age and dating? 4 years too much?
Jeremy
june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from
her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but
never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely,
lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
thx in advance,
Jeremy
Infidel
wrote:
Ask YOUR parents first, then ask HER parents. Otherwise they will be
your enemies. 14 and 17, YES, too much. 21 and 25, no problem. Get
it?
Infidel
The Steel Wolf
<toot...@midwest.net> scripsit:
>i just turned 17, she turns 14 in june
<snip>
>does 4 years really mean that much?!
In my opinion? At the ages you're talking about, it makes a vast
difference. If you're just talking about friendship it's a different
matter entirely, but age differences at this point in your life are
going to be very significant. The teenage years are a time of very
great and rapid changes. Personally, I just think that the difference
between 13 and 17 would place a great and possibly insurmountable
obstacle in the way of any romantic relationship. Sorry :(
Dethstryk
I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
Oddly enough, my name is Jeremy, too.
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Bobby
>[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
>
>> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
>> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
>> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
>> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
>> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
>
>I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
>Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>Oddly enough, my name is Jeremy, too.
>
>--
>Dethstryk aa #75C
> BAAWA Knit
>My band, Flatline -> http://flatline.neethost.com/
>Winner of the maky m. "Dumbest Atheist Ever" Award
>
>"There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly
>what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear
>and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There
>is another theory which states that this has already happened."
>- Douglas Adams
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
They say God made land and gave it all to man
This I know is mighty good and true
There is no God but God
And he knows everything you do
So just you call on him
And he'll share his love with you
God Bless,
Bobby
Steven Schrader
> >
> >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> >
> >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
> >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
> >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
> >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> >
> >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
> >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>
> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
AFAIK it's not that simple.
Later,
---
Steven Schrader
The Musician's Homepage - http://www.themusicianshomepage.com/
"See simplicity in the complicated
Achieve greatness in little things." - Lao Tsu
Dethstryk
>> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
>> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>>
>> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed
the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into
a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual
misconduct.. whatever that is.)
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completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools."
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Bobby
"Dethstryk" <jema...@tcainternet.com> wrote in message
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> [alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digi...@enteract.com):
>
> >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's
a
> >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> >>
> >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> >
> > AFAIK it's not that simple.
>
> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed
> the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get
into
> a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual
> misconduct.. whatever that is.)
Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
>
> --
> Dethstryk aa #75C
> BAAWA Knit
> My band, Flatline -> http://flatline.neethost.com/
> Winner of the maky m. "Dumbest Atheist Ever" Award
>
> "A common mistake that people make when trying to design something
> completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools."
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being 18 and dating even a 16 year old.
maturity is a big gap. of course it depends on each person
individually, but pray about it. pray hard. and if god gives the go ahead,
then ask both sets of parents, defintely.
Dustin
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T
Jeremy <toot...@midwest.net> wrote in message
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A 17 year old and a 13 year old? ummmmm..weird. All I can say is if I were
her older brother, i'd beat you to a pulp.
T
Charos
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I'd be cautious about it...when I was 18 I was dating a 23 year old...but
there's a big difference in maturity between 14 and 18...if my 13 year old
sis was going for a 17 year old I'd be pretty pissed...but that's my
personal emotional response...isn't to say it's absolutely right.
--
*+_Charos_+*
"Love is all we have
Love is all we need"
--The Tea Party
Dan McGregor
> On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
>
> > >
> > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> > >
> > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
> > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
> > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
> > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > >
> > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
> > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> >
> > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
It depends on where you are. Here, in Canada, the age of consent is
14, so in June, he's safe; before that, it's considered statutory
rape. It's also only illegal if they sleep together, no less.
Corli Meiring
"Jeremy" <toot...@midwest.net> wrote in message
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it would work out. Later on, we both realised it would be hard and decided
to wait until we were older. In the end, I fell hopelessly in love with my
current boyfriend and there is NO way I'll ever go out with the other guy, I
realised he's not my type.
Anyway, that's just my life. I think you should just be friends for now,
get to know each other. Go to a movie, enjoy yourselves, but I wouldn't
suggest a relationship before you really know each other. Good luck!
wersh
<jema...@tcainternet.com> wrote:
>[alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digi...@enteract.com):
>
>>> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
>>> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>>>
>>> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>>
>> AFAIK it's not that simple.
>
>It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed
>the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into
>a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual
>misconduct.. whatever that is.)
You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
--
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http:\\www.wersh.com
Dethstryk
>> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they
>> changed the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I
>> couldn't get into a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in
>> trouble for sexual misconduct.. whatever that is.)
>
> You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
It'd be hard to really prosecute that, unless they have "corruption" well
defined.
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Bobby
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And a whole slew of other things probably, unless he minds his p's and q's.
