I'm 24 years old. I have neighbor (female) who is my old friend from school days. Sometimes she invite me to talk and to drink coffee. Well, we are just that - old friend from school or neighbors. She's not attractive girl and nothing going on between us.
But her mum is another story. She have ~45 years (and have husband) and she look great, very attractive. She doesn't look like ~45 years old women. Every time when her "daughter" leave room, she change "story" and start "sweet talks", want to show me something and then move close to me .... she coquetry with me. Well, I think so(?). Even when "daughter" is in the room, when she leave it she walk close and scratch slightly my head or my shoulder.
I don't know how to find out what she really think. Maybe she just play with me?!
What/how to do? How can I find out what she thinks? I don't have any idea how to start talk with her about this?
Can someone give me advice about "story"; how to start conversation to find out what she want?
Mario, you will need to isolate her to find out more. This would be like asking her to come over and help you cook some complex recipe where you need her help.
Then you need to touch her whenever she touches you. So if she touches your arm or shoulder, you touch hers.
Then you need to ask her something sexual, but somewhat vauge. Like, "How many days a week should a guy my age be having sex?"
If she says "7 days a week" then you know she is interested in you. Tell her "I don't have a girlfriend right now so can I practice with you?"
Yes, this may seem corny to you, by older women just need a little opening from you and then they will take charge and you will have lots of fun.
> I'm 24 years old. I have neighbor (female) who is my old friend from school > days. Sometimes she invite me to talk and to drink coffee. Well, we are just > that - old friend from school or neighbors. She's not attractive girl and > nothing going on between us.
> But her mum is another story. She have ~45 years (and have husband) and she > look great, very > attractive. She doesn't look like ~45 years old women. > Every time when her "daughter" leave room, she change "story" and start > "sweet talks", want to show me something and then move close to me .... she > coquetry with me. Well, I think so(?). > Even when "daughter" is in the room, when she leave it she walk close and > scratch slightly my head or my shoulder.
> I don't know how to find out what she really think. > Maybe she just play with me?!
> What/how to do? > How can I find out what she thinks? > I don't have any idea how to start talk with her about this?
> Can someone give me advice about "story"; how to start conversation to find > out what she want?
> Mario, you will need to isolate her to find out more. This would be > like asking her to come over and help you cook some complex recipe > where you need her help.
> Then you need to touch her whenever she touches you. So if she > touches your arm or shoulder, you touch hers.
> Then you need to ask her something sexual, but somewhat vauge. Like, > "How many days a week should a guy my age be having sex?"
> If she says "7 days a week" then you know she is interested in you. > Tell her "I don't have a girlfriend right now so can I practice with > you?"
> Yes, this may seem corny to you, by older women just need a little > opening from you and then they will take charge and you will have lots > of fun.
> Let us know how it goes.
Well, I was talk to her before I saw your post. Maybe I have wrong approach!
She, me, coffee. She start that she know/hear about some girl who was sleeping with older man (she talk about that for 10-15 min), but someone find about that and that make some problem .... bla, bla, bla... After she talk about all that, I said that "I like her and is it possible that something happen between us. And that no one need to know. I will not talk about that." And she said that this wasn't good idea. I ask why, and answer was that she was raised in Catholic spirit and stuff like that. We talk about something else for 20 min and I leave.
Did I miss something here? She touch me, talk about young girl and older man having sex, and then talk about Catholicism?
