Hi, are there any hopes of romance for short guys? I've come to realize that in the pick and choose game, the short guy is the least likely to be picked by either the girl or their parents, no matter what his personality is or how good a person he is. Besides jumping down the golden gate and hope that the next life is taller, are there any hints or suggestions? anything I can do to improve the probability? Any success stories? FYI, I am no seduction expert, I am 25, my dating skill is merely entry level college, ie, I get hurt too easily and it takes me a long time to recover. I am certainly not bad looking, just short. :-( I am doing pretty good careerwise (ie, not a millionear but makes a fairly decent living). I am somewhat quiet, though I am trying very hard to change that.
I would like to believe that there is a person is out there for everyone, but it just seems less and less likely that I will ever find anyone like that.... I've gone through some semi relationships and it just seems hopelessly depressing.
They key is to stop caring about your height, treat it as an after thought.. joke about it,
***look people in the eye when you talk (at ALL times)***
and throw on a little bit of a guilt trip if they give any indication of a height bias without sounding the least bit bitter... if you want to make a physical difference I suggest body building or some form of martial arts. The idea is to give you a tougher image.
Hi, are there any hopes of romance for short guys? I've come to realize that in the pick and choose game, the short guy is the least likely to be picked by either the girl or their parents, no matter what his personality is or how good a person he is. Besides jumping down the golden gate and hope that the next life is taller, are there any hints or suggestions? anything I can do to improve the probability? Any success stories? FYI, I am no seduction expert, I am 25, my dating skill is merely entry level college, ie, I get hurt too easily and it takes me a long time to recover. I am certainly not bad looking, just short. :-( I am doing pretty good careerwise (ie, not a millionear but makes a fairly decent living). I am somewhat quiet, though I am trying very hard to change that. I would like to believe that there is a person is out there for everyone, but it just seems less and less likely that I will ever find anyone like that.... I've gone through some semi relationships and it just seems hopelessly depressing. Anyway, thanks for reading and have a good day.
<--------Your only real hope is to find that rare, exceptional woman who will overlook your lack of height and keep her long-term. Women hold short men in contempt for the most part. Many of the beliefs they have about short men are downright disturbing. They see short men as literally less MANLY than tall men. Even more disturbing is how short men take this emotional beating. Rather than point out how STUPID it is for women to judge men on the basis of height, they let women get away with this by continuing to respect their oppressors, often under the false hope that having a "positive attitude" (denial is postiive now it seems) will win the women over.
I used to have sympathy for short men until I realized if they are not going to fight for their own causes, there's not much that will change. I'm 6'2" so I benefit from this stupidity, but that doesn't make it any more valid. ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj.
No, there is no hope at all. Just ask Jimmy Cagney, Edward G. Robinson, Napoleon, Danny DeVito, Ian Holm, Michael J. Fox, et cetera, et cetera! : ) Peach
> Hi, are there any hopes of romance for short guys? I've come to > realize that in the pick and choose game, the short guy is the least > likely to be picked by either the girl or their parents, no matter > what his personality is or how good a person he is. Besides jumping > down the golden gate and hope that the next life is taller, are there > any hints or suggestions? anything I can do to improve the > probability? Any success stories? FYI, I am no seduction expert, I am > 25, my dating skill is merely entry level college, ie, I get hurt too > easily and it takes me a long time to recover. I am certainly not bad > looking, just short. :-( I am doing pretty good careerwise (ie, not a > millionear but makes a fairly decent living). I am somewhat quiet, > though I am trying very hard to change that.
Height will not affect how well you end up doing if you have skill in conversation, capturing and leading a woman's imagination. Just being happy, relaxed and experimenting with different aspects of seducing women will help, but developing the skillset that allows you to make choices is a must.
> I would like to believe that there is a person is out there for > everyone, but it just seems less and less likely that I will ever find > anyone like that.... I've gone through some semi relationships and it > just seems hopelessly depressing.
> Anyway, thanks for reading and have a good day.
Gee, I'm 6'2" and I went through the same feeling - except not about my height. It was my ability to attract and keep a good woman, without her finding me wanting in some important aspect and leaving me. I got over it. I got married, then happily divorced. Now I am seeing women in a whole new light. Heck, even my ex likes me! Check out this link: http://juridica.ut.ee/~anton/layguide/ for information on how to sharpen your skills at communicating with women in a way that you are in control of yourself, and seduction is a choice, not a chore. HTH Vince
> Check out this link: http://juridica.ut.ee/~anton/layguide/ > for information on how to sharpen your skills at communicating with women in > a way that you are in control of yourself, and seduction is a choice, not a > chore.
> Hi, are there any hopes of romance for short guys? I've come to > realize that in the pick and choose game, the short guy is the least > likely to be picked by either the girl or their parents, no matter > what his personality is or how good a person he is. Besides jumping > down the golden gate and hope that the next life is taller, are there > any hints or suggestions? anything I can do to improve the > probability? Any success stories? FYI, I am no seduction expert, I am > 25, my dating skill is merely entry level college, ie, I get hurt too > easily and it takes me a long time to recover. I am certainly not bad > looking, just short. :-( I am doing pretty good careerwise (ie, not a > millionear but makes a fairly decent living). I am somewhat quiet, > though I am trying very hard to change that.
> I would like to believe that there is a person is out there for > everyone, but it just seems less and less likely that I will ever find > anyone like that.... I've gone through some semi relationships and it > just seems hopelessly depressing.
> Anyway, thanks for reading and have a good day.
The perfect male partner for the tango is only 1 inch taller than his female partner. Learn to tango.
I will be honest, a lot of women prefer a taller man, but really, if you have a good personality and she is attracted to you and likes you...she won't go look elsewhere just because you are shorter than her.
I know a girl, she is beautiful, could get just about any man and right now she is with someone who is goodlooking, but short. At first I was surprised. When I've talked to her in the past about men she always stresses that she likes tall men. So, it just goes to show that when it comes right down to it, you won't be ditched over height alone. If you have bad luck with women try looking within yourself instead of blaming it on your height.
Just a thought! Sara CEO, GetRomantic.com http://www.GetRomantic.com Dating, romance and relationship ideas and advice!
> In article <8k3fvq$no...@agate.berkeley.edu>, > ch...@csua.Berkeley.EDU wrote:
> > Hi, are there any hopes of romance for short guys? I've come to > > realize that in the pick and choose game, the short guy is the least > > likely to be picked by either the girl or their parents, no matter > > what his personality is or how good a person he is. Besides jumping > > down the golden gate and hope that the next life is taller, are there > > any hints or suggestions? anything I can do to improve the > > probability? Any success stories? FYI, I am no seduction expert, I am > > 25, my dating skill is merely entry level college, ie, I get hurt too > > easily and it takes me a long time to recover. I am certainly not bad > > looking, just short. :-( I am doing pretty good careerwise (ie, not a > > millionear but makes a fairly decent living). I am somewhat quiet, > > though I am trying very hard to change that.
> > I would like to believe that there is a person is out there for > > everyone, but it just seems less and less likely that I will ever find > > anyone like that.... I've gone through some semi relationships and it > > just seems hopelessly depressing.
> > Anyway, thanks for reading and have a good day.
> The perfect male partner for the tango is only 1 inch taller than his > female partner. Learn to tango.