>
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> [alt.religion.christian-teen] wersh (Z...@wersh.com):
>
> >> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they
> >> changed the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I
> >> couldn't get into a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in
> >> trouble for sexual misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> >
> > You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
>
> It'd be hard to really prosecute that, unless they have "corruption" well
> defined.
Corruption should be defined by the common law of that state. Look it
up in past cases. A judge must follow the precedent set by previous
judges.
That is, of course, if the USA is like Canada and other British Common
Law countries.
Tweety
Steven Schrader wrote:
>
> On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
>
> > >
> > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> > >
> > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
> > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
> > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
> > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > >
> > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
> > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> >
> > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
Um, what does AFAIK mean?
>
> Later,
> ---
> Steven Schrader
> The Musician's Homepage - http://www.themusicianshomepage.com/
> "See simplicity in the complicated
> Achieve greatness in little things." - Lao Tsu
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======
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No one is fanatically shouting that the sun is going to rise tomorrow.
When people are fanatically
dedicated to political or religious faiths or any other kinds of dogmas
or goals, it's always because these dogmas or goals are in doubt."
--excerpt taken from "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance"
Tweety
Bobby wrote:
>
> >
> >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> >
> >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
> >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
> >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
> >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> >
> >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
> >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>
> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>
A person is not considered an adult at 19, so it would not be illegal.
And where did he say he was having sex??? Anyway, even if they are, I
thought it would only be considered statutory rape IF one was older than
21.
> >Oddly enough, my name is Jeremy, too.
> >
> >--
> >Dethstryk aa #75C
> > BAAWA Knit
> >My band, Flatline -> http://flatline.neethost.com/
> >Winner of the maky m. "Dumbest Atheist Ever" Award
> >
> >"There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly
> >what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear
> >and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There
> >is another theory which states that this has already happened."
> >- Douglas Adams
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
> They say God made land and gave it all to man
> This I know is mighty good and true
> There is no God but God
> And he knows everything you do
> So just you call on him
> And he'll share his love with you
>
> God Bless,
> Bobby
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> > [alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digi...@enteract.com):
> >
> > >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's
> a
> > >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > >>
> > >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > >
> > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> >
> > It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed
> > the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get
> into
> > a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual
> > misconduct.. whatever that is.)
>
> Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
HUH?
> >
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> >
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> > > [alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digi...@enteract.com):
> > >
> > > >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago.
She's
> > a
> > > >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > >>
> > > >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > > >
> > > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> > >
> > > It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they
changed
> > > the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get
> > into
> > > a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for
sexual
> > > misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> >
> > Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
>
> HUH?
Perhaps I confused you. It was a joke, You see some people have a
steorotypical belief that Arkansas, and the South in general, permits this
kind of behavior. Like 25 year olds marrying 14 year olds and that kind of
stuff.
> > >
> > > --
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> > >
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> > > completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete
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<mbo...@mylink.net> scripsit:
>A person is not considered an adult at 19, so it would not be
>illegal. And where did he say he was having sex??? Anyway, even if
>they are, I thought it would only be considered statutory rape IF
>one was older than 21.
Most states have ages of consent that are lower than 18. In a lot of
them I think it's 16. In one state I think it goes as low as 14.
Statutory rape laws tend to differ quite a bit between the states as
well. So it would all depend on where the poster is located.
The Steel Wolf
<mbo...@mylink.net> scripsit:
>Um, what does AFAIK mean?
As Far As I Know.
Steven Schrader
> Steven Schrader wrote:
> >
> > On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
> >
> > > >
> > > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> > > >
> > > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns
> > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles
> > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in
> > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > > >
> > > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a
> > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > >
> > > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> >
> > AFAIK it's not that simple.
>
> Um, what does AFAIK mean?
As Far As I Know
Bobby
Steven Schrader wrote:
> > > On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
> > >
> > > > >
> > > > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> > > > >
> > > > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she
turns
> > > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15
miles
> > > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each
other in
> > > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie
> > > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > > > >
> > > > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago.
She's a
> > > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > >
> > > > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > >
> > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> >
> > Um, what does AFAIK mean?
>
> As Far As I Know
Ok, but what does ROFL mean? That's one I've been having real trouble with.
>
> Later,
> ---
> Steven Schrader
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> Steven Schrader wrote:
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> > > > On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
> > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toot...@midwest.net):
> > > > > >
> > > > > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she
> turns
> > > > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about
15
> miles
> > > > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each
> other in
> > > > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a
movie
> > > > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that
much?!
> > > > > >
> > > > > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago.
> She's a
> > > > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > > >
> > > > > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > > >
> > > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> > >
> > > Um, what does AFAIK mean?
> >
> > As Far As I Know
>
> Ok, but what does ROFL mean? That's one I've been having real trouble
with.
rolling on the floor laughing (my arse off)
rofl(mao)