okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
On Fri, 21 Dec 2001 04:18:00 GMT, "Jeremy" <toott...@midwest.net> wrote:
>okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 in >june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from >her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but >never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely, >lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
>thx in advance,
>Jeremy
Ask YOUR parents first, then ask HER parents. Otherwise they will be your enemies. 14 and 17, YES, too much. 21 and 25, no problem. Get it?
anno Domini Fri, 21 Dec 2001 04:18:00 GMT, "Jeremy" <toott...@midwest.net> scripsit:
>i just turned 17, she turns 14 in june <snip> >does 4 years really mean that much?!
In my opinion? At the ages you're talking about, it makes a vast difference. If you're just talking about friendship it's a different matter entirely, but age differences at this point in your life are going to be very significant. The teenage years are a time of very great and rapid changes. Personally, I just think that the difference between 13 and 17 would place a great and possibly insurmountable obstacle in the way of any romantic relationship. Sorry :(
[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
Oddly enough, my name is Jeremy, too.
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>[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
>> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
>I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
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> >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
AFAIK it's not that simple.
Later, --- Steven Schrader The Musician's Homepage - http://www.themusicianshomepage.com/ "See simplicity in the complicated Achieve greatness in little things." - Lao Tsu
[alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digia...@enteract.com):
>> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual misconduct.. whatever that is.)
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> [alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digia...@enteract.com):
> >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed > the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into > a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual > misconduct.. whatever that is.)
Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
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speaking from experience... being 18 and dating even a 16 year old. maturity is a big gap. of course it depends on each person individually, but pray about it. pray hard. and if god gives the go ahead, then ask both sets of parents, defintely.
> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 in > june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from > her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but > never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely, > lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 in > june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from > her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but > never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely, > lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> thx in advance,
> Jeremy
A 17 year old and a 13 year old? ummmmm..weird. All I can say is if I were her older brother, i'd beat you to a pulp.
> Jeremy <toott...@midwest.net> wrote in message > news:YJyU7.5510$Cw3.666794@newsread2.prod.itd.earthlink.net... > > okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 > in > > june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from > > her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but > > never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im > lonely, > > lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > thx in advance,
> > Jeremy
> A 17 year old and a 13 year old? ummmmm..weird. All I can say is if I were > her older brother, i'd beat you to a pulp.
I'd be cautious about it...when I was 18 I was dating a 23 year old...but there's a big difference in maturity between 14 and 18...if my 13 year old sis was going for a 17 year old I'd be pretty pissed...but that's my personal emotional response...isn't to say it's absolutely right.
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> > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
It depends on where you are. Here, in Canada, the age of consent is 14, so in June, he's safe; before that, it's considered statutory rape. It's also only illegal if they sleep together, no less.
> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns 14 in > june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles away from > her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in person but > never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie together...im lonely, > lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> thx in advance,
> Jeremy
I had the hots for a guy 6 yrs older than me last year, and I was convinced it would work out. Later on, we both realised it would be hard and decided to wait until we were older. In the end, I fell hopelessly in love with my current boyfriend and there is NO way I'll ever go out with the other guy, I realised he's not my type.
Anyway, that's just my life. I think you should just be friends for now, get to know each other. Go to a movie, enjoy yourselves, but I wouldn't suggest a relationship before you really know each other. Good luck!
<jemar...@tcainternet.com> wrote: >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digia...@enteract.com):
>>> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a >>> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
>>> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
>> AFAIK it's not that simple.
>It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed >the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into >a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual >misconduct.. whatever that is.)
You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
>> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they >> changed the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I >> couldn't get into a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in >> trouble for sexual misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
It'd be hard to really prosecute that, unless they have "corruption" well defined.
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> On Sat, 22 Dec 2001 11:08:25 -0000, Dethstryk > <jemar...@tcainternet.com> wrote:
> >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Steven Schrader (digia...@enteract.com):
> >>> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > >>> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> >>> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> >> AFAIK it's not that simple.
> >It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed > >the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get into > >a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual > >misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
And a whole slew of other things probably, unless he minds his p's and q's.
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> >> It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they > >> changed the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I > >> couldn't get into a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in > >> trouble for sexual misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> > You could also get in trouble for the corruption of a minor.
> It'd be hard to really prosecute that, unless they have "corruption" well > defined.
Corruption should be defined by the common law of that state. Look it up in past cases. A judge must follow the precedent set by previous judges.
That is, of course, if the USA is like Canada and other British Common Law countries.
> > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> AFAIK it's not that simple.
Um, what does AFAIK mean?
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> >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
A person is not considered an adult at 19, so it would not be illegal. And where did he say he was having sex??? Anyway, even if they are, I thought it would only be considered statutory rape IF one was older than 21.
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> >"There is a theory which states that if ever anybody discovers exactly > >what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear > >and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There > >is another theory which states that this has already happened." > >- Douglas Adams
> They say God made land and gave it all to man > This I know is mighty good and true > There is no God but God > And he knows everything you do > So just you call on him > And he'll share his love with you
> God Bless, > Bobby
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> > >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's > a > > >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> > It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed > > the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get > into > > a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual > > misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
HUH?
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> > > >> > I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's > > a > > > >> > Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > >> Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> > > It depends on the state. I live in Arkansas, and apparently they changed > > > the laws back in 1997. Unless I interpreted them wrong, I couldn't get > > into > > > a statutory rape situation. (However, I could get in trouble for sexual > > > misconduct.. whatever that is.)
> > Of course it isn't your in Arkansas.
> HUH?
Perhaps I confused you. It was a joke, You see some people have a steorotypical belief that Arkansas, and the South in general, permits this kind of behavior. Like 25 year olds marrying 14 year olds and that kind of stuff.
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anno Domini Mon, 31 Dec 2001 18:38:26 -0500, Tweety <mbo...@mylink.net> scripsit:
>A person is not considered an adult at 19, so it would not be >illegal. And where did he say he was having sex??? Anyway, even if >they are, I thought it would only be considered statutory rape IF >one was older than 21.
Most states have ages of consent that are lower than 18. In a lot of them I think it's 16. In one state I think it goes as low as 14. Statutory rape laws tend to differ quite a bit between the states as well. So it would all depend on where the poster is located.
On Mon, 31 Dec 2001, Tweety wrote: > Steven Schrader wrote:
> > On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
> > > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> > > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> Um, what does AFAIK mean?
As Far As I Know
Later, --- Steven Schrader The Musician's Homepage - http://www.themusicianshomepage.com/ "See simplicity in the complicated Achieve greatness in little things." - Lao Tsu
Steven Schrader wrote: > > > On 22 Dec 2001, Bobby wrote:
> > > > >[alt.religion.christian-teen] Jeremy (toott...@midwest.net):
> > > > >> okay folks, here's the clean hard facts...i just turned 17, she turns > > > > >> 14 in june...im a christian, she's a christian...i live about 15 miles > > > > >> away from her, i met her on the internet, we've now seen each other in > > > > >> person but never actually talked...we both want to go to a movie > > > > >> together...im lonely, lol...does 4 years really mean that much?!
> > > > >I'm 19, and dating a girl who just turned 15 a few months ago. She's a > > > > >Christian, I'm an atheist. Four years is fine. ;)
> > > > Not legally, That could be considered rape ya know?
> > > AFAIK it's not that simple.
> > Um, what does AFAIK mean?
> As Far As I Know
Ok, but what does ROFL mean? That's one I've been having real trouble with.
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