Tell her how I feel and how I want to be treated from here on out
> and don't be afraid to lose her.
Tell her how you feel and how you want to be treated, and then seize the
upper hand by threatening to dump her if she doesn't comply.
> 3) Make sure I have enough clean towels when she comes over
Now you're getting the idea. But be prepared, because once the laundry
is done, the dishes are next, then the vacuuming and dusting. There's a
rumor going around that women find men who do housework sexy. I haven't
checked its veracity yet, and I need a test case. You game?
> she can take one home to the Ex bf
Say this to her with a twinkle in your eye, and she should get a laugh
out of it. It'll show her how little you care what he thinks.
> the Ex bf she is most likely still banging.
He's history. When a girl takes a new man, the old one screams in pain,
at being forced to let her go. Those fits he throws are a sure sign of
his powerlessness, and he's just driving her away faster by screaming at
her.
> (wtf am I thinking)
Quite logically, it seems to me.
d_long
I just want to say thank you for you advice it really has come to pass
in a good way. I just think I was lacking patience and I really needed
to keep up on my house work. She just came over last night and we
hooked it up. I cleaned the pad it really needed it any way. I usually
have a rule were I never let them come back to the pad, just for
situations like this but like I said I really dig this chick. The only
thing that i am worried about is if the chick find my nlp alpha/
hypnosis reading / audio material I have so much of it is hard to hide
but I think if she found it she wouldn't know what it would be in the
first place. I definitely need to come up with some type of plan incase
something were to be found any help?
Bald Geezer
news:1109213001.3...@l41g2000cwc.googlegroups.com:
> I just want to say thank you for you advice it really has come to pass
> in a good way. I just think I was lacking patience and I really needed
> to keep up on my house work. She just came over last night and we
> hooked it up. I cleaned the pad it really needed it any way. I usually
> have a rule were I never let them come back to the pad, just for
> situations like this but like I said I really dig this chick. The only
> thing that i am worried about is if the chick find my nlp alpha/
> hypnosis reading / audio material I have so much of it is hard to hide
> but I think if she found it she wouldn't know what it would be in the
> first place. I definitely need to come up with some type of plan
> incase something were to be found any help?
I don't have any nlp/hypnosis stuff, but I've found that when chicks
stumble onto my seduction books, they usually approve. The vibe I get
is that, if a guy reads up on the subject, he must be learning
something, which would then make him a better seducer. Since chicks
like seducers, it must be good. They seem to put it all together pretty
quickly.
But you don't need them now, 'cause you're getting action. You can box
'em up, write "old homework" on it and bury it in the attic if you want.
Then just sit on it as insurance against a breakup.
So whatever happened to the ex-bf?
usen...@hotmail.com
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